You show up for everyone. Your kids. Your partner. Your job. The people who need you. But when did you last show up for yourself — with that same energy? Most women who feel unchosen in their marriage are the same women who stopped choosing themselves first. Not because they are weak. Because they were taught that their needs were negotiable and everyone else's were not. In this episode, Ron "Simplified" Myers goes straight to the root — the story underneath the exhaustion, the giving, the quiet resentment that builds when a woman disappears herself in the name of love. This one is for the woman who is ready to stop performing love and start receiving it. Starting with herself. In this episode: — Why feeling unchosen in your marriage almost always starts with how you see yourself — The story that says your value lives in what you do for others — and why it is lying to you — One simple daily practice to start choosing yourself without abandoning everyone else — Why becoming a woman who knows her own worth is the most powerful thing you can do for your marriage Join the Simplified Uplifters community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/simplifieduplifterscommunity Ready for the tools that move the needle: https://simplifieduplifters.com

There is a conversation almost every long-term couple has been avoiding. It is the one underneath the everyday conversations. The one about how she stopped asking to be seen — and how he stopped knowing what she needed before she said a word. In Marriage Builder Sunday, Ron "Simplified" Myers turns this week's Self-Love Wednesday lesson into a real conversation a couple can sit down and have together. Not a lecture. Not a fight. A new conversation built on honesty instead of resignation. In this episode Ron covers: — Why the conversations you've been having are not the conversation you need to have — How to open the real conversation without it becoming a fight — The four questions every couple needs to ask each other this week — What he is actually hearing when she expresses a need — and how to hear it differently — How to rebuild the habit of asking and the habit of listening — together You are not broken. Your story is. And stories can change. Get the book: simplifieduplifters.com/intimacy Send Ron a voice note — questions, reflections, breakthroughs: speakpipe.com/simplifieduplifters And most important — remember, you are extraordinary. — Ron "Simplified" Myers Simplified Uplifters™

There is a quiet thing happening in long-term relationships that almost nobody is naming. Women — millions of them — have stopped asking to be seen. Not because they no longer need it. Because somewhere along the way they decided it was easier to stop asking than to keep being disappointed. In this episode of Self-Love Wednesday, Ron "Simplified" Myers names the real reason a woman stops asking — and the self-love work it takes to come back to herself before she can come back to her relationship. In this episode Ron covers: — What "emotional outsourcing" actually is and why women are doing it — The moment a woman stops asking to be seen — and what she replaces it with — Why self-love is not bubble baths and affirmations — it is something much harder — The first honest question to ask yourself before you ask anything of him — What it means to come home to yourself first You are not broken. Your story is. And stories can change. Get the book: simplifieduplifters.com/intimacy Send Ron a voice note — questions, reflections, wins: speakpipe.com/simplifieduplifters And most important — remember, you are extraordinary. — Ron "Simplified" Myers Simplified Uplifters™