Boundaries and control. Control and boundaries. Chile. Those are two words that just carry so much weight and tension. When is control healthy? When is it unhealthy? Why do boundaries seem to offend people? Am I the bad person for setting the boundary? And on and on it goes. Well let me tell you something. Your girl know a little some some about control okay and this chapter was packed with just so much goodness that I wanted to just read the chapter to yall on today's episode because it was SO good but I'm not going to do that. I am excited though for this conversation so let's get into it!

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Unchangeable feels unforgivable. That's a real statement. How am I supposed to move on when this thing is such a part of my reality now for the rest of my life. So not what? How am I supposed to navigate this? That's what we're going to be getting into in today's episode as explore chapter 8 and continue in our journey towards freedom and forgiveness.

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Sis, have you checked on your canary? If you haven't yet read chapter 7 of Forgiving What You Can't Forget you're probably like Shell what in the world are you talking about? Lol. Well in short at the beginning of this chapter Lysa tells us about how British coal miners would use canaries as an indicator of whether or not they're environment was toxic. So I ask again...have you checked on your canary? Are there indicators that you're environment might be toxic? Let's get into it.

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Ever struggled with moving on from somewhere called was calling you out of? A relationship? A community? A job? A church? A business idea? A ministry? Moving on can be hard especially when nothing is broken. In moving on God often calls us to exercise our faith and trust in His greater plan. If you're someone struggling with moving on and letting go of something God is calling you away from listen as I unpack this a bit.

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Ever struggled to forgive yourself? Ever done something that you NEVER thought you'd do? Ever found yourself saying..." I never thought I'd be this person?" If so, this episode is for you! Listen in as I chat with my good friend DiEsha about forgiving herself after committing adultery and what is was like to walk with God through that and in that season.

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Do you understand the importance of tracing your steps? As we seek to move forward in healing and move past situatons in our levels we must do what Lysa calls "collect the dots" We must do the heart work of going back and picking up the dots that inform the situation we've currently found ourselves in. It's not easy. It can so certainly be painful. AND it's absolutely necessary. This is what we're going to be diving into in today's episode as we chat about chapter 5 of Forgiving What You Can't Forget by Lysa Terkeurst. We get a sneak peek into her own story and through that are helped and encouraged to use her story as encouragement to start to write our own. Let's dive in.

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This chapter had SO many good nuggets!! In this episode we are exploring chapter 4 of Forgiving What You Can't Forget. In this chapter Lysa talks about separating your healing from people and their choices and provides two concrete Biblical examples of this and let me tell you they are GOOD! These passages are found in John 5 and John 9 and help us to see that all we need to do is decide to partner with Jesus. Let's listen in!

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