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  • Rituals of Realization: Spiritual Quests, Parenthood Insights, and Cinematic Reveries
    Sep 25 2024

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    Ever wondered when and how routine quietly takes over our lives? On this episode of 'A Sip With Samaad,' I reflect on the moments we transition to the daily grind, sharing my newfound appreciation for the classic song "God Bless the Child" by Billie Holiday. I'll recount how becoming a father has profoundly changed my lifestyle, including my surprising love for Casamigos Anejo tequila. Let’s also discuss my exciting plans to collaborate with a talented mixologist for the show.

    From synagogues in Paterson to a progressive Pentecostal church in Atlanta, join me as I narrate my spiritual journey through diverse religious landscapes. Discover the joy and challenges of music ministry, and hear personal anecdotes about navigating faith as a gay individual in often unwelcoming spaces. This episode dives deep into my struggle to find a spiritual home and underscores the importance of believing in something greater amid life’s responsibilities.

    Finally, I offer fresh takes on movies and TV shows that have recently captured my attention, like the intriguing "The Union" with Halle Berry and Mark Wahlberg, and the flawed yet fascinating "Desperate Lies." We’ll explore the nuances of "Average Joe" on Netflix and the compelling performances in "Deliverance" by Lee Daniels. Reflecting on how aging and relocation have impacted my social life, I share the humorous reality of becoming more introverted and the constant quest for balance and connection. Don’t miss this heartfelt episode filled with personal stories, deep reflections, and a touch of humor.

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    41 m
  • Sleepless Serenades: Parenting Peaks, Forgiveness Facets, and Dressing for the Times
    Sep 11 2024

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    Ever wondered how sleepless nights could be so transformative? Join me on this heartfelt episode of "A Sip with Samaad" as I catch up on the beautiful chaos of parenthood. From the joys of watching my baby girl, Avery, grow each day to the decision to hire a nanny that finally led to a rare date night with Alan, I open up about the highs and lows of this new chapter in life. I’ll be sharing some candid reflections and lighthearted moments while savoring my favorite Costa Amigos añejo.

    What does forgiveness really mean, and why do we often get it wrong? In this thought-provoking segment, we unpack the layers of forgiveness through the lens of Simone and her mother Shannon's complex relationship. Challenging the conventional wisdom, we explore whether forgiveness is about forgetting or simply moving forward without harboring resentment. Additionally, we discuss the misuse of words like "demure" in our community and the importance of language accuracy for emotional healing.

    Has professional dress etiquette taken a back seat in the age of remote work? Reflecting on my own journey from dressing up for McDonald's in high school to the comfy gym-teacher-like attire of today, I share my concerns about the new generation's casual approach. With anecdotes from barbershop discussions and my personal experiences, this segment captures the nostalgic yet critical essence of changing dress norms. Plus, get a glimpse of Avery’s first internet debut and join me in extending an invitation to college students to help market the show for college credits. Together, let’s continue building this vibrant community.

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    33 m
  • From Bogotá to the Nursery: A Tale of Baby Avery and Joining Team NO SLEEP
    Sep 4 2024

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    What if navigating the complexities of international parenthood could transform your life? Join me, Samaad, as I share the exhilarating news of welcoming my daughter, Avery Wes, into the world. We explore the rollercoaster of emotions wrapped up in her birth and the unexpected break from the podcast, leading to a profound appreciation for fatherhood. From adjusting my daily routines to savoring a simple glass of Herodura Legend tequila and developing a fondness for Clase Azul, listen in as I describe how fatherhood has not only transformed my life but also the essence of this podcast.

    The challenges and triumphs of securing dual citizenship for Avery form the heart of our journey, with Bogotá's unique climate posing its own set of hurdles. I recount staying in an Airbnb, the absence of central air and heating, and managing my infant's health. The bureaucratic maze of paperwork and the tension-filled encounters at the US Embassy highlight the perseverance required in this international adventure. Through it all, I’ve experienced significant personal growth and resilience, lessons I am eager to share with you.

