When you hear "...you'll regret it," what do you do?

If you’re someone who is of a certain *pre-45-ish* age, NOT a parent, and are either decidedly child-free or on the fence about this massive life decision, you’re probably familiar with the REGRET conversation. (“You’ll regret it when you’re old” being the main thesis statement of that convo.)

But beyond the parenthood conversation, it can seem like everything is wrapped up in the will-I-won't-I debate: work, job, relationships, even food.

Regret is a big topic for a lot of us, so today, we're going there.

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Today we're talking to Ruby Warrington all about being a Woman Without Kids, being "a village person," and the nuances of being child-free (by choice or by circumstance).

IN THIS EPISODE, we get extremely candid as we talk about:

• The ways the parenthood vs. non-parenthood discussion has evolved, and ways it hasn't
• The "motherhood spectrum" vs. the motherhood binary
• Other people's opinions and cultural expectations / "noise" around motherhood, and how that affects us
• Our inner "noise" around motherhood, and how that affects us
• A new spin on the conversations around love and regret
• Navigating grief when you wanted to be a parent but it wasn't in the cards (childfree by circumstance)
• How to create a movement that matters
• ...and SO much more!

Ruby Warrington is a British-born author and editor, perhaps best known as the creator of the term “sober curious”. Her 2018 book and million-download podcast of the same title has helped to spearhead a global movement to reevaluate our relationship with alcohol. Her latest book, Women Without Kids, asks: “Instead of continuing to paint childfree women as sad, self-obsessed, or somehow dysfunctional, what if we saw them as boldly forging a first-in-a-civilization vision for a fully autonomous womankind? What if being a woman without kids was in fact its own kind of legacy?” Ruby's other works include Material Girl, Mystical World, The Numinous Astro Deck, and The Sober Curious Reset. With more than 20 years of experience as a lifestyle journalist and editor, Ruby is also the founder of self-publishing imprint Numinous Books and is known as a true thought leader in the “Now Age” wellness space.

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Skeptical when you hear words like "channeling" or "psychic"...but also wondering what is and isn't the real deal? Whether you're a tarot skeptic, tarot-curious, or a literal card-carrying member of the club, I cannot stress this enough: this episode is for you.

Today's guest is KATE VAN HORN: tarot reader, psychic, spiritual mentor, and author of THE INNER TAROT.

IN THIS EPISODE, we discuss:

• What it means to have a "channelled experience"
• What people get wrong about intuition
• How to approach reading tarot for the first time
• How to hone your own practice
• "Reversals," "panic pulling," and "sloppy shuffling"
• How Kate reads for hersefl vs reads for others
• and more!!

PLUS!!!!! Make sure you listen til the end: Kate does an interactive tarot card pull for listeners, where you get to choose a card and she'll interpret it for us.

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The Inner Tarot

Kate's website

Kate on IG @kate.van.horn

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