Merry Christmas, and welcome to the season four finale of the Art of Spousing Podcast! As we wrap up another incredible season, we're grateful for the journey we've shared and excited for what Season 5 will bring. In this episode, we're diving into the heart of Christmas, exploring traditions and memories that make this season so special.

We reminisce about our own Christmas experiences. We invite some of our Season 4 guests back to share their heartwarming Christmas traditions.

You'll hear:

- Our Personal Memories: James reminisces about Christmas day at his grandparents' home, filled with music and laughter. Lisa shares a humorous childhood practice of sneakily unwrapping gifts and a heartwarming family tradition involving a special moon pie box.
- Decorating the Tree: We hear from the Gormans about their delightful tree decorating ritual, complete with fun music and the three Christmas keys tradition.
- Creative Gift Giving: Discover our family's unique tradition of creating riddles for gift tags, adding a touch of mystery and fun to our Christmas morning.
- Stocking Surprises: Dive into the debate of where the best gifts belong – under the tree or in the stocking. Hear the Kushes’ story of how their stocking tradition began.
- Food and Festivities: From James' standing rib roast tradition to Lisa's pumpkin bread, food plays a central role in our Christmas celebrations.
- Embracing Change: We discuss how traditions evolve over time, adapting to life’s changes, as exemplified by the Robinsons and their Christmas Eve celebration.
- Gift Giving with a Heart: Learn about the Luffmans' tradition of adopting a family each Christmas and their lively Christmas Eve gathering.
- Gratitude and Vision: We share insights from the noble marriage, highlighting the importance of gratitude and vision planning post-Christmas.

We invite you to share your Christmas traditions with us. Whether you're newly married or enjoying the golden years, every tradition enriches the festive season.

From our hearts to yours, we wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Join us for this festive episode as we celebrate the love, joy, and togetherness that Christmas brings. Stay tuned for Season 5, where we'll continue to explore the art of nurturing a loving, God-centered marriage.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

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In this heartwarming episode of Art of Spousing, we welcome Terry and Carol Moss, whose story is a testament to the beauty of God's grace and the power of second chances in marriage. With humor, honesty, and a deep faith, the Mosses open up about their journey from individual struggles and growth to finding unexpected love and unity in a blended family. They share the challenges of blending two families into one harmonious unit, the importance of respect and honor in marriage, and how they've navigated the complexities of co-parenting and step-parenting with grace.

Terry and Carol also delve into their passionate work with blended families, offering encouragement, practical advice, and the wisdom they've gained from their own experiences. Whether you're part of a blended family or know someone who is, the Mosses' insights on maintaining a strong marital foundation amidst the "knots" of blended family life are invaluable.

Moreover, the Mosses discuss their book "In the Beginning, It Was Not So," where they draw powerful lessons from the very inception of marriage as intended by God. It's an episode filled with laughter, poignant moments, and above all, an unshakable belief in the covenant of marriage. Join us as we explore the intricacies of blended family dynamics and learn how to strengthen your own family bonds with Terry and Carol Moss.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
- SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
- In The Beginning, It Was Not So: Seven Marriage Lessons Learned In The Garden

For more on Terry and Carol's ministry and to connect with their community, visit:
- URL: One Flesh Ministries
- IG: @onefleshministries
- FB: OneFleshMinistries

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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Other Resources:
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

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In this episode of "The Art of Spousing" podcast, hosts James and Lisa bring their unique perspectives to the table, discussing the complexities and joys of marriage and family life. We start off with a light-hearted reflection on our own experiences, setting the tone for an episode filled with warmth, humor, and insightful discussions.

They revisit a compelling Q&A session from a Re Engag gathering, focusing on pressing questions that resonate with many married couples. A significant part of the conversation revolves around the intricacies of nurturing intimacy in marriage, especially when balancing the demands of parenting. They introduce the concept of 'parent office hours,' a practical approach to carving out precious time for each other amidst the busy rhythms of family life.

Diving into the theme of trust and transparency, James and Lisa discuss the delicate balance of managing personal devices and friendships within a marriage. Emphasizing voluntary transparency over control, we share our thoughts on building a foundation of trust and openness in a relationship.

