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Fear Free Childbirth

By: Alexia Leachman
  • Summary

  • The Fear Free Childbirth podcast is for parents-to-be who want a positive and fear-free birth experience. Thousands of women credit the podcast with helping them have a positive birth. The show is a mix of real life positive birth stories, birthing experts sharing their wisdom and Alexia sharing how to get into a positive birthing mindset, including techniques for releasing fears. Alexia is a therapeutic coach who works with pregnant women and is the author of the book Fearless Birthing. You can get access to lots of free pregnancy and birth preparation downloads at www.fearfreechildbirth.com
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Episodes
  • Erin’s Tokophobia Healing Journey
    Mar 6 2024
    I'm thrilled to share with you another incredible tokophobia healing journey. As the host of the Fear Free Childbirth podcast, I have had the profound privilege of connecting with many incredible women, each on her unique path to overcoming the fears and anxieties that accompany pregnancy and childbirth. Today, I want to share with you one of the most touching and inspiring stories to grace my podcast – the profound journey of Erin, a woman who bravely faced her tokophobia and emerged with newfound confidence and strength. Tokophobia, an intense fear of childbirth, is more common than many realise, and it can take an immense toll on a woman’s life. Erin's story began with the paralysing terror she felt at the thought of childbirth. This fear was so strong that it extended to an aversion to even being around pregnant women. But Erin’s resolve to conquer this fear has transformed her life in ways neither of us could have imagined when we first embarked on this journey together. Erin's Tokophobia Healing Journey In this very special episode about Erin's tokophobia healing journey, we delve deep into the layers of fear and anxiety that are all too familiar for many women. Erin first got in touch with me just under a year ago, having read my book. She had tried to tackle her fears herself, but realised that she needed a bit more support to make the kind of progress she was hoping for. It was then that she decided to sign up for my Tokophobia Support Program. This 5-week program kick-started her healing journey. Erin later joined one of my Tokophobia Healing Groups - a 5-week group program - and then she also joined my membership, the Clearance Club to help to keep her accountable for the final aspects of her healing journey. Where Erin's Fear Came From Erin has always regarded pregnancy with a mix of anticipation and trepidation. While the state of being pregnant seemed manageable — a sentiment echoed by her circle of friends — it was the prospect of childbirth that filled her with dread. Erin's fear of birth took root early in her life, stemming from a pivotal moment that etched itself into her memory, when at the tender age of eleven, Erin was in the delivery room when her stepmother gave birth. That intense experience left an indelible impression, leading to her often-repeated resolve: "Hell no." That mantra encapsulated Erin's feelings towards the daunting and raw reality of giving birth, even if the journey leading up to that point seemed far less intimidating. Erin's Tokophobia Healing Journey - How it Unfolded Erin's tokophobia healing journey was far from linear; it was a winding path filled with bumps and setbacks, as well as triumphs and insights. During our conversation, we discussed the heavy emotional burdens of trauma and its formidable impact on Erin’s personal growth. We also talked about how Erin's intuition blossomed throughout this process – it was as though she was rediscovering her inner compass, which had been stifled by fear for so long. This new connection with her intuition rippled out, improving her relationships at work and home, fostering compassion and better communication. Our conversation then flowed into the importance of compassion and forgiveness, not just in our personal lives, but how we can bring this transformative power into our workplaces as well. We mused on how personal transformation can catalyse profound shifts, creating ripples that improve our entire ecosystem of relationships, including those at work. Erin's Friends & Family Noticed the Changes Erin's closest ones, from her husband to her mother, have seen the changes in her. Her coworkers have felt the difference, remarking on her enhanced relational skills at the workplace. But the most significant change has been within Erin herself, especially about her perception of pregnancy and childbirth. Once a crippling fear, it’s now something she acknowledges but feels positive and equipped to handle, even planning a home birth while preparing herself to face any potential fears regarding hospitals. We also retraced Erin's steps to becoming pregnant — the initial wave of panic, followed by a dawning joy as she shared the news with her family and friends. Her journey traversed not just the physical realm but also the profound psychological and spiritual domains, contending with the responsibility and uncertainty that arrives with bringing a new life into the world. Resources That Helped Erin on her Healing Journey Through therapy, meditation, and reading literature by luminaries like Gabriel Mate, Erin has worked tirelessly to clear her layered traumas. This has included navigating generational traumas and learning not to identify herself by them. As she worked through them, she found herself embracing practices she once considered "woo woo" – a testament to the expansive nature of true healing. Erin’s journey, which took less than a year, has been nothing short of miraculous. It serves as a ...
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Overcoming Birth Trauma: Heather's Journey Positive Birth
    Dec 14 2023

    In today's episode, I am joined by Heather to dive into her incredible journey from a fear-filled first birth to two positive and empowering experiences.

