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Not Well

By: Bobby Jim & Friends
  • Summary

  • Join Bobby and Jim on 'Not Well', where fearless conversations meet humor and wisdom in an explosion of topics ranging from the latest celebrity gossip to the intricacies of gay issues and politics. With Bobby's unconventional wisdom, often fueled by his adventures with edibles, leading us into the most random and taboo subjects you'd never dare to bring up, and Jim's sharp intellect providing insightful commentary, there's never a dull moment.

    Our podcast is a bold, inclusive space that welcomes gay men, straight women, and straight men alike, especially those who are curious about a wide array of discussions—including the candid exploration of sex and men's bodies. Bobby and Jim create a safe haven for laughter, connection, and sometimes the outright bizarre, ensuring our listeners feel happy, engaged, and part of a larger community.

    Every Wednesday or Thursday we dive deep into everything under the sun, from the most controversial topics to the day-to-day quirks of life. Our unique content mix, featuring listener voicemails and the funniest Tik Toks, complements our discussions, making 'Not Well' more than just a podcast—it's a movement towards embracing our not-so-perfect selves.

    Subscribe now and join our community where being 'not well' is celebrated, and discovering the joy in life's randomness is a weekly adventure. Experience the dynamic duo of Bobby's wild tangents and Jim's smart insights, and see why our listeners can't get enough of our unapologetic take on the world.

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Episodes
  • You Can't Put Your Own C*ck On A Pedestal | Not Well Podcast (Gay Hosts)
    Apr 25 2024

    In this episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim engage in a candid and freewheeling conversation that spans a wide array of topics, reflecting their podcast's ethos of exploring hot topics and deep dives into various societal issues. Their dialogue traverses the lighthearted to the serious, offering both humor and insight.


    Key Subjects Covered:

    1. Lifestyle and Leisure:
      The episode opens with a casual and relaxed tone as the hosts discuss their enjoyment of a rare Friday off, marked by beer drinking and anticipatory chatter about a weekend getaway. This segues into a broader discussion on leisure activities, personal preferences in beverages, and plans for future tattoos, highlighting their personal lives and interests.
    2. Social and Cultural Commentary:
      Bobby and Jim delve into more provocative territory, discussing societal norms and cultural phenomena. They offer opinions on everything from the social implications of tattooing to the dynamics of modern relationships and social interactions.
    3. Mental Health and Emotional Well-being:
      A significant part of the conversation turns towards mental health, with the hosts sharing personal anecdotes about coping with stress and emotional upheaval. They discuss the therapeutic effects of discussing personal issues openly, whether through humor or serious reflection.
    4. Travel and Adventures:
      The discussion includes detailed planning about their trip to New York, where they talk about not just the logistics but also the emotional significance of travel and its role in their lives, offering listeners a mix of travel tips intertwined with personal stories.
    5. Humor and Edgy Commentary:
      True to the podcast's nature, the conversation often veers into edgy and dark humor. The hosts explore topics that might be considered inappropriate in more formal settings, such as jokes about personal habits, nightlife, and even poking fun at societal expectations and norms.


    Detailed Exploration:

    Throughout the episode, Bobby and Jim maintain a dynamic and engaging dialogue that keeps the listener entertained and involved. Their conversation is punctuated with laughter, comedic timing, and an evident chemistry that highlights their long-standing friendship and shared history.

    They touch on the importance of authenticity in media and personal expression, subtly critiquing the often sanitized nature of public discourse. The episode is not just about sharing laughs but also about the deeper connection that comes from sharing real-life experiences and opinions, however controversial they may be.

    The hosts' discussion about mental health is particularly poignant, offering a blend of personal vulnerability and supportive camaraderie that many listeners might find both relatable and comforting.


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    56 mins
  • I Don't Care If You Identify As A Goddamn Hobbit With Size D T*ts And A D*ck
    Apr 18 2024

    The recent episode of "Not Well" offers a rich tapestry of discussions that traverse a wide array of experiences and reflections, encapsulating both the personal and the universal aspects of the gay experience. Early in the episode, a candid discourse emerges around the persistent fears of contracting HIV—a fear deeply ingrained from their youth, reflecting the enduring anxiety surrounding the disease despite advancements in medical understanding and treatment. This is juxtaposed with a lighter, though no less complex, exploration of bathhouse culture, where anonymity and adventure collide, offering a glimpse into the less-discussed corners of gay social life.

