Popping into the public forum today for a super-quick podcast episode and to remind you, especially those of you who are new followers from TikTok (hi!) that this podcast publishes NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK ON PATREON and only on Patreon! If you're looking for help shedding the shame-filled singlehood narratives we've all been fed our entire lives, my podcast and its community can help. New episodes publish every Monday morning, and your $5/month Patreon membership comes with access to the only Facebook community that I manage. Check out more details via the link below!

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Shani's book: A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match. Light One. https://amzn.to/3jN4pWn

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A Single Serving Podcast is now exclusively on Patreon! As of January 2022, new episodes will publish every Monday morning only on Shani Silver's Patreon at the $5 per month tier. This tier also comes with access to the Patrons-only Facebook group for this podcast. You are welcome to listen to the back catalog on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, etc, and if you'd like new episodes I hope you'll join our Patreon community where we're reframing the negative, lack-filled narratives of singlehood and replacing them with new ways of thinking about and experiencing single life that feel MUCH BETTER. See you there!

https://www.patreon.com/shanisilver

Shani's book: A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match. Light One. https://amzn.to/3FZwBzj

Shani's website: https://www.shanisilver.com/
Shani on Instagram: https://instagram.com/shanisilver

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This one's different, friends! This month's public episode of A Single Serving podcast is actually not for my audience, it's for friends and family members who know and love a member of my audience. This episode is designed to be shared with someone you love to help them reframe singlehood for themselves in the same way that we've reframed it for ourselves, so that maybe this year at the holidays no one asks us "how are you still single?" Hey, we can try! If you're someone who loves a single person, listen to this episode if you'd like to be kinder to and more respectful of them moving forward. This episode is presented with love and in the hopes that we all have a very happy holiday season together.

This podcast publishes publicly and for free once a month. If you'd like to hear a new episode of this podcast every week, join my Patreon! Your membership also comes with access to the private, Patrons-only Facebook group, and instant access to EVERY episode I've ever published. Join here!

“Single People Shouldn’t Have Costco Memberships”
https://shanisilver.medium.com/single-people-shouldnt-have-costco-memberships-d9f046f7b9e2

Shani's book: A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match. Light One. https://amzn.to/3FZwBzj

Shani's website: https://www.shanisilver.com/
Shani on Instagram: https://instagram.com/shanisilver

Podcast P.O. Box

3436 Magazine Street #8110 New Orleans, LA 70115

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Anti-Racism Resources For My White Friends & Readers

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In this solo episode, your host Shani Silver becomes a PUBLISHED AUTHOR! This bonus episode is being released in celebration of A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match—light one. The book publishes TODAY and is available via the link below. This episode features a deep dive into "waiting" or the mindset singles can often have regarding our lives not being "real" until we have a partner. After that, you'll hear a FULL READING of the book's Introduction!

As always, if you'd like to hear a new episode of this podcast every week, join my Patreon!

Buy Shani's book: A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match. Light One.

Shani's website
Shani on Instagram

Podcast P.O. Box

3436 Magazine Street #8110 New Orleans, LA 70115

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Anti-Racism Resources For My White Friends & Readers

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Tonya Carter is a Relationship Transformation Coach joining the podcast to discuss life post-divorce and post-relationship. We explore authenticity, moving through our stories as opposed to becoming stuck inside them, and how transactional ideas of love aren't serving us in singlehood or in relationships. This episode also begins with a listener-inspired deep dive into "you're too picky," both how to respond to it and how to process and reframe it in our own minds. I loved this conversation with Tonya and I can't wait to have her back as a guest again.

Tonya Carter's Website
Tonya Carter on Instagram
Order Tonya's book, Divorce Your Story

My first book, A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match. Light one. publishes 10/26/21.

Join my Patreon for access to a FULL READING of the book's introduction in an episode published September 6th, 2021 titled Shani's (Extremely) Special Announcement. You'll also have access to every podcast episode I've ever published, NEW episodes of this podcast every week, and access to the private Facebook group for Patrons only.

