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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

By: Connell Barrett
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Yes, you can get a great girlfriend! And dating coach Connell Barrett will show you how to confidently connect with women by being authentic—no creepy pickup moves needed. On the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, Connell offers the kinds of tested dating tips he shared in his bestselling book, Dating Sucks but You Don’t, and in his TV appearances (GMA, “Today.”) In his 12 years as a coach, Connell has helped thousands of men in 17 countries find love. No wonder Psychology Today named him “America’s top dating coach for men.” Connell personally faced—and fixed—every common dating problem, from not knowing how to flirt to dating-app struggles to low self-confidence. After meeting his dream girlfriend Jess, Connell now helps nice guys and gentlemen find love by dating with “Radical Authenticity.” Ready to meet your soulmate? Join Connell and his expert guests every week for game-changing advice. Carpe date ’em. Seize the date!Copyright Heartcast Media Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • The Date Seemed Great… So Why Did You End Up in the Friend Zone? (Part 1)

    The Date Seemed Great… So Why Did You End Up in the Friend Zone? (Part 1)
    Jul 21 2026
    The date seemed to go well—conversation flowed, and there were no awkward silences. Yet she texted you those painful words: “I just didn’t feel a connection.” In Part 1 of this two-part episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett explains why many men end up in the Friend Zone. He also shares how changing the way you communicate with women creates the spark that leads to second dates, first kisses—and a lasting relationship.

    ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO ESCAPE THE FRIEND ZONE? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: DatingTransformation.com

    GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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    31 mins
  • “You’re Not Broken!” 3 Steps to Lasting Dating Confidence (with Attachment Style Expert Thais Gibson)

    “You’re Not Broken!” 3 Steps to Lasting Dating Confidence (with Attachment Style Expert Thais Gibson)
    Jul 10 2026
    If fear of rejection keeps you from taking romantic chances—sending that text or approaching an attractive stranger—Thais Gibson has a solution. Gibson has helped more than 70,000 people build thriving relationships, both through her book, “The New Attachment Theory,” and as founder of the Personal Development School. Gibson joins dating coach Connell Barrett to share practical exercises to help you overcome rejection anxiety, build lasting confidence, and create healthier relationships.

    Episode Highlights:

    01:55: Why the “Perfect” Opener Won’t Fix Deeper Insecurity

    09:18: 3 Steps to Stop Feeling that You’re Not Enough

    17:57: How the 4 Attachment Styles Affect Your Dating Life

    27:13: Why Guys Panic When a Woman Doesn’t Text Back Right Away

    41:01: She Went Quiet? Here’s What a Securely Attached Men Does Next

    44:22: Do This When You Want to Go for the Kiss

    TAKE THAIS GIBSON’S FREE ATTACHMENT STYLE QUIZ: Attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com

    LEARN ABOUT THE PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT SCHOOL: Personaldevelopmentschool.com

    FOLLOW THE PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT SCHOOL ON INSTAGRAM: @‌thepersonaldevelopmentschool
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    56 mins
  • 11 Pickup Lines That Are Classy, Not Creepy—Say These to Any Woman, Anywhere

    11 Pickup Lines That Are Classy, Not Creepy—Say These to Any Woman, Anywhere
    Jul 2 2026
    You see an incredible woman you want to talk to, but you’re not sure what to say—and the pickup lines you’ve heard sound cheesy or creepy. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 11 natural, non-cringe opening lines you can say to any woman. Get ready to break the ice in charming, genuine ways, and start getting dates.

    HIRE CONNELL TO TEACH YOU HOW TO APPROACH AND DATE INCREDIBLE WOMEN. BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION: DatingTransformation.com

    GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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    30 mins
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