It's Not You, It's Us

A Guide for Living Together Without Growing Apart

By: Sophie Winters

Narrated by: Virtual Voice

Length: 9 hrs and 51 mins

Publisher's summary

Want more joy, intimacy, and respect in your relationship? Find out how in this inspiring and uplifting relationship book. Too many people spend time developing their careers and putting effort in at the gym, but just let their relationship go on autopilot. Then they wonder what happened to the beautiful love they once had. This book will show you how to build and maintain a deeply satisfying relationship regardless of what stage you're in. Author Sophie Winters spent nearly two years researching and writing this guidebook. It draws real world examples from her own relationship, other couples, family therapists, a documentary filmmaker, and other authors and experts. This isn’t your average relationship advice book: there are personal stories, examples, and exercises at the end of most chapters to help you obtain the love and respect you deserve. You will have a hard time finding another relationship book that covers so many topics, so powerfully and so personally. It's Not You, It's Us explores multiple topics like: - money - sex and desire - having kids, stepkids, and pets - family confrontations including exes and in-laws - religious conflicts and mixed-faith unions - chores and the division of labor - personal growth and happiness - emotional distance - privacy and personal space - conflict and communication - codependency and emotional distance - the legal differences between living together and being married With warmth and wisdom, Sophie shares the lessons on what it takes to live together without growing apart. Read it, and get the tools you need to create your own happily ever after.

Early Feedback from Readers:

I feel like I had a breakthrough in my own life and an understanding of myself. The tears just started flowing and I felt a huge release. I feel new. You offer words of advice in an encouraging and empowering manner, which is reassuring to anyone struggling with personal issues. From the standpoint of someone who was in an emotionally abusive relationship, I saw value in your writing. I think your words will help those who are in similar situations. Thank you so much for sharing. Raw and real. Being widowed and now in a relatively new (4 years +) relationship complete with adult step-children and a step-grandson, separate homes and communities, and ex-wife, I've done a lot of reading and lived a lot of what you are writing about. And you are really bang on on the communication advice. It is helping me shed some light on my relationship problems and what needs to be there to have a respectable, long-term relationship. I honestly can't express how much the chapter on communication connected to me and my experiences with relationships. ESPECIALLY my most recent break-up. Order your copy now.