Slower learner | Take your life back after narcissistic abuse

Show Notes

DSD discusses the reality of it taking time to learn how futile it can be struggling to make a different in your life with a narcissistic ex. Duane shares how he continues to see people struggling with this concept. You get stuck in the mode EXPECTING justice and accountability. He shares how he hates to see people only learn this lesson after losing in court and then questioning why they even fought for it. Ultimately you have to take things slow and give yourself time to accept and see the reality of your situation. In the end focusing on your children and the relationship you have, and are building with them, is the key!

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Table of Contents

00:00:00 - Start

00:01:49 - New Topic

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00:18:46 - New Topic

00:25:18 - New Topic

00:31:19 - New Topic

00:36:13 - New Topic

00:46:15 - New Topic

00:50:19 - NEW CALLER

01:02:07 - CALLER END

01:03:39 - NEW CALLER

01:10:48 - NEW CALLER

01:12:16 - New Topic

01:19:05 - New Topic

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Taking care of yourself | hobbies are important!

Show Notes

In this episode Duane talks about the importance of having a hobby or something that you enjoy doing. He also talks about the struggles when you are down, depressed, and beaten with ways to push yourself to break yourself out of that downward spiral. He then fields questions from others on silver bullets, narcissists seeking control, being forced to spend time with the ex, and finally an update on his current medical situation.

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Table of Contents 

00:00 Start

02:55 - Welcome to the livestream

06:04 - Finding some positive to do hobbies

17:19 - Advice on handling message about school

21:20 - Narc fishing for control

29:57 - Supervised visits and lashing out

36:14 - Having to spend time with the ex

37:16 - When drop offs are late

39:54 - Silver bullet - supervised visits 

47:02 - Don't respond immediately

52:49 - Worry about kids and narcissism

59:41 - Paranoia and narcissists

01:01:27 - Graduations with ex

01:08:03 - Realizing you have narc friends

01:12:03 - Getting to the other side!

01:13:03 - Our child as abusers?

01:21:48 - Ex should be normal around kids

01:25:31 - Narc mom blaming you?

01:31:32 - Medical update on me

01:35:21 - End of show wrap-up

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Dealing with the pain is the only way to get through this

In this episode DSD starts with a clip from Brad Pitt talking about his experience of running from the pain and ultimately how he worked through it to take his like back! Duane has a discussion with the audience about their experiences and ways to approach things

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00:00 Start

03:24 New Topic

11:46 New Topic

28:56 New Topic

38:06 New Topic

43:07 New Topic

01:04:26 New Topic

01:10:17 New Topic

01:14:23 New Topic

01:16:18 New Topic

01:22:34 New Topic

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This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis

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