Welcome to the Holy Smokes podcast. In this emotional episode of Holy Smokes, our host, Steve Reiter, sits down with guest Mark Bendorf for a profound and heartfelt conversation. Mark shares his experiences with cigars, his love for family, and his challenges. From growing up near Camp Randall in Madison, Wisconsin, to serving in the Marine Corps and losing his son, the conversation delves into moments of joy, sorrow, and the celebration of life. Join us as Mark opens up about his son's passing, the simple joys of life, and his journey of faith, all while enjoying a cigar with Steve. This episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of finding joy amidst pain.

Outline:

(00:05) Childhood car parking business in Christian households.

(08:12) Madison's free zoo is meant for the community.

(11:50) Sister's friend leads to union apprenticeship at 27.

(16:39) Mother shocked and alarmed by son's death.

(22:13) Embraced and comforted a grieving group of kids.

(27:58) Respect individuality and give space for growth.

(36:38) Enjoying coffee and cigars, memorable moments shared.

(41:42) Christian artists, 60s/70s rock, some Michael Jackson

(45:13) The Family had a dog and a cat.

(49:43) Thankful for kids, family, friends, and parents.

(56:00) Dave presents the Bible in a disarming, loving way.

(01:00:24) Enjoy life, appreciate Christ's sacrifice, and keep it simple.

About the Guest: Mark Bendorf grew up just blocks away from where he would later become an entrepreneur. As a kid, he would park cars in his backyard for a small fee, which was a lucrative business for a young boy in the 1980s. Despite his early success, Mark was raised in a Christian home, with his father being Free Methodist and his mother Lutheran. When his family moved to Madison, they attended a Presbyterian church. This early experience of entrepreneurship and strong family values would shape Mark's future endeavors.

Welcome to Holy Smokes, the podcast where faith, friendship, tobacco, and drinks come together in meaningful and thought-provoking conversations. In this episode, our host, Steve Reiter, sits down with the inspiring Dave Bechtold and the engaging Mark Bendorf. Together, they delve into a wide range of topics, from childhood memories and personal growth to faith, community engagement, and the unique Holy Smokes gatherings. Journey with us as we explore the depth of Jesus, the mission of going beyond the church building walls, and the power of spreading hope and love in a world divided by politics and ideologies. Get ready for an episode filled with stories, insights, and a shared passion for cigars and pipes in the cozy setting of the Holy Smokes headquarters at Dave Bechtold's home lounge in Madison, Wisconsin.

Outline:

(00:00) Madison: a liberal town with unique politics.

(06:32) Relevance of God and hope in politics.

(16:07) Divine intervention led to successful kids ministry.

(19:02) Former churchgoer shares experience and impact of prayer.

(24:59) Rebellious teenagers become the center of attention.

(30:52) Expect the inevitable and maintain a positive attitude.

(38:17) A Young couple prioritized relationship grappled with religion.

(41:39) Dave was known for connecting with people.

(51:17) Sow seeds, build relationships, and spread good news.

(56:22) Neighbors connected over the fire, shared cigars and welcomed.

(59:09) Enjoying pipe smoking, trying Colorado blends, supporting local business.

(01:07:03) Not into Star Trek, but likes sports.

(01:12:25) Son perfected steak; now it's my favorite.

(01:17:21) Overcoming negativity through obedience to Jesus.

(01:22:45) Thankful for friends, wife, and gifts.

(01:29:32) Celebrating influential figures in spirituality and ministry.

(01:34:15) Christ's faithfulness is beautiful and often unnoticed.

About the Guest: Dave Bechtold is known for his love and passion for people, especially families and children. He is often described as having a heart for others and a genuine love for throwing parties to bring joy to those around him. Dave truly believes in the saying, "If you can find a job that you love to do, you'll never work a day in your life," and he exemplifies this through his work. His parties bring happiness and serve as a way for him to share God's love and show that the Lord is good. Dave's dedication to serving others and spreading joy through his work is a testament to his caring and compassionate nature

Welcome to Holy Smokes, where we delve into the compelling stories of faith, community, and personal growth. In this episode, we feature Dave Bechtold and Mark Bendorf, who share their experiences in Madison, Wisconsin, organizing events such as Holy Grounds and "Burgers and the Bible" with a mission to spread joy, hospitality, and the message of Jesus. They reflect on the impact of their work, from meaningful conversations to witnessing the transformative power of faith in people's lives. Moreover, they discuss their vision for a community of cigar smokers and bourbon enthusiasts as a platform to share spiritual growth and purpose. Stay tuned as we explore stories of hope, resilience, and the profound impact of faith in everyday lives.