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Enlightened By Dogs: Living with Cooperation, Not Obedience

By: Kathy Kawalec
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  • Welcome to our podcast where we dog moms discuss modern, enlightened dog parenting! Each week, we’ll take a dive deep into the human-dog connection and explore strategies that will inspire you to create connection and cooperation with your dog...no obedience training needed! We meet up at the intersection where training and behavior meet Heart and Soul...and where we leave behind the 'power over' obedience training paradigm we inherited and lead the way to an enlightened 'power with' approach. Join us for an inspirational and educational journey as we explore what living in cooperative partnership with our beautiful dogs looks like in real life. Brilliant Partners are kind, loving, calm, clear, confident, and cooperative ... and when WE learn how to be a Brilliant Partner, our dogs do too. Kathy Kawalec is an author, writer, the founder of Dancing Hearts Dog Academy and creator of the Brilliant Partners Academy, The Foundation Formula, Herding Partners Academy, and Creative Alchemy Passion Plan.
    ©Kathy Kawalec | Dancing Hearts LLC
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  • EBD304 Using Personality Traits as a Bridge to Connection and Cooperation with Your Dog
    Apr 29 2024

    Our dog’s personality traits offer a roadmap to their heart and mind, allowing us to work with their nature for deeper connection, smoother communication, and better cooperation.

    Every dog is an individual, and knowing what makes your dog tick can be the key to unlocking a harmonious relationship. 🗝️💖 Understand their personality traits, and you'll understand how to communicate effectively and cooperate joyfully. 🐕💬

    Dive deeper into how to connect with your dog on a whole new level by tuning into this episode with Kathy.

    Tune in to explore:

    • The Importance of Understanding Sensitivity: Learn how misinterpreting sensitivity as something that needs to be 'fixed' can cause stress and escalate disruptive behaviors.

    • Personality Traits as a Roadmap: Understand how your dog’s personality traits offer valuable insights into their heart and mind.

    • Diffusing Reactivity Through Understanding: Real-world examples of how adjusting environments and interactions according to personality traits can make a big difference.

    Practical Strategies for Everyday Challenges: Get actionable advice on how to apply your understanding of personality traits in daily life.

    LOVE TO LEARN MORE?

    Become a calm and confident Dog Mom with a cooperative, happy dog ... without obedience training, or relying on treats or arousing games, or corrections of any type.

    Here are some next steps:

    SUBSCRIBE to Kathy’s YouTube Channel:

    https://www.youtube.com/c/DancingHeartsDogAcademy/videos

    LISTEN or READ Kathy’s Podcast and Blog on her Website:

    https://dancingheartsdogacademy.com/

    GET STARTED work with Kathy:

    https://dancinghearts.link/foundation

    LET’S CONNECT on the socials for more partnership tips and advice:

    -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dancinghearts/

    -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kathykawalec/

    LISTEN TO PODCASTS:
    Subscribe to the Enlightened By Dogs podcast in your favorite app! Don’t forget to leave us a rating and review – it would make Kathy very happy!

    Subscribe on  Apple Podcasts | Listen on Spotify

    Connect on Facebook: facebook.com/dancinghearts/

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    24 mins
  • EBD 303 Diffuse Reactivity by Embracing Your Dog's Sensitivity
    Apr 22 2024

    In this episode of Enlightened by Dogs, we explore the topic of understanding and navigating the sensitivities, preferences and quirks that affect our daily lives with our dogs.

    Here’s what we unpack in today’s episode:

    Understanding Mindset: We begin by exploring what a mindset is and how it influences our interactions with the world and our dogs. Your beliefs and perspectives can significantly impact the success of your relationship with your dog.

    Exploring Our Sensitivities: I invite you to think about your own sensitivities. Whether it's loud noises or crowded spaces, recognizing your own needs helps you empathize with your dog's sensitivities to their environment.

    Empathy and Acceptance: How do we make simple adjustments to accommodate our personal sensitivities, and what happens when these are either dismissed or accepted by others? This understanding is crucial in fostering a nurturing relationship with our dogs, who also experience their own set of sensitivities.

