From Stuck to Unstoppable: Strategies for Personal Breakthroughs

To overcome feeling stuck, it is crucial to provide your brain with clarity and direction. In this podcast episode, Tonya Leigh emphasizes the importance of giving clear instructions and goals to your brain. She shares that when she felt stuck while recording the episode, it was because she lacked the direction and clarity needed to move forward.

Tonya also stresses the significance of setting extraordinary goals to combat feeling stuck. Many individuals struggle with this because they have not determined what they truly want. By establishing clear and specific goals, individuals can give their brains a sense of purpose and direction, enabling them to progress and break free from feeling stuck.

Tonya highlights how perfectionism can hinder progress and steal time. By letting go of the need to be perfect and focusing on taking action, individuals can overcome the fear of imperfection, make decisions, and move forward in their personal and professional lives.

Join Tonya as she delves into why we get stuck and how to move forward with purpose and intention.

Talking Points:

01:24 - Clarity and Direction for Getting Unstuck
02:18 - Choosing an Extraordinary Goal
03:42 - Discomfort of Change
07:21 - Acceptance and Authenticity
08:03 - The Trap of Perfectionism
09:07 - Embracing Where You Are
10:00 - The Analogy of Water Skiing
11:46 - Letting Go of the Rope
13:22 - Creating Desired Feelings
14:48 - Moving Towards Desired Emotions

Quotes:

"You don't know what you're trying to create. And the reason why the majority of you don't know is because you're afraid of the answer."

"Perfectionism will not only steal your time, it will steal your life."

How Your Environment Shapes Your Self-Image

Let's delve into the psychology of space and how our environments can shape our self-image. Tonya shares personal experiences of how different homes she has lived in reflect her inner world and how she uses her spaces to evolve her own self-image. She discusses the importance of using our spaces intentionally to change how we feel and see ourselves. By making small changes in our homes, we can align our spaces with who we want to become. She also emphasizes the power of using our spaces as tools for personal growth and transformation. Overall, the episode highlights the significance of our environments in influencing our self-image and provides practical tips for using our spaces to support our personal development journey.

Talking Points:

• 00:00:00 - Introduction to the Psychology of Space

• 00:05:30 - Reflecting on the Story of Different Homes

• 00:10:38 - Personal Style and Home Decor Preferences

• 00:15:04 - Using Spaces to Change Self-Image

• 00:18:39 - Bridging the Gap Between Current Space and Desired Self-Image

• 00:22:17 - Blooming in Your Current Space

Quotes:

"Our environments are shaping us and we shape our environments."

"Our homes are more than just physical spaces. They are literally mirrors that reflect our inner world."

"Red is very fiery, very passionate. And let me tell you, that was me. And not in a good way."

"If you want to see yourself as a woman who is fit and healthy, imagine what her kitchen looks like. Imagine what her pantry looks like."

"I'm going to clean this up and I'm going to organize it. And I'm going to keep it that way to send the message to my brain of this is who I am."

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Connect with Self-Image Coach, Tonya Leigh:

• Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com

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• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial

• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetonyaleigh

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From Negative to Neiman: Upgrading Your Thought Wardrobe

To enhance your life and mindset, it is essential to intentionally select and upgrade your thoughts to higher quality ones. In a podcast episode, Tonya Leigh stresses the significance of being mindful of the thoughts we entertain daily. She classifies thoughts into different levels, ranging from "Goodwill thoughts" inherited from past experiences to "Neiman Marcus thoughts" that are of superior quality and more empowering.

Tonya urges the audience to evaluate their current thought patterns and beliefs, highlighting that negative or outdated thoughts can hinder individuals and impact their overall well-being. By deliberately choosing thoughts that align with their values, dreams, and desires, individuals can cultivate a more positive and empowering mindset.

Join Tonya as she takes you thorugh her thought clloset and inspire listeners to consciously select empowering beliefs and shed outdated or limiting ones to cultivate a more positive, resilient, and fulfilling mindset.

Talking Points:

• 03:02 Personal style transformation.
• 05:04 Choosing thoughts intentionally.
• 10:35 Upgrading your thoughts.
• 16:15 Couture thoughts.
• 20:45 Thoughts about myself.
• 22:11 Embracing Your Uniqueness.
• 29:44 Thoughts about money.
• 32:56 Money mindset transformation.
• 38:51 Life as a game.
• 42:59 Feeling bad cannot stop magic.
• 45:09 Thoughts on love and relationships.
• 48:46 The Royal Treatment.

Quotes:

"Girl, I am feeling like yesterday's fries."

"I'm going to bloom where I'm planted. I'm going to really show up in this position, in this role, and I'm going to give it my all because it matters."

"Money is fun, which is in my thought closet. And money doesn't solve the problems that people are trying to use money to solve the problem for."

"I love believing that failure is what dreams are built upon."