    Reflecting on generational trauma, we delve into the enduring psychological scars of slavery and how they shape Black parenting today. I discuss the historical conditioning that influences familial roles and expectations, and how these legacies impact our parenting styles and children's behaviors. Despite the challenges of sleep deprivation and the chaos of early fatherhood—including a memorable night with a baby breezer machine—I express immense gratitude for this journey, supported by a loving community. Join me as we navigate this incredible chapter of life and podcasting together, and thank you for your unwavering support.

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    42 m
  • (Season 3) Tequila and Transitions: Turning 40, Leadership Lessons, and Reconnecting Realities
    Jul 10 2024

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    Turning 40 has been a whirlwind of emotions and reflections. This week, I uncork a bottle of Clasa Azul Reposado tequila to toast not just my milestone birthday but a transformative year filled with personal highs and lows. Join me as I share the joy of celebrating with my loved ones, reflect on the bittersweet moments of my mom's passing, and navigate the complexities of surrogacy and evolving friendships. As I savor my tequila on the rocks with a twist of lime, let's ponder together what crossing into this new decade truly means and how it contrasts with the vibrant chaos of my 30s.

    What does it take to be a great leader? It’s a question I’ve grappled with while balancing personal passions like singing, acting, and dancing with professional aspirations. Accepted into the Millennial Leadership Initiative, I’m excited to share how this program is equipping historically marginalized leaders for greatness. From soaking in the soulful vibes of Avery Sunshine and Robert Glasper concerts to preparing for my baby's arrival, this journey is about growth, balancing dreams, and staying connected—whether with a glass of tequila or a bottle of milk.

    Reconnecting with old friends as I approach 40 has been an emotional rollercoaster. Some reunions were heartwarming, while others brought the reality of drifting apart into sharp focus. Relive the awkward yet enlightening encounters from Puerto Vallarta and explore the societal labels we attach to relationships. Finally, let's chat about our growing community. Follow me, Samaad Wes Keys, on Facebook and Instagram, and join our 30,000-strong family on YouTube at A Sip With Samaad. Your support means the world, and I’m thrilled to have you with me on this incredible journey.

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    35 m
  • Allergies and Affections: Unspoken Love, Cultural Reflections, and a Seasonal Adieu
    Apr 10 2024

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    As the pollen count soars and my heartstrings tug, I unveil the layers of my life in a story of unrequited love and the perennial fight against allergies. There's a glimpse into my battle behind closed doors, setting emotional boundaries, and the little things that keep me sneezing. But it's not all sniffles and sighs; I shake things up with a homemade "Tiger Woods" cocktail and a nod to the pride of Tougaloo College.

    Our Colombian getaway paints a picture of sun-kissed skin and the rich tapestry of Palenque's history, yet not without its share of slip-ups—like that one time sunscreen was no match for a child's ambitious use of baby oil. Al and I share a tender, humorous moment with our surrogate, an encounter made unforgettable with the help of Google Translate. Back home, my musings on films and the latest tunes from Beyoncé stir up thoughts on how these cultural pieces mirror and shape our world. The tragic events on a Baltimore bridge serve as a sobering reminder of society's quick-fire judgments and the need for level-headed discourse.

    As we wrap up this season, I'm filled with gratitude for the community we've built, and I'm already counting down the weeks until we reconvene. There's a promise of pop-ups during our brief parting, ensuring the conversation—our lifeline—remains unbroken. It's been a ride of laughter, reflection, and the shared moments that only our little corner of the podcast universe can hold. So as I sign off, remember that our story is just on pause, and the next chapter promises to be filled with even more adventures, musings, and, of course, you.

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    36 m
  • Echoes of Expectation, The Currency of Friendship, and the Voyage to Fatherhood
    Apr 3 2024

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    Ever felt the weight of society's expectations bearing down on you? I, Samaad, am no stranger to that pressure and in our latest episode, I peel back the layers of what I call societal guilt. Without the usual musical pizzazz—thanks to a pesky bout of allergies—I greet you with raw authenticity, diving into the personal challenges of meeting external standards while juggling my own aspirations. I'll also recount a week filled with simple pleasures, like setting up that out-of-office email and enjoying a glass of Prosecco, and the meaningful embrace of brotherhood spiced with deep life chats at ASW Distillery in Atlanta.

