• #111: Honest vs "Realistic" Self-expectations

  • Jul 11 2024
  • Length: 18 mins
  • Podcast

#111: Honest vs "Realistic" Self-expectations  By  cover art

#111: Honest vs "Realistic" Self-expectations

  • Summary

  • Where do the expectations you set for "what you should be able to do" in a day or week or month come from?

    I bring news!

    If you've:

    • Been overscheduling yourself lately
    • Or crossing off 1/10th of your To Do List every day for the past year
    • Or find yourself constantly disappointed in today's performance because "back in the day" you could do things faster
    • ...Or worse: Sheryl over there is coping just fine, so why are you struggling?...

    You might be suffering from "Realistic Expectation Syndrome," which is a condition I just made up but is completely real.

    Too often, we idealize our capacity and capability to the point that our plans (and To Do Lists) would only be achievable by 6-armed superhumans who don't require sleep.

    Be honest: How many times have you looked at tomorrow's jam-packed schedule and said, "Well, if I focused enough or had the right energy, I should realistically be able to do all this"...?

    That right there is why today, we're differentiating "realistic" from HONEST.

    In the episode, I explain why adopting the latter perspective will not, as you fear, doom you to utter failure and ruin — and why it is, in fact, the KEY to being able to ramp up your productivity and focus when you need to!

    LINKS!

    • NEW! Decision Mastery Week is coming! Are you in?
    • What's your DECISION STYLE? Take the Quiz!
    • Need to say NO? Here's your 11-minute Crash Course on Saying NO Guilt-Free.
    • Want to work together? Book your free consultation!
    Show more Show less
activate_primeday_promo_in_buybox_DT

What listeners say about #111: Honest vs "Realistic" Self-expectations

Average customer ratings

Reviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.