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Dating Unsettled

By: Joy Ofodu
  • Summary

  • Welcome to the Dating Unsettled Show where we dare to date differently hosted by Joy Ofodu, a Creative Executive who has reached millions of people with my original comedy content, voiceover and original stories. I am unsettled by my Nigerian culture’s expectations of dating. I’m unsettled by American dating norms and traumas. I harnessed my inner romantic and childhood dreams of a healthy BLACK relationship to author a new set of dating rules, ones that work for me, rules that made Black love not only possible but PROBABLE. I was going to fall in love, and I knew I would find it online. I refused to settle. I swiped on over 2,000 profiles, matched with over 150 fine young gentlemen and went on about 20 first dates with some amazing guys. You already got 50 apps in your phone baby, what’s one more? Dating Unsettled, where we dare to date differently. Make sure you’re subscribed anywhere where you can listen to podcasts. Follow me @joyofodu and follow the show @datingunsettled. It would help me tremendously if you would rate and review the show FIVE STARS. Thank you for your undying love and support
    2022
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Episodes
  • Say It Out Loud and Brown Girl Problems ft. Vasavi Kumar
    Apr 10 2024

    Joy interviews Vasavi Kumar (@mynameisvasavi) about her experiences as a Brown girl, divorcee, dater in her 40s and voice actor/author! The two really get into what it's like to grow up as immigrant kids in the U.S. with a media landscape that makes them feel Othered, with blonde white girls as the mold and parental criticism as the fire under their feet. They react to Joy's video about her voices in her head and self-talk, and chat about how you can re-frame dating woes.

    Say It Out Loud

    Using the Power of Your Voice to Listen to Your Deepest Thoughts and Courageously Pursue Your Dreams

    https://vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

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    40 mins
  • Dating as a Hot Funny Girl with a Dynamic Disability ft. Danielle Connolly
    Mar 21 2024

    Joy interviews Danielle Connolly (@_Daniellevates) about her experiences as a hotgirllll who just takes a lil bit more time getting out of chairs on dates! The two talk infantilization, common misconceptions, whether or not she discloses her disability and MORE! Yes, more.

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    • www.DatingUnsettled.com

    • YouTube: JoyOfodu

    • IG: @datingunsettled

    • TikTok: datingunsettled

    • Twitter: @datingunsettled

    • Connect with Joy

    • www.joyofodu.com

    • IG: @joyofodu

    • TikTok: joyofodu

    • Twitter: @joyofodu

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    36 mins
  • Love Is Blind Season 6: Thoughts and Patterns to Watch For
    Mar 11 2024

    Fun this week: DU has been featured by Apple Podcasts on TikTok and in curation with a new series! https://www.instagram.com/p/C4RXAGjPDM5/

    Ride through the latest Love Is Blind Season 6 drama with your favorite dating podcast host, Joy!

    In this episode, Joy spills the tea on all the jaw-dropping moments that have left us questioning both the concept of love and the sanity of the contestants.

    But hold on to your heartstrings, because Joy takes a deep dive into the not-so-romantic side of the show, character by character. She discusses the abusive behaviors she's witnessed, too.

    For reference - https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/power-and-control/

    Don't worry, it's not all gloom and doom! Joy also highlights the sweet, heartwarming moments that make us believe in the power of love.

    Follow the show and DM me your requests for bonus episodes!

    • www.DatingUnsettled.com

    • YouTube: JoyOfodu

    • IG: @datingunsettled

    • TikTok: datingunsettled

    • Twitter: @datingunsettled

    • Connect with Joy

    • www.joyofodu.com

    • IG: @joyofodu

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    36 mins

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