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Fighting for Connection - Creating a Secure Marriage

By: Brett Nikula LMFT
  • Summary

  • Want a close connected and secure relationship? Maybe you feel like something's not quite right in your relationship, even though there are a lot of good things. You and your partner love each other, but there are moments that hurt. It's normal for all relationships to experience conflict or worry. The difference between the couples that remain close and the couples that drift apart is their ability to work through conflict and moments of worry and insecurity within the relationship.

    Listen in to discover new ways to stay close and connected even through the toughest moments life throws at you.. Learn how to deal with your patterns of conflict and make your connection stronger. Simply listen, learn, make changes, and see positive transformations in your relationship.

    Brett Nikula is an LMFT and Relationship coach that works with couples that want to stay together, that really care about each other, learn to communicate in a way that reduces the pain in the relationship and increases the connection.

    © 2024 Fighting for Connection - Creating a Secure Marriage
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Episodes
  • The Power of Compassion
    May 20 2024

    When was the last time you stopped to consider the role compassion has played in your own journey through life? Join me, Brett Nikula, as I share how embracing compassion has been my cornerstone to Fatherhood. In "The Power of Compassion," I reveal the personal growth spurring from my professional endeavors, opening up about the compassion in my childhood from those close to my heart. From the Connected Couples Campus to the Save the Date program, I ponder their future while reaffirming my commitment to the therapeutic connections that have shaped us along the way. A childhood story about an errant basketball and a broken window serves as a striking metaphor for the unexpected lessons that leave indelible marks on our lives.

    This episode goes beyond stories; it's a call to action rooted in the concept of grace. I challenge us all to recognize the compassion we've been granted—often without merit—and the imperative to extend that same grace to those around us. It's a profound reminder that we can be vessels of love, transforming lives by sharing the same unconditional compassion that has molded us. As I encourage you through my own experiences, allow this perspective to resonate with you. It's more than a podcast; it's an invitation to spread the gift of compassion, one that promises to enrich your life and touch the souls of others.

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    12 mins
  • Wanting
    May 13 2024

    Have you ever found yourself searching for a place to belong, a tribe to call your own? Today's story takes you on a heartfelt journey of a young boy, illustrating a life lesson about the transformative power of being someone else's cheerleader. As I recount his quest for connection, I share how his pursuit of personal fanfare shifted to a discovery that true belonging comes from supporting those around us. This narrative opens our eyes to the impact of investing in relationships and the warmth of community that springs from genuine acts of care.

    This episode promises to inspire you to cultivate deep, enduring friendships by becoming an integral part of others' support systems. We'll navigate the beauty of human connection, emphasizing the significance of being present and the satisfaction derived from making others feel valued. The conversation is sure to leave you reflecting on your relationships and the ways you can deepen them through consistent, supportive actions.

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    12 mins
  • Your Spouse Can't Make You
    May 6 2024

    Have you ever caught yourself in the middle of an outburst, only to realize that you are, in fact, the master of your reactions? I, Brett Nikula, stumbled into such a revelation while grappling with a stubborn kitchen light – a humbling reminder that within the chaos of a frustrating moment, we choose how we respond. This episode is a heartfelt nod to you, the listener, celebrating the personal growth we've achieved and the deeper understanding we've cultivated about the choices that shape our relationships.

    Drawing from the wells of self-compassion and clarity, I delve into the transformative power of owning up to our behaviors in our closest relationships. By embracing the struggles within us, we unlock a newfound empathy for others and refine the way we communicate love and frustration alike. As we unpack the choice between personal responsibility or finger-pointing, I extend an invitation to visit the Connected Couples Campus for additional tools to support your journey. Tune in, and let's continue to be the pioneers of change in how we foster connection and intimacy with those who matter most.

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    12 mins

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