Episode Description:
In this insightful episode of The Peaceful Home Podcast, Pamela dives into the often misunderstood concept of patience in parenting. Contrary to popular belief, she explains that a lack of patience isn't the root cause of parental stress and frustration. Instead, the real issue lies in the regulation of our nervous systems. Join Pamela as she unpacks why emotional triggers, rather than patience, lead to feelings of overwhelm and stress. She provides practical steps for regulating your nervous system to create a calmer, more connected parenting experience.

Key Points:

• [00:00:00] Introduction and overview of the topic: patience in parenting.
• [00:01:45] Definition of patience and common areas where patience is necessary.
• [00:02:55] Distinguishing between events with and without emotional power.
• [00:04:24] How our brain processes events and the emotional power we assign to them.
• [00:08:02] Understanding triggers and their impact on our nervous system.
• [00:12:14] The cycle of reactivity and how past experiences influence present reactions.
• [00:14:25] The importance of regulating your nervous system for effective parenting.
• [00:15:48] The difference between old parenting strategies and modern understanding of attachment and connection.
• [00:16:55] Practical advice: focusing on regulation instead of patience.

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Welcome back to the Peaceful Home Podcast with Pam. In today's episode, Pam dives into the topic of triggers: what they are, why they happen, and how to handle them.

Understanding Triggers:

• Definition: Pam explains that triggers are our nervous system's reaction to events based on associated thoughts and emotions.
• Thoughts and Emotions: She highlights the importance of recognizing automatic negative thoughts (ANTs) and their role in triggering emotional responses.

Navigating Triggers:

• Brain Function: Pam discusses how triggers activate the survival-focused limbic system, limiting access to rational thought.
• Regulating the Nervous System: Pam shares simple breathwork techniques and methods for stimulating the vagus nerve to promote relaxation.

Empowering Change:

• Rewiring Responses: Pam encourages engaging in practices that retrain the nervous system's response to stress for improved resilience.
• Seeking Support: Listeners are invited to explore further resources and join the Align Mom Society for comprehensive guidance.

Conclusion:

Join Pam in the next episode as she continues to explore essential topics for creating harmony within the family. Take care until next time!

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Are you tired of the endless cycle of punishment and reward in parenting? Join Pam as she unveils the pitfalls of this outdated strategy and offers a refreshing perspective on building strong parent-child bonds without fear tactics. Discover how shifting your approach can transform your family dynamic and empower your children to thrive.

Key Points:

• Roots of Punishment and Reward: Pam discusses the traditional parenting model inherited from previous generations, emphasizing its fear-based nature and its prevalence in society.
• Consequences of Fear-Based Parenting: Pam addresses common fears parents have about abandoning punishment, debunking myths about consequences and children's development.
• Impact on Child Behavior: Pam explains how fear-based tactics can lead to children outmaneuvering parents, eroding trust in the parent-child relationship, and negatively affecting brain development.
• Promoting Connection and Resilience: Pam advocates for prioritizing connection over control, highlighting the importance of fostering resilience and emotional regulation in children.

Join Pam on a journey to reimagine parenting beyond punishment and reward. Embrace the power of connection and watch as your family thrives with newfound harmony and understanding.

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If you’re like “I love the Peaceful Home Podcast.” Please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here and scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

WORK WITH PAM 1:1

Did you know that Pam has been a therapist & coach working with women and families for 20+ years?

If you are looking for dialed-in coaching, to shift your relationships at home and beyond, and actually achieve your goals this year, book a consult to see how Pam can help you!

The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude