The KYLO Show

By: Loving on Purpose Bleav
  • Summary

  • Welcome to The KYLO Show, a weekly podcast hosted by Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell. Join us as we answer your questions and share practical tools for building and protecting healthy relationships. This podcast is your guide for how to Keep Your Love On no matter what and pass on legacy to the next generation. Tune in to discover how whole healthy families are going to save the world!
    © 2024 The KYLO Show
    Show more Show less
Episodes
  • Building Boundaries and Belonging
    May 5 2025

    Whether you’re single, parenting adult children, or recovering from relational pain, this episode is packed with wisdom for staying powerful in the face of disconnection. Recorded live at Eden Church in Newcastle, Washington, Danny and Brittney answer real audience questions about singleness, narcissism, motherhood, boundaries, and healing from toxic relationships. They share stories, scriptures, and practical tools for cultivating healthy identity, confronting manipulation with courage, and protecting connection without enabling dysfunction. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants to build strong relationships without losing themselves.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

    • Why the KYLO 5 is essential—especially when you’re single.

    • How to create joy-filled, life-giving relationships that align with your purpose.

    • What real boundaries look like when dealing with manipulative or toxic adult children.

    • How to differentiate between your role and God's role in your child's life.

    • Why Jesus is the ultimate model of healthy boundaries.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Singleness isn’t waiting—it's preparation: Cultivating self-love, healthy community, and clear boundaries now sets the stage for healthy connection later.

    • Love isn’t enabling: Setting boundaries with someone you love—even your child—isn’t cruelty, it’s wisdom.

    • You are not your child’s savior: Your job is to love them, not rescue them. Trust Jesus to be who only He can be.

    • Boundaries aren’t rejection: They’re protection—for you, and for the relationship.

    • Jesus had perfect boundaries: He never violated another person’s will, even in crisis. He honored self-control and invited ownership.

    Join the Conversation:

    Have you had to set a hard boundary with someone you love? How did you stay connected without being controlled? We’d love to hear your story. Connect with us online or submit a question at www.thekyloshow.com.

    Stay Connected:

    Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
    Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
    Instagram: @brittneyserpell

    Show more Show less
    22 mins
  • When Feedback Fails: How to Stay Powerful with Defensive People
    Apr 21 2025

    What do you do when your feedback is met with stonewalling, shutdowns, or accusations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney return with more live Q&A from their tour stop in Newcastle, Washington, tackling tough questions about feedback, conflict, narcissism, and relational disconnect. Through personal stories and real-life coaching moments, they offer wisdom for navigating relationships where feedback feels impossible and disconnection seems inevitable. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a one-sided relationship or struggled to confront dysfunction in love, this episode will equip you to stay powerful, connected, and courageous.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

    • What to do when someone resists or shuts down your feedback.

    • How to stay calm, clear, and connected when emotions run high.

    • Why asking “What did you hear me say?” is a game-changer for clarity.

    • The difference between repentance and self-justification in broken trust.

    • How to approach accusations of narcissism in a culture that overuses the term.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Don’t confuse judgment for feedback: True feedback is sharing your experience, not labeling or controlling the other person.

    • Safe connection takes time: If someone has never experienced feedback as love, they may need consistent safety before they engage.

    • Stay powerful, even when others aren’t: You get to choose self-control, honor, and clarity, regardless of how the other person responds.

    • Build trust with repetition: Healing relational dynamics takes practice, courage, and time—not a one-time conversation.

    • Repentance isn’t promises—it’s change: When trust is broken, words don’t restore it—consistent changed behavior does.

    Join the Conversation:

    Have you ever struggled to give feedback to someone who wouldn’t receive it? What helped you stay connected and powerful? Let us know by leaving a review or connecting on socials.

    Stay Connected:

    Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
    Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
    Instagram: @brittneyserpell

    Show more Show less
    18 mins
  • Live from New Castle: How to Stay Connected Even When Emotions Run High
    Apr 7 2025

    When fear, anger, and disconnection enter a relationship, it’s easy to slip into control, self-protection, or power struggles. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney answer live audience questions from the KYLO Show Tour and talk about the battle to stay connected even when emotions run high. They share personal stories about rebuilding trust in marriage, navigating conflict with respect, and overcoming deception in relationships. If you want to create a culture of love, accountability, and healthy communication, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and encouragement.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

    • How to stay courageous when building trust in a wounded relationship.

    • Why connection—not control—should be your goal in conflict.

    • Practical ways to manage fear and anger without damaging connection.

    • How to recognize and respond to deception without breaking relationship.

    • Why feedback, accountability, and a listening posture protect healthy connection.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Connection heals fear: Staying connected in the middle of conflict is more powerful than rushing to fix or control the situation.

    • Courage builds trust: Committing to connection, even when you feel hurt or scared, transforms relationships over time.

    • Self-awareness is key: Recognizing your own fear, anger, or self-justification is critical to building safe, lasting connection.

    • Feedback protects growth: Inviting honest feedback and staying accountable to others helps you stay out of deception and isolation.

    Join the Conversation:

    Where have you experienced the power of connection in the middle of conflict? We’d love to hear your story! Share with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message.

    Stay Connected:

    Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
    Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
    Instagram: @brittneyserpell

    Show more Show less
    25 mins
adbl_web_global_use_to_activate_webcro805_stickypopup

What listeners say about The KYLO Show

Average customer ratings
Overall
  • 5 out of 5 stars
  • 5 Stars
    2
  • 4 Stars
    0
  • 3 Stars
    0
  • 2 Stars
    0
  • 1 Stars
    0
Performance
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • 5 Stars
    1
  • 4 Stars
    1
  • 3 Stars
    0
  • 2 Stars
    0
  • 1 Stars
    0
Story
  • 5 out of 5 stars
  • 5 Stars
    2
  • 4 Stars
    0
  • 3 Stars
    0
  • 2 Stars
    0
  • 1 Stars
    0

Reviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.