Addressing the often-misunderstood dynamics of parenting, they challenge the notion that children are a distraction to marriage. Instead, they explore how children can actually enrich the marital bond. We offer strategies for handling different stages of child development, emphasizing the impact on marital health and unity.

The conversation also covers the sensitive topic of setting boundaries with extended family and in-laws. James and Lisa stress the importance of prioritizing the marital relationship while maintaining respectful and healthy relationships with extended family members.

Lastly, they touch upon the importance of spiritual guidance in making major life decisions. James and Lisa highlight the need for unity and collaboration within marriage, especially when faced with significant choices.

The Art of Spousing podcast is more than just a conversation; it's an invitation to grow and thrive in your relationship.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
Mastering the Art of In-Laws: Navigating Relationships with Grace

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Do you want to deepen your connection and foster a greater understanding in your relationship? Are you seeking a solution to enhance the love between you and your spouse? Look no further. Dr. Scott Symington joins us to share the key to achieving a heightened bond and a more profound connection with your spouse. Discover how intentional acts of love can transform your relationship and bring about a result of enriched love and strengthened commitment. Dr. Symington, co-founder of Act Agape shares how this app can foster intentionality and help you fill you and your spouse fill each other's love tank.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

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Website: actagape.com
Dr. Scott Symington IG: @drscottsymington

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Do you long for a marriage that not only survives adversity but thrives in the face of it? Are you seeking inspiration and guidance to strengthen your relationship? Look no further because today we have a special guest, Jeremy and Kourtney Roseberry, who will be sharing the key to achieving a resilient and flourishing marriage. They have overcome immense challenges and will reveal their solution for building a marriage that withstands any storm. Get ready to unlock the secret to a marriage filled with unwavering perseverance, vulnerability, and a deep-rooted faith that leads to an unbreakable bond.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Connect with Guests:
Jeremy IG: @roseberryjeremy
Kourtney IG: @kourtney.roseberry

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In this episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, hosts James Duvall and Lisa Duvall dive into the importance of grace and humility in marriage. They've learned a thing or two about this topic through their own experiences and want to share their insights with you. They discuss the power of viewing your spouse through a lens of value, celebrating their strengths instead of focusing on weaknesses. They also introduce the concept of pride and how it can hinder intimacy and cause conflict in a relationship. But don't worry, they've got the antidote: humility. They define humility as having an accurate estimate of your worth and thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself. They provide practical applications of humility in marriage, like putting your spouse first and being quick to listen and slow to speak. By incorporating these principles, you can cultivate a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. So, if you're looking to improve communication and strengthen your marriage, this episode is definitely worth a listen!

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
Shifting Gears for Communication
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!

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In this episode, James and Lisa welcome Cole and Karissa Robinson to the podcast. They share their love story, which begins with an "arranged marriage". Cole's shares candidly about his commitment issues. They hilariously recount breaking up after an introduction to Cole's mother at Disney. Despite three breakups, Karissa stuck with Cole, and they reflect on their rollercoaster journey. They discuss the importance of personal growth and self-reflection before entering marriage.

Cole and Karissa share their decision to become foster parents, which initially caused some hesitation. They explain how their church gathering and a vision Karissa had inspired them to foster children. They talk about the challenges and rewards of fostering, including the emotional attachment they develop with the children.

They emphasize the importance of prioritizing marriage and work-life integration. Lastly, they discuss the impact of investing in the lives of foster children and the support they receive from their church community and share two marriage tips that are sure to help any marriage relationship.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman

Connect with Guests:
Cole IG: @colejbr
Jasmine IG: @karissabr

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In this episode, Lisa and James discuss the importance of trust in marriage and relationships. The hosts emphasize that trust is the glue that holds all relationships together and can be built over time through small moments, but can also be broken in an instant. They discuss the concepts of trust builders and trust busters in relationships, sharing examples and stories of couples who have faced trust issues and worked towards restoration. They also touch on the importance of good communication, keeping promises, and the role of honesty and respect in building trust. Throughout the episode, they provide practical tips and tools for building trust in relationships. They end by encouraging listeners to take action and start implementing trust builders in their own relationships.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates
Hope Ride For Freedom
Sponsor James for Hope Ride '24
Unrelenting Pursuit - helping couples get on the road to recovery.

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration withTravis & Adelle Graham
Shifting Gears for Communication
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

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