• Am I the arsehole?

  • Jul 25 2024
  • Length: 6 mins
  • Podcast

  • Summary

  • Am I the arsehole? It's sometimes difficult to tell.

    I remember times I reacted with indignant anger, fuming at how I'd been treated. How DARE this person do this to me!

    And then, with reflection and maybe new information, I'll start to see how I've been complicit - or maybe directly responsible! - for what happened.

    Today's Friday Fink Tank topic comes from the amazing Celeste Halliday, who shared a useful frame to think about the ambiguous situations we find ourselves in.

    We are both the villain AND the victim.

    Being able to dispassionately look at things through this lens can be enlightening.

    Although, in the Fink family home during our early teenage years, it's probably fair to say I was exclusively the villain and Col the victim.


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