• Final Podcast AND How I Managed Returning Panic
    Aug 21 2021

    Hi folks,

    In Short, this is my last podcast.  I'm focusing on becoming a better counselor and enjoying down time.  

    And after having two panic attacks while speaking to a group, here's how I managed to get it in check quickly.  

    1. went to get physical and returned to medication, Setraline, an SSRI.

    2. Identified stressors and changed my thoughts/behaviors around them. 

    3.  Shared the panic publicly, which for me, was leaning straight into the fear. 

    4. Radical Acceptance - complete acceptance of panic, what my body was doing, and possible consequences of being in this state.

    As a result, my body has greatly calmed down.  It was a good reminder of the physical component involved.  You kind of forget the feeling when you don't have it.  

    Thanks for coming along! 

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    21 mins
  • 5 Reasons Why It's Hard to Regulate Emotions
    Aug 4 2021

    I hope you know that regulating emotions is no small feat.  Marsha Linehan, founder of DBT, identifies 5 reasons why it ain't easy to keep our emotions in check.  

    Disclaimer

    Anxiety Help With Wes is not meant to take place of a therapist or doctor. I am not a licensed professional counselor. And while I am a school counselor, content and stories discussed reflect in no way on education or the school system in which I work.

    About Me

    I’ve found there is a great need for those facing anxiety and depression. I see many people struggle to find effective help and even then the process ain’t easy. I myself have experienced severe panic attacks and depersonalization disorder. After getting through what felt hopeless at times, I’m here to provide stories of recovery and connect with you.

    If you find this helpful, please rate and review. Feel free to email support@anxietyhelpwithwes if you'd like to connect further.

    YouTube Page (with video of this audio recording) https://www.youtube.com/c/WesMurphyAnxietyHelp

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    9 mins
  • Three Reasons Emotions Are Helpful To US
    Aug 3 2021

    While we're trying to manage certain emotions, it's helpful to remember that emotions actually serve us!   Marsha Linehan, creator of DBT Therapy, lists things emotions do for us.  

     

    Disclaimer

    Anxiety Help With Wes is not meant to take place of a therapist or doctor. I am not a licensed professional counselor. And while I am a school counselor, content and stories discussed reflect in no way on education or the school system in which I work.

    About Me

    I’ve found there is a great need for those facing anxiety and depression. I see many people struggle to find effective help and even then the process ain’t easy. I myself have experienced severe panic attacks and depersonalization disorder. After getting through what felt hopeless at times, I’m here to provide stories of recovery and connect with you.

    If you find this helpful, please rate and review. Feel free to email support@anxietyhelpwithwes if you'd like to connect further.

    YouTube Page (with video of this audio recording) https://www.youtube.com/c/WesMurphyAnxietyHelp

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    6 mins
  • 21 Myths About Emotions
    Aug 2 2021

    Marsha Linehan, creator of DBT, shares 21 myths about emotions.  If you believe the myth presented, then consider changing beliefs about that emotion moving forward in order to improve mental health. 

     

    Disclaimer

    Anxiety Help With Wes is not meant to take place of a therapist or doctor. I am not a licensed professional counselor. And while I am a school counselor, content and stories discussed reflect in no way on education or the school system in which I work.

    About Me

    I’ve found there is a great need for those facing anxiety and depression. I see many people struggle to find effective help and even then the process ain’t easy. I myself have experienced severe panic attacks and depersonalization disorder. After getting through what felt hopeless at times, I’m here to provide stories of recovery and connect with you.

    If you find this helpful, please rate and review. Feel free to email support@anxietyhelpwithwes if you'd like to connect further.

    YouTube Page (with video of this audio recording) https://www.youtube.com/c/WesMurphyAnxietyHelp

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    17 mins
  • Simone Biles Mental Health & Honesty May Help Her
    Aug 1 2021

    Simone Biles famously withdrew from a number of events at the Toyko Olympics.  Based on what she's said, what may she be dealing with and how is her response helping he.   

     

    About Me

    I’ve found there is a great need for those facing anxiety and depression. I see many people struggle to find effective help and even then the process ain’t easy. I myself have experienced severe panic attacks and depersonalization disorder. After getting through what felt hopeless at times, I’m here to provide stories of recovery and connect with you.

    If you find this helpful, please rate and review. Feel free to email support@anxietyhelpwithwes if you'd like to connect further.

    YouTube Page (with video of this audio recording) https://www.youtube.com/c/WesMurphyAnxietyHelp

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    11 mins
  • Self Soothing
    Jul 28 2021

    DBT, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, uses Self-Soothing with the 5 senses. (Vision, Hearing, Smell, Taste, Touch). Focus turns from emotional mind to senses, which can have a calming/grounding effect.

    Disclaimer

    Anxiety Help With Wes is not meant to take place of a therapist or doctor. I am not a licensed professional counselor. And while I am a school counselor, content and stories discussed reflect in no way on education or the students or school system in which I work.

    About Me

    I’ve found there is a great need for those facing anxiety and depression. I see many people struggle to find effective help and even then the process ain’t easy. I myself have experienced severe panic attacks and depersonalization disorder. After getting through what felt hopeless at times, I’m here to provide stories of recovery and connect with you.

    If you find this helpful, please rate and review.

    Feel free to email support@anxietyhelpwithwes if you'd like to connect further.

    YouTube Page (with video of this audio recording) https://www.youtube.com/c/WesMurphyAnxietyHelp

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    11 mins
  • Paired Muscle Relaxation
    Jul 27 2021

    Paired Muscle relaxation is a skill and it takes time to practice. Really helps anxiety by teaching tolerance in a time of distress.

    Disclaimer

    Anxiety Help With Wes is not meant to take place of a therapist or doctor. I am not a licensed professional counselor. And while I am a school counselor, content and stories discussed reflect in no way on education or the students or school system in which I work.

    About Me

    I’ve found there is a great need for those facing anxiety and depression. I see many people struggle to find effective help and even then the process ain’t easy. I myself have experienced severe panic attacks and depersonalization disorder. After getting through what felt hopeless at times, I’m here to provide stories of recovery and connect with you.

    If you find this helpful, please rate and review. Feel free to email support@anxietyhelpwithwes if you'd like to connect further.

    YouTube Page (with video of this audio recording) https://www.youtube.com/c/WesMurphyAnxietyHelp

     

     

     

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    12 mins
  • Pros & Cons - A Skill Used for Making Decisions
    Jul 25 2021

    Making a decision can be difficult and confusing and can sometimes lead us to not make a decision at all, which usually does not work.

    Today's skill is called Pros & Cons. This may be helpful when making a tough decision.

    Disclaimer

    Anxiety Help With Wes is not meant to take place of a therapist or doctor. I am not a licensed professional counselor. And while I am a school counselor, content and stories discussed reflect in no way on education or the school system in which I work.

    About Me

    I’ve found there is a great need for those facing anxiety and depression. I see many people struggle to find effective help and even then the process ain’t easy. I myself have experienced severe panic attacks and depersonalization disorder. After getting through what felt hopeless at times, I’m here to provide stories of recovery and connect with you.

    If you find this helpful, please rate and review. Feel free to email support@anxietyhelpwithwes if you'd like to connect further.

    YouTube Page (with video of this audio recording) https://www.youtube.com/c/WesMurphyAnxietyHelp

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    9 mins