Shani's website
Shani on Instagram

Podcast P.O. Box

3436 Magazine Street #8110 New Orleans, LA 70115

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Transcript of podcast via Otter

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Bonus Episode!! In this very special episode recorded while evacuated from an actual hurricane, I am thrilled to share the news that I've been keeping to myself for months now.

I WROTE A BOOK!

A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match. Light one.

Publishing THIS OCTOBER, A Single Revolution is all the support I've ever wanted to give the single community. It challenges every negative, false narrative about singlehood and replaces them with a complete reframing of how we're allowed and able to view and experience being single. It is not a book about dating. It is a book about living.

Visit shanisilver.com to join my email list and be first to know when it goes on sale!

Join my Patreon for access to a FULL READING of the book's introduction in an episode published September 6th, 2021 titled Shani's (Extremely) Special Announcement. You'll also have access to every podcast episode I've ever published, new episodes of the podcast every week, and access to the private Facebook group for Patrons only. For $5 per month, that's a steal.

Single women deserve a book that doesn’t assume we’re a negative. A Single Revolution doesn’t assume you’re unfinished, flawed, or doing something wrong in the dating space just because you’re single. If it makes any assumption, the book assumes you’re going to feel a LOT better by the time you’re done reading it.

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It’s a wild one! Things that happened in this episode featuring Lane Moore: a phone call from my movers saying they were FINALLY arriving later that day after being a month late, a dog cameo, and a very chatty UPS delivery man, and after all that we get into some good shit! Comedian, Creator of Tinder Live and author of How To Be Alone Lane Moore is one of my most-requested guests EVER, and I’m so thrilled she took time out of her tour schedule to chat with us about singlehood, online dating, attachment styles, and the things we have to learn from each other.

Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts or below.

Lane’s website & tour info

Lane’s Instagram

Lane’s Twitter

Lane's Book, How To Be Alone

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Shani’s Podcast P.O Box!

3436 Magazine Street #8110
New Orleans, LA 70115

Shani's website
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This podcast publishes once a month on Apple Podcasts and other free-access platforms, and once a week on Patreon! Join the Patreon for A Single Serving Podcast to get full access to all weekly podcast episodes and instant access to all existing Patreon-only episodes. You'll also get access to the private podcast Facebook group!

Anti-Racism Resources For My White Friends & Readers

Podcast logo by Johanna Pendley
Podcast hosted on Buzzsprout
Transcript of podcast via Otter

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In this very special episode of A Single Serving Podcast, I am joined by podcast listener Christine Po, a Dermatology Physician Assistant based in Atlanta, Georgia. Christine reached out as a listener and her email was one I wished I could have shared with you all—so I made it a podcast episode instead. This is for anyone who has ever felt entirely alone in never having been in a relationship before, anyone who's ever experienced racism in dating, and anyone who has ever felt like there was just simply something wrong with you for being single. The episode also begins with my own deep dive and reframe into expectations around our least favorite question: "How's dating going?"

Connect with Christine on Instagram

June Patreon Podcast Episodes

Jesus Was Single with Kat Harris

Filter Of Fabulosity with Shani Silver

Empathy & Actual Answers with Jennifer Michelle Mason

Unique Is Normal with Laura Behnke (mentioned in this week's episode)

Nothing Personal by Nancy Jo Sales

She I Dare Not Name by Donna Ward

Panel discussion with Donna Ward, Jody Day, and Civilla Morgan

Join the Patreon for A Single Serving Podcast to get full access to all weekly podcast episodes and instant access to all existing Patreon-only episodes!

Anti-Racism Resources For My White Friends & Readers

Podcast logo by Johanna Pendley
Podcast hosted on Buzzsprout
Transcript of podcast via Otter

Book links are affiliate links.

Support the Show.