Janet Eileen explores the concept of intimacy, emphasizing its importance beyond just physical connections. She discusses how true intimacy involves emotional and mental connections, and how having open, honest conversations can foster deeper relationships. Janet highlights the role of truthfulness in intimacy and the impact of pornography on the ability to connect intimately. She encourages parents to create an environment where ongoing conversations about intimacy and sexuality can thrive, ultimately helping children develop emotional intelligence and healthy relationships.

takeaways

• Intimacy is more than just physical closeness; it includes emotional and mental connections.
• High-level intimacy involves having vulnerable and truthful conversations.
• Truthfulness is essential for building trust in relationships.
• Parents play a crucial role in fostering intimacy with their children.
• Pornography can hinder the development of intimacy and emotional connections.
• Creating a safe space for conversations can help children develop sexual emotional intelligence.
• Intimacy is foundational for emotional intelligence in all relationships.
• Ongoing conversations about intimacy are more effective than one-off talks.
• Curiosity and openness can help bridge communication gaps about taboo topics.
• Emotional intelligence is crucial for navigating personal and professional relationships.

keywords

intimacy, taboo conversations, emotional intelligence, parenting, sexual education, communication, vulnerability, truthfulness, relationships, sexual anxiety

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About Janet:

Janet Eileen Simpson has a diverse professional background with over 30 years of experience in education, counselling/psychotherapy, and holistic practices. She taught primary school children for 20 years, led curriculum development, and represented the British Council in Peru.

Janet has 10 years of experience in counselling, specialising in Relationship Therapy and psychosexual issues. She is also a Magnetic Mind Coach, Reiki Master, and Family Constellation Facilitator. Adopted from birth, Janet met her biological brother and part of her family in 2018.

Ex partner of a sex addict and compulsive porn user. Janet is dedicated to helping people find freedom in relationships using open & honest communication and raising awareness of personal limitations created through porn use.

Host Janet Eileen, discusses the importance of addressing taboo topics, particularly focusing on self-image and the impact of early exposure to pornography on women's self-esteem. She emphasizes the role of parents in facilitating open conversations about these subjects, encouraging curiosity and understanding rather than blame or shame. Janet provides insights on how to create a safe space for children to discuss their experiences and feelings regarding body image and sexuality.

takeaways

• Talking about taboo topics can bridge communication gaps.
• Early exposure to porn can lead to low self-esteem in women.
• Comparison to unrealistic body images can cause covert trauma.
• Parents should facilitate open discussions about sexuality.
• Creating a safe space for children is crucial for healthy development.
• No blame or shame should be involved in these conversations.
• Encouraging curiosity can help children express their feelings.
• It's important to explain the difference between performance and reality in porn.
• Parents should reassure their children of their unconditional love.
• Ongoing conversations about sexuality should be normalized.

keywords

taboo conversations, self-image, porn, parental guidance, open communication, body acceptance, confidence, covert trauma, sexual education, mental health

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About Janet:

Janet Eileen Simpson has a diverse professional background with over 30 years of experience in education, counselling/psychotherapy, and holistic practices. She taught primary school children for 20 years, led curriculum development, and represented the British Council in Peru.

Janet has 10 years of experience in counselling, specialising in Relationship Therapy and psychosexual issues. She is also a Magnetic Mind Coach, Reiki Master, and Family Constellation Facilitator. Adopted from birth, Janet met her biological brother and part of her family in 2018.

Ex partner of a sex addict and compulsive porn user. Janet is dedicated to helping people find freedom in relationships using open & honest communication and raising awareness of personal limitations created through porn use.

keywords

taboo conversations, children's sexuality, pornography, sexual development, critical thinking, parenting, sexuality education, open communication, sexual identity, sexual exploration

summary

In this episode of 'Taboo to Talked About', host Janet Eileen discusses the importance of open communication regarding children's sexual development and the impact of pornography on their understanding of sexuality. She emphasizes the need for parents to create a safe space for discussions, allowing children to explore their identities critically rather than accepting narrow portrayals of sexuality seen in porn. Janet encourages parents to facilitate conversations that help children navigate their feelings and experiences, ultimately supporting their journey of self-discovery in a complex world.

takeaways

• Talking about taboo topics is essential for healthy communication.
• Children's understanding of sexuality is influenced by early exposure to porn.
• Pornography often presents a limited view of sexuality.
• Parents should create a safe space for discussions about sexuality.
• It's important for children to explore their own sexual identities.
• Mimicking others' sexuality can lead to confusion about one's own identity.
• Critical thinking about sexual content is crucial for children.
• Facilitating open conversations helps children feel comfortable with their sexuality.
• Understanding different sexual orientations is important for children.
• Parents play a key role in guiding their child's sexual development.

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About Janet:

Janet Eileen Simpson has a diverse professional background with over 30 years of experience in education, counselling/psychotherapy, and holistic practices. She taught primary school children for 20 years, led curriculum development, and represented the British Council in Peru.

Janet has 10 years of experience in counselling, specialising in Relationship Therapy and psychosexual issues. She is also a Magnetic Mind Coach, Reiki Master, and Family Constellation Facilitator. Adopted from birth, Janet met her biological brother and part of her family in 2018.

Ex partner of a sex addict and compulsive porn user. Janet is dedicated to helping people find freedom in relationships using open & honest communication and raising awareness of personal limitations created through porn use.