The Book of Not Knowing

Exploring the True Nature of Self, Mind, and Consciousness

By: Peter Ralston, Laura Ralston - editor

Narrated by: Keith O'Brien

For fans of Eckhart Tolle - a guide to mastering self-awareness through direct experience, not old presumptions or harmful thought patterns.

Through decades of martial arts and meditation practice, Peter Ralston discovered a curious and paradoxical fact: that true awareness arises from a state of not knowing. Even the most sincere investigation of self and spirit, he says, is often sabotaged by our tendency to grab too quickly for answers and ideas as we retreat to the safety of the known. This "Hitchhiker's Guide to Awareness" provides helpful guideposts along an experiential journey for those Western minds predisposed to wandering off to old habits, cherished presumptions, and a stubbornly solid sense of self. With ease and clarity, Ralston teaches listeners how to become aware of the background patterns that they are usually too busy, stressed, or distracted to notice. The Book of Not Knowing points out the ways people get stuck in their lives and offers listeners a way to make fresh choices about every aspect of their lives - from a place of awareness instead of autopilot.

©2010 Peter Ralston (P)2017 North Atlantic Books

Critic reviews

"True innovators are, by definition, ahead of their time. Therefore, they remain largely unrecognized, except by a few. How many of us wish we had met Bruce Lee, sat in a session with Carl Jung, or walked around Walden Pond with Thoreau? Too late for that, but not too late to take notice of Peter Ralston. His creativity, commitment, and clarity shine through as he articulates higher principles based on direct experience and piercing insight. A caring teacher, he has been to the mountaintop and bathed in the spring of Being. His insights speak to us all." (Dan Millman, author of Way of the Peaceful Warrior)

Incredibly well done.

This is hands-down the best book I’ve read for a very very long time. It is up with the best writers on thought, being, and how we relate to our existence. This is the type of book that will change what you get out of every other book that you read. At least that’s what I found in it. I will probably re-read this book at least once a year for the rest of my life. Peter Ralston has an incredible understanding of being. I don’t know what else to say other than get the book and read it.

Narrator is fantastic/Mind-bending book

What about Keith O'Brien’s performance did you like?

At the time of this review, there are 3 2-star ratingsof the narrator with no explanation. I do not get this. The narrator is good, as good as any good narrator. There is certainly nothing distracting, annoying, or unusual about his narration.

I almost passed on this book because of those ratings. That would have been a mistake. The techniques in this book are very valuable to me. The narrator conveys them effectively. And pleasantly.

Mind blowing!

The content is amazing, I can't describe in words how many eye opening moments are hidden in this book. Really worth your time reading it.

I would not recommend the audible version because narrator is reading the numbers of paragraphs and its very distracting. If there was another narration without the numbers I would buy that one! Buy paper book instead! The only reason I can come up with why the narrator is reading the numbers is for the reader to follow in their paper book.

Opinionated, but good

The message of this book seemed very similar to Thomas Metzinger's "Being No One", but 1) much more readable and usable, and 2) coming from a place of direct insight rather than philosophical thought - so, less detailed and (despite all Ralston's hard contemplation work) more willing to jump to conclusions.

In a few places, this book is either ordinary self-help/ positive thinking material, or ordinary Zen Buddhist material. But overall Ralston has succeeded in describing a practice different from either - and, for the most part, it's a practice grounded in reality.

This book could benefit from some of the fine distinctions Metzinger makes - after all, what is it to "be conscious" of the truth? Which of the many distinct types of consciousness are we meant to employ? But, on the other hand, Metzinger's book could arguably benefit from the practical advice on reshaping our consciousness which Ralston presents.

Basically, I'm saying read both.

Not a Problem

This book is brilliant. As for the reader (who does an excellent job) noting all the passage numbers: it was not distracting at all. The reader was able to fold that in with the actual text.

must read! must read. must read. must read. must

loved it! must be part of school curriculum. once you finish the book, you know your work is not done.

May have been good

Would you recommend this book to a friend? Why or why not?

I couldn't get through the first chapter, not because of the content or the narration but because of the way the chapters are structured. Every few minutes or even sometimes seconds the reader announces the chapter and section. It was so distracting that I couldn't even follow the content. It would be like reading the bible and announcing the chapter and verse after every sentence.

Worth the slosh

The biblical sectioning especially in audio-book format is quite distracting and annoying.
The first 80% of the book is opinionated slosh but the few other chapters in the book are worth its weight in gold.

Great, will read again.

A difficult subject for sure. But also a great attempt by the auther to explain it through words. I would recommend this book to those who have already made some baby stepts into the subject.

Thank you Peter!

Most annoying narration...

The worst narration of any audible I have ever listened to, the reading out of sub-chapters every few lines is too much. In all honesty, I only got through the first 2 chapters before I couldn’t bare to listen any further, and it wasn’t bad so I gave the story a 2 star -