Alison (aka @alisonsaidno) is back this week to talk about the problems with filming and commenting on people and children in crisis to have a viral moment. We all discuss the viral video where the parents wrapped their child in Saran Wrap and filmed it for a "funny" viral video....However, the video went viral for the opposite reason the parents thought it would and there were very REAL WORLD repercussions for their viral moment. 

0:59- The child in Walmart having a meltdown 

3:00- People's first reactions to a child in distress

3:45- People chiming in on what they would have done, in a situation they have never been in 

5:50- That moment will be online for the child forever

6:20- Calling the police on a child in crisis 

8:30- Viral video of man having a meltdown- nephew speaks out 

12:30- Someone recording us in our lowest moment- and how would that feel 

13:00- Parents posting meltdowns for educational content 

15:50- Kids speaking out about their social media presence their parents created 

17:39- The Saran Wrap video 

19:50- Parents push these vids w/ kids further and further for views- 

20:00- The trauma of CPS being called 

26:00- The danger of a person with 1M followers doing this 

29:00- Being given the opportunity to exploit children for $

TT/IG- @alisonsaidno  /   @jesmartini @jes_martini

Today we dive in to the dangers of Social Media- the fun side of social media, and our behind-the-scene thoughts (as content creators) on how all of this effects our kids. 

1:30- Why as moms do we feel like we do everything and nothing all at the same time? 

3:30-Tips for getting started on social media if interested

4:30- The upside to social media 

5:20- Every adult is probably addicted to their phones 

7:00- What is the impact of our kids watching us not be present during the day? 

8:15- How do you feel about social media for your kids? 

10:00- Are we going to give these kids a pass for the embarrassing things they put on the internet as teens? 

12:10- We have monetized human attention

12:50- Attention span since starting social media 

14:20- "I love garbage" 

15:28- My worry for teens on social media- they don't ever get a break from "trying to fit in" 

17:30- Snapchat is the worst

18:50- One way to protect kids from dangers of social media 

You all probably know Menzennial from Tiktok where she narrates the Child's point of view in her "big feelings" series. Today we talk about the imperfections of parenting, unrealistic expectations we put on children, and the difficult parts of gentle/respectful parenting. Menzie always keeps it real, down to earth, and relatable...this episode is a ton of fun to listen to. 

1:27- Catching up with Menzie 

1:40- Story time about her child being lost! 

5:50- unrealistic expectations of children 

11:30- joining kids in the emotional dis-regulation

15:00- "No" is a powerful word

17:00- authoritarian parents often give in to a situation to regulate themselves 

21:00- Kids need structure and routine and count on the parents to provide that

24:00- kids should know the "why's" behind what it is they are doing- we need to develop those critical thinking skills 

27:15- Wrapping up with final thoughts 

FREE RESOURCE ALERT- Marcella and I will be hosting a masterclass with HIC Parenting- it will be February 21st- So, mark your calendar!! 

We talk today about parenting with understanding and parenting neurodivergent kids, as neurodivergent parents. 

We will be hosting a masterclass talking about 5 steps to working with our strong-willed or highly sensitive children. Marcella shares about her past growing up as a child undiagnosed with ADHD. She opens up about how she came to discover parenting with understanding and her journey raising children in foster care. This is an episode you won't want to miss! She has a very powerful story I think everyone should hear. Especially if you are feeling "these parenting styles won't work for my child". 

MARCELLA- Tiktok- @highimpactclub/ IG- @highimpactclub/ Youtube- HIC Parenting Education

Masterclass Registration Link-  https://masterclass.hicparenting.com/webinar-registration1673110500055?utm_medium=bio&utm_source=master_class_invitation&utm_term=mbio

 Mr. Chazz is an absolute wealth of knowledge for both parents and educators. He has a way of breaking down information in such a down-to-earth and obtainable way, you will absolutely leave this episode feeling both validated and confident in your parenting journey. Today we dive in to taking the first steps towards growth in your journey, allowing yourself to make mistakes, making space for children to make mistakes as well, and the challenges that face men specifically with gentle/respectful/conscious parenting.

2:05- Mr. Chazz breaks down how he became an educational specialist and what brought him to conscious discipline

4:46- Why is it that men tend to have a hard time with gentle/respectful parenting and the experience of men having to suppress emotions their entire life

7:15- It become engrained in men that it is not ok or safe to express emotions

8:30- Young children are like 90% emotion

10:20- The first step was realizing "this is not how I want to be"- and then the hard work comes in

13:30- Mistakes are an important part of the learning process

14:00- OOPS ( Our Opportunity to Problem Solve)

16:45- Teaching Perseverance

18:45- People have a tendency to treat little boys with more force than little girls

20:00- "This is why the men today are so soft"

24:00- Powerful Conversation that I got to witness in my own home

25:50- Punishment is NOT a requirement for learning- Kids learn a ton in these moments of connection

26:40- 7 Skills to teach children with Conscious Discipline

28:45- 2 Final thoughts from Mr. Chazz

1- See Child first before offering guidence

2- Perfection does NOT exist- the goal is not be perfect everyday, its to prove everyday

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Podcast- Mr. Chazz's Leadership, Parenting and Teaching Podcast

Kayleigh has created a space of solidarity and support for parents who are navigating parenting after trauma. She has a powerful story and message that all should hear. Having experienced a traumatic pregnancy of my own- I am so grateful for the space that she has created online. The ending is a MUST watch. 

0:30- Intro for Kayleigh

1:56- Kayleigh's birth story 

9:43- Waking up from the coma and meeting her son 

12:35- How did the trauma of the birth impact the first few months of parenting? 

15:50- Coming out on the other side and feeling like "this is who I will be for the rest of my life"

19:10- Struggling with your partner after trauma 

21:41- Having compassion for yourself 

24:00- Final thoughts before wrapping up 

25:33- Unspoken rule in motherhood- that you can't talk about something you are upset about when you are supposed to only be grateful 

If you are on social media- you know that teachers are having huge troubles in their classrooms- and a lot of this conversation happening revolves around parenting as well. Today, I talk with Heather- a 10 year veteran teacher- who was part of a nationally recognized teaching team. She has a huge focus on connection, relationships, and expectation for students and was able to share some amazing insight! 

2:16- The importance of getting to know all the kids

2:35- Teacher turnover

4:30- Does it have to do with new parenting styles? 

8:10- Tiktok and Social Media and what your kids are looking at 

11:30- Kids are so cool today 

12:47- Does gentle parenting effect the classrooms

17:00- Setting Expectations in a classroom 

18:00- Are kids less engaged? 

22:00- Gentle Parenting in the classroom 

27:00- 2 Truths and a Lie

This episode is chaos!  Today we talk about gentle parenting and social media for  preteens and young children.  

This is a new version of our show where we will have a new guest host every week!  This week we have Kayla ( aka kaylajaye_). She is known on Tiktok for her hilarious comedy, character skits, high kicks, and high energy but she is also one of my best friends and an amazing mother to 2 beautiful kids.   We also play FMK... ps. Sorry Scott D. Henry

Todays Episode: 

Intro- New Version of the Podcast 

Gentle-ish Parenting 

Misconception- If you are a gentle parent you can't use your own personality or sense of humor

Differences in how most people were raised and how their kids ask 

What does she think of gentle/respectful parenting online? 

Paying for views 

How long does it take to recover from a friendship breakup? Feels like a divorce 

Should you always take the high road? 

Listen to people close to you about red flags 

Joking around with your kids 

Redirecting little kids- harder with preteens 

She has Millions of Followers- does not allow social media 

We play FMK