    Heather shares her deep emotional work in overcoming the negative feelings from her traumatic first birth and the steps she took to prepare herself mentally and emotionally for her second pregnancy.

     

    From therapy to Emotion Code, to Head Trash Clearance and hypnobirthing, Heather explores the various tools she used to transform her mindset and approach childbirth with a newfound sense of confidence.

    Here are some of the things we talked about;

     

    Traumatic First Birth Experience:

    Heather opens up about her initial birth experience, which left her feeling fearful and exhausted. She realised that her emotional baggage and negative energy had a significant impact on her birth. This realisation became the catalyst for her transformative journey towards healing and empowerment.

     

    Emotional Work and Preparation for Second Birth:

    Heather undertook various methods to prepare for her second birth, including therapy, Emotion Code, Head Trash Clearance, and hypnobirthing. By clearing trapped emotions and healing herself emotionally, she was able to let go of fear and create a positive birthing environment.

     

    Tuning In and Connecting with Herself:

    Throughout her pregnancy, Heather focused on self-care and cultivating her feminine energy. She discovered the power of connecting with her body through movements such as birth dance, a Middle Eastern practice that strengthens muscles and centres the mind. This allowed her to embrace her pregnancy and tap into her innate strength as a woman.

    Mindset Shift and Empowering Second Birth:

    Heather's mindset shift played a crucial role in her second birth experience. She approached the process with confidence, uninhibited by fear, and embraced the sensations as a natural part of birth. She utilised the tools she had acquired and received invaluable support from her doula, ultimately delivering her baby in a positive and empowering way.

    Postpartum Support and Integration:

    Heather talks about the importance of postpartum support and she recognised that her healing journey continued beyond the birth. With the love and guidance of her husband and parents, she navigated the chaotic postpartum period, and was able to balance it along with moving house and doing renovations. Through out all this, she realised she wanted to help to empower women and helping them realise the beauty and potential of birth, just as she had experienced.

    Heather's inspiring journey is a wonderful tale that shows us quite plainly that with the right tools, support, and a positive mindset, it is possible to have a birth experience that is both beautiful and empowering.

    Tune in to this episode and discover the techniques and mindset shifts that enabled Heather to go from a place of trauma and fear to being able to embrace the journey of birth with strength and empowerment.

    Birth has the potential to be a transformative and life-changing experience, and by preparing emotionally and mentally, you can create the empowering birth experience you want.

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    50 mins
  • Celeste's Journey from Tokophobia to Inner Peace
    Dec 7 2023

    In this episode, I sit down with the inspirational Celeste to delve deep into her transformative journey of overcoming fears and phobias related to childbirth and pregnancy. Throughout the episode, Celeste candidly shares her profound and life-altering experiences, providing invaluable insights for anyone navigating similar challenges.

     

    This episode is for you if you want to have a peep under the bonnet to better understand what it looks like EXACTLY to clear your head trash (tokophobia, anxiety or indeed anything else) using Head Trash Clearance.

     

    We get down to brass tacks and leave no stone unturned.

     

    At the heart of Celeste's journey is her struggle with tokophobia, a deep-seated fear of childbirth and pregnancy that extended beyond the realm of motherhood, infiltrating her daily life and relationships.

     

    What unfolds in this episode is her amazing journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and healing, as Celeste takes us through her journey of clearing the fears and anxieties that were contributing to her tokophobia and anxiety.

     

    Through a very candid conversation, Celeste shares how she initially grappled with her fear, with symptoms ranging from anxiety attacks triggered by the mere thought of pregnancy to physical manifestations of tingling in her arms and legs, burping, and spontaneous crying during her shifting process.

     

    Over the span of 6-7 transformative months, she experiences a significant shift, moving from a space of anxiety and fear to a newfound sense of peace and calm. Her journey of clearing head trash and addressing deep-seated fears takes her on a path of self-realization, lending her the clarity and insight needed to navigate her fears and emerge stronger on the other side.

    It's incredible to see where Celeste is today, and I hope that her journey inspires you on your healing journey.

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    54 mins

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