Social media platforms are notorious for their bite-sized content designed to grab attention quickly. However, this format often lacks nuance and depth. In the context of relationship advice like Todd's post, there’s no room to address individual circumstances or acknowledge that what works for one couple may be detrimental to another.

For those entangled in abusive dynamics—where manipulation skews perceptions—it’s essential to dissect whether compliance serves love or perpetuates control. It isn't about rejecting cooperation within a partnership; rather it's about safeguarding against coercion masquerading as compromise.

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In this episode, I speak openly about the red flags of abusive relationships.

For anyone feeling entrapped or seeking support in such situations, remember there are resources available to help navigate these turbulent waters—reach out if needed because sometimes validation can be the first step towards unburdening oneself completely.

Red Flags Discussed:

1. Denial of Abuse
2. Manipulation
3. Self-Doubt
4. Recording Evidence
5. Victim Mentality
6. Resistance to Ending Relationship
7. Reaction Suppression
8. Guilt Tripping
9. Fear of Saying No/Enforcing Boundaries
10. Body Language Discrepancies
11. Sexual Coersion

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Courtney Gilmartin is at the forefront of advocating change within family courts through her organization New Jersey Protective Moms. On this episode, Courtney brings invaluable insights in navigating the Family Court System that resonate not just in New Jersey but across all states.

The term "protective mom" might be unfamiliar to some; it refers to mothers who fight tooth and nail within a legal system that often fails to safeguard them or their children against abusers adept at manipulating proceedings.

Courtney shed light on how domestic abuse isn’t always recognized by those entrusted with justice due to gaps in training regarding coercive control—a subtler form of abuse than physical violence yet equally damaging.

Courtney has a wealth of information on her website: https://www.njprotectivemoms.org/

This is the resource list mentioned on the podcast: https://www.njprotectivemoms.org/resources

Follow her on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/courtney.gilmartin/

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