    Sometimes, the most perplexing puzzles of life lie in our friendships, particularly when money enters the equation. As I prepare to inspire the bright minds at Wiley University, I reflect on my own experiences with financial trust, starting with a pivotal moment involving my godfather Rodney. Money lending among friends can be a treacherous path, and I recount a recent situation that underscored the importance of crystal-clear expectations. Through these stories, I hope to navigate you through the delicate balance of maintaining relationships while also honoring commitments.

    To cap things off, I'm thrilled to share that we've hit a new milestone - 4,000 subscribers on our YouTube channel! The journey doesn't end here; it's a stepping stone as we gear up for the season finale, and I'm all-in on the emotional rollercoaster that is impending fatherhood. Join me as I express heartfelt thanks for the unwavering support and invite you all to continue embracing our highs and lows. No guests, no filters, just a man and his thoughts—lending a voice to the shared human experience.

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    33 m
  • A Whiff of Connection: Unspoken Etiquette and the Essence of Kinship
    Mar 27 2024

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    Ever felt alone in a crowd of digital connections? That's the heartfelt story I unfold in our latest heart-to-heart on 'A Sip with Samaad.' In a world brimming with online interactions, I delve into the personal side of feeling disconnected, sharing a melody of longing that echoes the universal experience of missing someone special. As I warmly welcome you back into our space, we're toasting to life's simple pleasures and the excitement of new adventures, including my journey towards fatherhood with Alan and our anticipation for baby Cole-Keys.

    The intimate topic of personal hygiene steps into the spotlight this week, as we navigate the tricky waters of body odor and the unwritten rules of social etiquette. Picture this: you're cozied up with someone close, and there it is—the sting of a less-than-fresh scent, or worse, a stain. It's a moment of truth, isn't it? We're laying it all out on the table, discussing how these delicate discoveries can shift the dynamics of our relationships, from friendships to romantic entanglements. It's a discussion many shy away from, but here, we're sipping on candor, discussing everything from deodorant ads to the underlying judgements within our social circles.

    Join me as I ponder the threads of identity that weave through our family histories—a narrative laden with the search for connection and understanding. I'm sharing the poignancy of my own family's saga, the void left by an absent father, and the complex emotions that surface when reconciling with family estrangement. As we approach the season's pause, I'm reflecting on the importance of these stories in shaping who we are. Rest assured, the intermission is but a brief respite, as we have some special plans to keep the conversation flowing. So, raise a glass to the journey thus far and the chapters yet to be written. Here's to the shared stories that bind us, until we meet again next week.

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    41 m
  • Melodic Milestones: Honoring Black Women, Embracing Diversity, and Recharging with Soulful Sounds
    Mar 20 2024

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    The rhythmic thump of a baby's heartbeat can stir the soul like a beautiful melody, and sharing that moment with you sets the stage for our toast to the dynamic Black women who've paved the way for change. As your host, Samaad, I invite you to join me on a reflective journey with "A Sip With Samaad," where we connect through the universal language of music, memories, and mimosas. Let's step into the warmth of reflection, celebrating Women's History Month with stories that intertwine my personal rediscovery of singing and heartfelt acknowledgments of the women who inspire us.

    My social compass recently guided me through the bustling day parties of Atlanta, contrasting with the more subdued vibes of corporate gatherings. I muse about the evolution of social spaces in our community, exploring how places that once catered exclusively to specific crowds are now blending together, fostering inclusivity for a gay, Black man like myself. And just when my social battery starts to wane, the soulful energy of Avery Sunshine's live performance recharges me, reminding us all that music is a sanctuary where we can find common ground.

    Peeling back the layers of my own story, I delve into the lessons of self-love and the strength it took to stand tall amidst the ridicule of childhood. My mother's unwavering support is a testament to the importance of nurturing individuality, highlighting the need for us to foster the same resilience in the next generation. As we look forward, I tease the exciting enhancements that await our community's interaction within the show, emphasizing the importance of your participation as we honor the legacies that shape us. From the intimate beats of a tiny heart to the collective pulse of our vibrant community, let's savor every sip of this life together.

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    35 m