This episode helps you discover if YOU have a problem with alcohol.

Most people have an image in their minds about what someone with an alcohol problem looks like.

And for most of my clients they don't match that description.

Often people who want to cut back get pushback from their loved ones who don't understand why they are focusing on cutting back when 'they don't understand, you don't do anything bad, or nothing bad is happening from your drinking.'

Sometimes these external messages confuse our desire to cut back or quit.

You might then tell yourself, 'I work full-time, take care of the kids, take care of everything, surely I can have a couple glasses of wine at the end of the day!'

And then you dismiss your own truth.

This episode dives into this and helps you understand YOUR situation with alcohol better so you can remain clear on what you want and then can clearly communicate to others if you need to.

If you are struggling and haven't been able to make the changes you want on your own, please get help.

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You deserve to move past whatever issue you are having with alcohol.

The people who get help are more successful, don't wait any longer!

Ep 275 Navigating Skepticism: What to Do When Loved Ones Dismiss Your Desire to Cut Back:
https://www.angelamascenik.com/podcasts/stop-over-drinking-and-start-living/episodes/2148585758

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This episode dives into what to do when someone you care about shares that they don’t think you need to cut back or wishes you wouldn’t cut back or dismisses your desire to quit or cut back.

Mostly, when people dismiss your desire to cut back it’s just because they don’t want to cut back.

They don’t want anything to change. So when you say you are going to do something differently, it often will make them look at their own habits around alcohol. And they might unconsciously feel a bit threatened about their own attachment to alcohol.

What really matters is that YOU acknowledge you want to cut back and that you do something about it.

And that it’s not black and white. Just because you don’t present like a down and out alcoholic doesn’t mean that your alcohol consumption isn’t a concern to you.

If you think you drink too much and it’s been hard to cut back, it needs to be addressed.

Don’t let someone else’s opinion deter your desire to cut back. You know if it’s too much and that is what matters.

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This is a HOT episode friends, you must listen ASAP.

Have you secretly done something for someone else whit it's really what YOU want?

Truth telling time!

You must turn in to hear about this very sneaky behavior that I'm guessing WE ALL SHARE.

Especially, people pleasers!

I share a story of when I recently asked my son if he wanted donuts and discovered that I was doing that because I WANTED DONUTS.

He didn't even ask about donuts, but I pretended it was something that he would have wanted and put myself in a situation that probably wasn't the best for me.

You must tune in and listen to hear what happened!

It's also the delusion of altruism.

People with active addictions will tell themselves all sorts of stories 'it's for them!' 'I'm being a good host' 'it's what a good host does' 'they would appreciate this' 'I know they love xxx'

We mask our own desires with pretending it's for someone else.

Learn how to recognize if you are doing this and how to step out of it!

Enjoy and I'd love to hear your own story of doing this!

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