    As the episode unfolds, the conversation pivots to relational dynamics, particularly the caution advised when younger gay men interact with significantly older men. This topic opens a broader discussion on the nuances of mentorship, exploitation, and companionship within the community. In a shift towards the personal, the hosts share a humorous yet telling incident from a family group chat that surprises everyone involved, revealing the unexpected ways in which modern technology can alter family interactions. This familial theme is tenderly expanded as they reminisce about the bonding experiences between grandparents and grandchildren, illustrating the threads of connection that span generations.

    Midway through the episode, the dialogue takes a whimsical turn with discussions about living out a fantasy life with a hypothetical $10 million, and the comedic yet poignant mishaps during a karaoke session involving offensive language, highlighting the social sensitivities and the sometimes-blurred lines between humor and offense. The episode also delves into cultural trivia with a debate on what exactly corned beef is, proving that even the most mundane topics can spark engaging banter. As the hosts recount their adventures walking to a gay bar and the stark differences in perceived attractiveness standards in Columbus versus NYC, they unpack the complex interplay of beauty, body image, and self-esteem within the gay community.

    Concluding the episode, discussions become introspective and critical as the hosts discuss vacation planning around sexual adventures, punctuality in social engagements, and the evolving dynamics on platforms like Grindr regarding gender identity and tucking. These conversations not only reflect personal growth and community changes but also challenge the listeners to think about acceptance, respect, and the diverse ways of being within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. The episode wraps up with plans for a trip to New York City in June, promising more stories, reflections, and undoubtedly, a few misadventures, cementing "Not Well" as a podcast that both entertains and enlightens its audience.

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    54 mins
  • Earthquakes Won't Stop Banjee Bitches from Smoking Candy Cigarettes on the Front Porch or Having A Sexual Revolution
    Apr 11 2024
    In a particularly engaging episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim delve into a rich tapestry of topics, highlighted by Bobby's recent escapades in New York City and Jim's distinct take on several universally relatable subjects. The episode is a vibrant mix of humor, personal stories, and societal observations that listeners have come to love and expect from the duo.

    Bobby kicks things off with an enthralling recount of his New York City adventures, from the vibrant gay nightlife at the Eagle to an unexpected experience of an earthquake. His stories of freedom, sexual exploration, and candid social interactions in the city's bars provide a deep dive into personal liberation and the complexities of identity expression in such open environments.

    Jim, not to be outdone, steers the conversation towards a lighter, yet equally thought-provoking direction, discussing the peculiar charm of candy cigarettes. This leads to a nostalgic journey back to childhood, questioning the impact of such products and the oddities of marketing strategies aimed at children.

    Front porch parties come under Jim's scrutiny next, where he humorously contrasts them with their backyard counterparts, drawing on personal anecdotes to illustrate the unique social dynamics they foster. Jim's reflections are a humorous ode to community gatherings and the subtle societal cues that dictate our social interactions in these spaces.

    The conversation takes another turn as Jim shares his musings on Shih Tzu dogs, adding a dose of humor to the episode. His comedic take on pet preferences and the personalities of different dog breeds elicits laughter while subtly questioning why we gravitate towards certain pets.

    Throughout the episode, a hilarious incident involving the TSA and a personal item of Bobby's offers a moment of comic relief, highlighting the absurdities often encountered during travel. This story ties back to the overarching theme of the episode: navigating the unexpected with humor and grace.

    00:00:00 - Introduction and playful banter about upcoming trip and bear parties
    00:03:09 - Reaction to a voicemail about JVN's appearance and past
    00:10:34 - Allure and societal implications of candy cigarettes
    00:16:49 - shih tzu and bacon.
    00:19:57 - Reflections on front porch parties.
    00:23:29 - Encounter with TSA over a personal item
    00:23:51 - Coining the summer's hottest insult: "Creole banjee bitch."
    00:39:29 - Exploration of sexual freedom and experiences at a gay bar in NYC.
    00:45:33 - Earthquake experience in NYC, adding an unexpected twist to the trip.
    00:52:00 - Delving into the vibrant food and culture scene in Brooklyn.
    01:00:00 - The energy and excitement of attending a jo

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    1 hr and 9 mins

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