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Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

By: Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram
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  • There is so much great and life-changing information about sex and intimacy, but let’s face it, it can be dry as hell! Intimacy expert and sexologist Shan Boodram takes a deep dive into anything and everything about sex, relationships, and the science of attachment every week with expert guests and friends who will tell all. It’s everything The Talk should be.
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  • 105: Kelly Rowland on Sex, Kink, Divorce and Repressed Desires
    Feb 26 2024
    Kelly Rowland, you read right. This is a CAN NOT MISS, special release Lovers and Friends episode with Shan Boodram AND it is best experienced after you watch Mea Culpa now streaming worldwide on Netflix. In this intimate, first-of-its-kind conversation Kelly Rowland shares how she went from a sexually repressed upbringing to living up to her pleasure potential as a sensualist, plus how her sexual awakening gave her the confidence to play Mea in Mea Clupa alongside Trevante Rhodes, whom she shares very STEAMY sex scenes with on screen. Kelly also discusses her feelings on divorce, kink, toys in the bedroom, and overcoming the fear of being imperfect.

    Watch the trailer to Mea Culpa
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p0g9YfjJSA

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    56 mins
  • 104: Ride Our Emotional Roller Coaster: The Concluding Episode of Lovers & Friends
    Dec 27 2023
    Welcome to (some of) the best of Lovers and Friends the podcast. Hear from JESSIE REYES, MELISSA AND KEV OnSTAGE, ABBY DE LA ROSA, SHANOLA HAMPTON, TIM Chantrangsu aka DE LA GHETTO, DREW LOVE from THEY, RACHEL LINDSAY and GLO ATANMO during this special recap episode.


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    GLO ATANMO
    https://youtu.be/lbIaM09t0ZU?si=GtWZkCBspPlmUA8f
    https://open.spotify.com/episode/1W4xrpdCh0V3OwXZCYt1bO?si=mJNj1rxcQ7a333AUmgsqMA

    JESSIE REYES
    https://youtu.be/7IbgI3-s7Ps?si=j0CL3b8gYqsNbqFe
    https://open.spotify.com/episode/2w3jYgkVIgg2eQoYWuALhp?si=8q3ptyfKQbWn9FrrY3bZTA

    MELISSA AND KEV
    https://youtu.be/hrMVcujhg1A?si=idb7xnDq8TX1aBh_
    https://open.spotify.com/episode/4NjXUyZ5suDL3ytxUALFV8?si=gg3B7zvfQnm5nS9XUpkyZA

    ABBY DE LA ROSA
    https://youtu.be/aq8290G52_I?si=oaI5d_ALvuj82z9V
    https://open.spotify.com/episode/5AM2X8zNwmgV3koVtgemPC?si=pzqGDEw3QMCe8Awx9eFK7Q

    SHANOLA HAMPTON
    https://youtu.be/J7PZakvvdCo?si=LDSbtyjNTKuNmZ1u
    https://open.spotify.com/episode/2pHr7jrSj7iQTZlsbIUoYV?si=-pk8WovdSbqLLyrXDrRpRg

    TIM DE LA GHETTO
    https://youtu.be/G6WYaHFOjEU?si=uDvI7cap3yCs0srq
    https://open.spotify.com/episode/0VuY52Ct9XS9Wua4dtupO6?si=ZFMbJEQOQ56IuBADlxm8og

    DREW LOVE
    https://youtu.be/bdooXjRGprY?si=AG3KL1r-wAfeb8Gm
    https://open.spotify.com/episode/39lGd7mxW9jvpGpOPYMKaj?si=ou8FILHeSGG7P21hCZwMog

    RACHEL LINDSAY
    https://youtu.be/bnEORZJD2pQ?si=LiHiZKFU1-_Cv8l6
    https://open.spotify.com/episode/1kN3P1KoHI3LcnLNRgzY76?si=faUIGN4ATUaLvewVQ3AjCQ

    HELP WHY CAN’T I ORGASM

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/2X8oEJMQ8JNSu6Psa53r7O?si=wJMEWu6vTmGpia1waTZ0Sw

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    1 hr and 28 mins
  • 103: Get the Fairytale You Need - Despite What You Think You Want feat. Damona Hoffman
    Dec 20 2023
    FUCK the fairytale! How does that land on you? Does it make you go FUCK YES we need to be realistic about love OR does it make you go FUCK NO I desire the fairytale and that’s what I’ll get. Well when dating coach Damona Hoffman suggests you F the Fairytale, she kinda wants you to feel both. Tired of the same old dating game and ready to find real, lasting love? Join us in this episode of FUCK the Fairytale as we explore what a true fairytale relationship looks like with expert dating coach Damona Hoffman. We’ll challenge outdated ideas of the ideal partner and redefine what happiness looks like in modern relationships. Don’t miss your chance to discover true love - watch now!

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    Follow Shan
    http://instagram.com/shanboodram
    http://tiktok.com/shanboody

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    1 hr and 8 mins

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More Please!!

I love this conversation. John Gotham says after 15 minutes of interacting with a couple, he is able to predict within 90% certainty whether the couple will 1. Stay together 2. Dissolve 3. Stay together HAPPILY. I feel like I am in a relationship similar to that of your parents. It is often "tumultuous" but we are utterly committed. I would love to hear more discussion around this topic. Is commitment enough when there's so much grief along the way, or is it possible for two opposites to transcend from commitment to... mutual balance? I am a long-time follower since early YouTube days, and I talk about your work all the time. Thank you for the thoughtful conversations and research you bring to my life. I love what you do and who you choose to be- often through public and vulnerable example. #respect
P.S. Thank you Bryan and Olivia for your openness and candor!

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You can tell the team who help make this podcast really enjoy working together. Shan Boodram has put together a unique format and dives into very intriguing conversations with her guests.

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Different Perspective

Thank you for this podcast! I love your podcasts soo much. This helped me have a different perspective of the guys I’ve been dating, especially because I’m in my late 20’s and it feels like no guy wants to commit yet won’t leave me alone and I’m like whyyy me lol. makes me realize that sometimes it’s not that deep and it is what it is dating in your 20’s 😂😅

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CNM or Poly people

I LOVED this episode ! It spoke to me directly as a woman who is learning about CNM and what I personally identify with. This episode (like All episodes in the Lovers and Friends podcast) are EXTREMELY knowledgeable Funny down to earth and MOST importantly to me, a SAFE SPACE. Please anyone who’s interested in sexuality Listen to this Podcast you won’t be disappointed!

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Late to the poddy…

Lovers and friends only got on my radar after following Mr/MrsKevOnStage but I am all in!!

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absolutely amazing

loved it I listened to it twice. I love learning from shan and appreciate how she makes me feel like I should be talking about everything with my partner.

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Love you SHAN

Everyone of your episodes are so put together, and so thought out well, I don’t know how anyone could beat that!

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