Certified Intimacy, Sex, and Relationship Guide Andre Lazarus joins us this week for a conversation around building deeper intimacy within our relationships. This conversation highlights the nuances within intimacy and why it takes a willingness to explore what it means to each one of us. Andre also shares his definition of sex, erotic desire, and what it means to be multisexual. Celeste and Andre even get into how BDSM goes beyond pain & pleasure and why we need to have open communication around our boundaries and limits.

This episode is a reminder of the importance of enjoying experiences with the people who mean the most to us. If you’re looking to become a better lover, develop deeper intimacy within your life, and tap into your unique desires - make sure to tune in!

In this week’s episode, we discuss:

[01:25] About Andre Lazarus

[03:53] How Andre became an intimacy and sex coach

[07:25] What is a multisexual?

[10:52] Andre’s definition of sex

[12:51] Intimacy is more than just physical connection

[20:18] What is erotic desire?

[26:44] Ways to explore BDSM

[31:48] Communication, boundaries, and hard limits

[35:12] How can men become better lovers?

[40:01] Both people’s pleasure matters in a relationship

[42:36] It’s never too late to be happy or to try something new

[46:45] “Sometimes people just want to be heard”

[48:26] Andre’s favorite date

Connect with Andre:

Website

Instagram

“Talented Lover” Course

We have been getting Down and Dirty for two years and it’s time for some exciting changes! I have been leveling up in my career as a dating coach and Image Consultant and want to help you elevate your life with new topics and different guests. Tune in this week as I share all about the podcast rebrand I am thinking about making. And don’t worry, we will still be talking about sex!

Tune in and then DM me on Instagram @celestemooreimage with any feedback or guests that you would love to have on the podcast!

In this week’s episode we discuss:

[01:24] Pivots and shifts I am making in my business

[02:45] How can we help to elevate each other?

[03:54] The importance of leveling up in life

[04:49] This podcast is a place of value and vulnerability

[06:01] I would love your feedback - send me a DM on Instagram

We all know that dating has its challenges but our guest today reminds us of how fun and successful it can be when you have the right tools! Garin Flowers, entertainment reporter and stand-up comedian, joins us today for a conversation around romantic date ideas, the pros and cons of dating checklists, and why men need to leave a little bit of mystery to build a stronger connection. Garin also reminds us to be careful about the ways we talk about dating because our words manifest into our reality.

Whether you are struggling with dating, want to spice up your long-term relationship, or want tips to make your dating life more successful, this is a conversation that everyone can benefit from!

In this week’s episode, we discuss:

[01:33] About Garin Flowers

[03:06] How to get cast on The Bachelorette

[08:19] Romantic date ideas

[13:09] Leveling yourself up in life

[17:12] What are some key components of successful dating?

[20:41] The pros and cons of dating lists

[26:05] Getting to know someone before sleeping with them

[28:43] Leaving a little bit of mystery

[32:56] Women pursuing men is a turn-on

[35:28] Why are people still ghosting?

[39:15] Being a “master first dater” and building genuine connections

[43:13] Great first-date ideas

[47:33] What to talk about on a date

[50:13] Tricks for men who aren’t good at first dates

[52:30] Using “this or that” or “would you rather questions” on a second date

[54:39] Garin’s favorite date

[56:23] More great date ideas

Connect with Garin:

Instagram

YouTube