Nobody Needs to Know

A Memoir

De: Pidgeon Pagonis, Joey Soloway - introduction

Narrado por: Pidgeon Pagonis

Duración: 6 h y 53 m

Resumen del Editor

From intersex activist Pidgeon Pagonis comes a candid and life-affirming true story of identity, lies, family secrets, and the healing power of truth.

Pidgeon Pagonis always felt like their life was a constant attempt to fit in with other girls—a feeling that was only exacerbated when puberty failed to hit. They never understood why…until they uncovered the secret that had haunted their childhood.

Bouncing between their Chicago home and the city’s children’s hospital, Pidgeon weathered a series of traumatic surgeries, fabrications, and misdirections. It wasn’t until college that Pidgeon pieced together the puzzle of their identity: they’d been born intersex but raised as a girl, their life shaped by lies that left them physically and mentally scarred. But for Pidgeon, what began as a shameful and traumatic discovery transforms into a painful yet joyous journey of self-love, truth, and healing.

Pidgeon’s inspiring memoir is for everyone whose body and spirit defy expectations, a fierce challenge to a system hell-bent on enforcing binary definitions. Ultimately, it’s a celebration of the freedom and empowerment that come from learning the truth about who you are—and living it.

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©2023 Pidgeon Pagonis (P)2023 Brilliance Publishing, Inc., all rights reserved.

Reseñas de la Crítica

“Pidgeon Pagonis's skillfully narrated memoir takes listeners on their coming-of-age journey as they struggled to fit in with other girls. Pidgeon's voice is calm and has a slight Latin accent.… Once the secret is revealed, Pagonis finds their voice and passion to protect other intersex people from having their body autonomy and choice taken from them.” —AudioFile Magazine

“Pagonis's writing style is accessible and engaging, creating a casual and inviting atmosphere. Their anecdotes about their friends, family, and school years are heartbreaking yet endearing and inspirational. Additionally, listeners who know Chicago will enjoy Pagonis's Chicago accent and their descriptions of familiar landmarks, schools, and neighborhoods. Pagonis's memoir is an intimate look into their life being intersex, offering readers a glimpse into their triumphs, struggles, and journey toward self-acceptance. A raw, can't-stop-listening experience.”—Library Journal

“[H]eart-wrenching…Pagonis’s campaign to speak up on behalf of intersex autonomy is galvanizing, and their journey toward found family is moving. This is an inspiring must-read.”—Publishers Weekly

Pidgeon you rock, super nova style!

I really appreciated this story. it's inspired me . I'm in healthcare, I currently work in pediatrics, I am queer and this story touched my heart. I work in this world, I live in this world, what I heard in this story was important and needs to be internalized by all of us.

Great storytelling in addition to education

Pidgeon Pagonis has beautifully written and performed this memoir which is both a personal narrative of their experiences growing up as an intersex person as well as an account of the activist efforts they played a key role in to successfully stop medically unnecessary and harmful surgeries on intersex infants and children at Lurie Children’s Hospital in Chicago. Entertaining and educational, I listened to the audiobook in only two days. Check it out! 

The education about intersex individuals

Enjoyed learning more about this topic and struggles to get intersex surgeries stopped. I really liked the main character Pigeon!

Everyone Should Know

Pidgeon is fantastic. Everyone should know how intersex peoples' bodily autonomy was and is violated, how it feels to be an outsider and not know why for far too long, and how normative oversimplifications of the world lead to unnecessary brutalization. This is a magnificent and sometimes heartbreaking example.

A story that needed telling!

This is an amazing and eye opening true story read by the author, Pidgeon Pagonis. Pidgeon is an Intersex activist, author, and documentary filmmaker. Their story starts out as too many Intersex stories do, with doctors misleading parents and coercing them into surgeries that mutilate the genitalia of Intersex babies to make them fit into a binary world.

Pidgeon Pagonus courageously shared their experience to shed light on these barbaric medieval practices and continues to fight for change. I encourage you to learn more about them and their journey as well as the often overlooked Intersex population.

Well-written, wonderful voice, informative, and entertaining

This is a heart-wrenching, heart-warming, beautiful mémoire. It has helped me shift my perspective on gender identity and it has challenged some of my prejudices that I didn’t realize I still had. It’s an easy listen and if you are like me you will cry at a few points.

Enlightened me

I think everyone would benefit from learning about what it is like for intersex people. I appreciate the author sharing their truth.

Wow!

Any book read by the author conveys so much more than the written word alone.

Low hanging fruit

In our efforts to make this world, more humane and equal for all people, the work Pigeon has done should be replicated throughout the world.
Well written performed and wow what a story!

Couldn’t stop listening

Pidgeon Pagonis is an amazing soul. I couldn’t stop listening to this book. Pidgeon’s narration is captivating and their story is inspiring. I will be looking out for their activism in the future!!