    The Social Nature of Dogs and Humans: Highlighting the similarities between humans and dogs as social animals, and we discuss how our relationships can flourish when we acknowledge and respect each other’s sensitivities.

    Practical Tips for Managing Sensitivity: I share four very simple, yet very effective strategies for creating a supportive and safe environment for your sensitive dog. From ensuring safety to enhancing connection, these tips are designed to help you and your dog lead a happier, more connected life.

    As always, your thoughts and experiences are invaluable to our community. Share this episode, leave a review, and join the conversation to help spread awareness about compassionate living with our dogs.

    LOVE TO LEARN MORE?

    Become a calm and confident Dog Mom with a cooperative, happy dog ... without obedience training, or relying on treats or arousing games, or corrections of any type.

    Here are some next steps:

    SUBSCRIBE to Kathy’s YouTube Channel:

    https://www.youtube.com/c/DancingHeartsDogAcademy/videos

    LISTEN or READ Kathy’s Podcast and Blog on her Website:

    https://dancingheartsdogacademy.com/

    GET STARTED work with Kathy:

    https://dancinghearts.link/foundation

    LET’S CONNECT on the socials for more partnership tips and advice:

    -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dancinghearts/

    -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kathykawalec/

    LISTEN TO PODCASTS:
    Subscribe to the Enlightened By Dogs podcast in your favorite app! Don’t forget to leave us a rating and review – it would make Kathy very happy!

    Subscribe on  Apple Podcasts | Listen on Spotify

    Connect on Facebook: facebook.com/dancinghearts/

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    24 mins
  • EBD302 Nurturing Trust: Beyond Avoiding Triggers
    Mar 25 2024

    In this episode, we journeyed further into the heart of understanding the unintended consequences of avoiding triggers and how such actions can inadvertently escalate reactivity in our dogs.

    Be sure to listen to part 1: EBD301 “Shrinking Worlds, Growing Reactivity: Why Avoiding Triggers Backfires.”

    One of the insights from this discussion is that trust is not transactional, and we can’t buy trust from our dogs at any price. Instead, trust is earned through consistent, reliable actions that demonstrate to our dogs that they are safe with us and can rely on us to navigate the world around them.

    With a focus on fostering trust and safety, we delved into why genuine connection, rather than distraction, is key to a harmonious life with our four-legged friends.

    Key Takeaways from the Episode:

    • Trust Cannot Be Bought: One of the most profound insights from our discussion is the reminder that trust is not transactional.

    • The Problem with Avoiding Triggers: We examined how avoiding triggers—although well-intentioned—sends a message to our dogs that the world is a place to be feared.

    • Being Congruent: When our actions, feelings, and intentions are aligned, we foster an environment of trust and safety with our dogs.

    • The Power of Connection: Central to our discussion was the idea that a strong, secure connection with our dogs is the foundation upon which all else is built.

    LOVE TO LEARN MORE?

    Become a calm and confident Dog Mom with a cooperative, happy dog ... without obedience training, or relying on treats or arousing games, or corrections of any type.

    Here are some next steps:

    SUBSCRIBE to Kathy’s YouTube Channel:

    https://www.youtube.com/c/DancingHeartsDogAcademy/videos

    LISTEN or READ Kathy’s Podcast and Blog on her Website:

    https://dancingheartsdogacademy.com/

    GET STARTED work with Kathy:

    https://dancinghearts.link/foundation

    LET’S CONNECT on the socials for more partnership tips and advice:

    -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dancinghearts/

    -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kathykawalec/

    LISTEN TO PODCASTS:
    Subscribe to the Enlightened By Dogs podcast in your favorite app! Don’t forget to leave us a rating and review – it would make Kathy very happy!

    Subscribe on  Apple Podcasts | Listen on Spotify

    Connect on Facebook: facebook.com/dancinghearts/

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    35 mins

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Pj and 3 pups

Kathy gets to the heart of living with our family dogs. This episode is a explains the truths of what it really means to have a safe, calm, and happy lifestyle for yourself, your family, and the pets we live. A must listen to podcast. Thank you Kathy for saying all the important golden gems. ❤️💚

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