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Not My Type

By: Melea Irby and Jack Houser
  • Summary

  • The Enneagram of Personality, viewed scientifically for the first time.
    Melea Irby and Jack Houser
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Episodes
  • Exposed vs. Shielded - Wings on Attachment Types
    Feb 21 2024

    Jack and Jessica share the difference in their findings between Attachment fixes with Frustration wings and Attachment fixes with Rejection wings.


    0:56 - Attachment Types have either a Frustration wing or a Rejection wing

    2:34 - Introduction of Eugene

    3:05 - Commonality of Attachment fixes

    3:45 - Shielded types - Attachment with Rejection wings

    4:32 - Exposed types - Attachment with Frustration wings

    5:27 - Eye contact

    6:12 - Why Frustration types are not exposed

    9:32 - 3w4 appearing self-conscious

    10:23 - Jessica's experience being double exposed

    13:20 - Single vs. double exposure

    13:40 - Social-blindness ruining eye contact

    15:44 - Exposed types feeling uncomfortable

    16:51 - Jack being obsessed with eye contact

    20:34 - Contrasting exposed and shielded iterations of the same type


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    25 mins
  • Object Relations - Heads or Tails?
    Feb 14 2024

    Jack and Jessica discuss a model of Object Relations manifesting on a quarter.


    0:40 - Overview / review of Object Relations

    3:00 - Assertive Types (3, 7, 8) and the Nurturing Object

    4:09 - Compliant Types (1, 2, 6) and the Protecting Object

    6:08 - Withdrawn Types (4, 5, 9) and the Belonging Object

    7:53 - Hexad vs. Triangle

    9:27 - Using a quarter as an "object" lesson: Frustration and Rejection as two sides of the same coin

    13:53 - Attachment Types continuing connection to their Objects

    15:54 - 7 and 8 having opposite affects toward the Nurturing Object

    17:13 - Hexads per Center of Intelligence as inversions of each other

    20:56 - Jack vocalizing his opinions

    22:15 - Triangle types ending up somewhere they didn't intend to be

    24:46 - Hexad types having already toppled / landed

    25:37 - Attachment Types refusing to individuate

    27:49 - Difference between the life journeys of triangle types and hexad types

    30:36 - Jessica's real-time Frustration

    33:40 - Sample of a past argument


    Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ to check out our site, where you can read our ⁠⁠⁠data-informed type descriptions⁠⁠⁠, learn about ⁠⁠⁠our perspective⁠⁠⁠, and most importantly, ⁠⁠⁠get typed⁠⁠⁠ behaviorally!

    Join our ⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠ for conversations about the Enneagram from a scientific lens!

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    37 mins
  • Saltburn - Enneagram Analysis
    Jan 31 2024

    Jack and Jessica discuss the movie Saltburn, unpacking the type structures of the characters and overall Enneagram themes throughout the film.


    0:40 - How actors' types distort the intended types of the characters they play

    2:06 - Overall themes of Saltburn

    3:11 - Summary of the film

    4:28 - Emerald Fennell (director / screenwriter)

    6:25 - Oliver

    9:00 - Felix

    12:40 - Elspeth

    16:00 - Venetia

    18:20 - Sir James

    18:55 - Duncan

    19:45 - Farleigh

    23:36 - Michael

    24:50 - Pamela

    27:00 - sx-blind audience's reactions to Saltburn's shocking scenes

    28:35 - Mythological imagery

    29:57 - Attachment types in crisis

    31:25 - Emerald's 7-1 link incorporating long-game foreshadowing

    32:37 - Ignorance of British aristocracy

    33:45 - Elspeth being double positive

    34:53 - sp-blind's world being highly external / relational

    35:30 - Oliver's unbelonging

    36:25 - Felix's tour of Saltburn

    38:08 - sx/so's singular attention in making a new friend


    Click here to check out our site, where you can read our data-informed type descriptions, learn about our perspective, and most importantly, get typed behaviorally!

    Join our Facebook group for conversations about the Enneagram from a scientific lens!

    We make stupid memes and educational content on TikTok, too.


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    41 mins

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