Andrew Orolfo is a stand up comedian, host of the meter gameshow and one of Just For Laughs New Faces of 2022 originally from Oakland, CA where they pretty much just watched a video from the 80s with dude stuff.

Some things we said...

"Sometimes you get close to death and then you come, you know what I mean?"

"We're so often rushing with ourselves, especially men and people with penises."

"Creating space for pleasure and exploration can enhance sexual experiences."

"There's so much more. There's so much available to us if we're willing to explore it."

"We need to normalize that conversation. Yeah. By the way, fucking everybody's got herpes and we just don't talk about it."

"We have to make it safe for men to learn these things without shame, without guilt."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

Where to find Andrew:

Intsta: @andrew_orolfo

Website: https://www.andreworolfo.com/

OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/andrew_orolfo

Where to find Arielle:

Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck

Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok

Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/

Nicoletta Heidegger is a therapist, sexologist, equine assisted psychotherapist, educator and host of the podcast ‘Sluts and Scholars’ originally from the porn capital of the world (aka the San Fernando Valley) where thankfully she grew up in a sex positive home that lead to being the sexy powerhouse that she is today!

Some things we said...

“We all have the capacity to be woo girls”

"The San Fernando Valley: From Porn Capital to Podcast"

“So like a pole at the park, like a bed post, a lamp post, sofa arm, you know, like things that were things that were long and hard that I could rub up against.”

"Breaking Down Sexual Shame and Judgment"

“I had a curious mind about it and just an active imagination. I had a lot of fantasies when I was younger and self-pleasure and fantasizing became a big part of my young life.”

"The Lack of Sexuality Education for Medical Professionals"

"I don't know, it's just like dare to resist drugs and yeah. Let's look at it."

"And so she was the one that was like, yeah, we should be teaching our kids about masturbation. It's a natural part of having a body and we should be teaching kids about that."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

Where to find Nicoletta:

Intsta: @slutsandscholars

Podcast: https://www.slutsandscholars.com/

Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com/

Where to find Arielle:

Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck

Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok

Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/

K, love you, byeeeee

Nathan Hammerle is a sexual wellness educator and novelty specialist from central Ohio where the older kids faked them out and gave all the younger kids anxiety about the sex ed videos they had to watch about puberty.

Some things we said...

"Sex is messy and weird and we're gonna fuck up and just like, keep going."

"Safety is the foundation of any successful kink scene."

"How can we get more creative in bed?"

"I loved doing...that's how I sort of transitioned from history teaching into sexual wellness."

"There's room for everyone, but there's a responsibility...that everybody does their homework in this space."

"Electro play is fun...it's not all about pain."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

LA Couples Intimacy Workshop with Arielle on 5/15: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy

LA Sensual Movement Soundbath with Arielle & Sacred Sounds by Devon on 5/22: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/soundbath

Where to find Nathan:

Intsta: @theshadesofnate

Where to find Arielle:

Insta: @ariellezadok & @birdsandbeesdontfck

Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok

K, love you, byeeeee

Raye Schiller is a comedian, screenwriter and professional yenta originally from Queens, NY where they were raised as an Orthodox Jew. Yes, that means we are two Jews from New York which is obviously why this is the sexy yenta episode!

Some things we said...

"We're Jews. We have our own traumas."

"The gender thing was the reason I left. I couldn't exist in that world where I was a second class citizen."

"Relenting is not consenting. Just remember that. If you learn anything today, learn that relenting is not consenting."

"When you're in a subspace, you are, you're present, but you're like shut down, not shut. I don't want to use the language shut down, but you're so, you're like in a trance."

... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!

LA Couples Intimacy Workshop with Arielle on 5/15: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy

Where to find Raye:

• Intsta: @rayeschiller
• TikTok: @rayeschiller
• https://www.rayeschiller.com/

Where to find Arielle:

• Insta: @ariellezadok
• Freebie!
• https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/
• Be my Daddy

K, love you, byeeeee

Dr. Alix Agar is a Clinical Sexologist and one of LA’s top Sex Therapists originally from Oakville Ontario where her mom was the cool mom to create safe spaces for her, and all her friends. A literal hero.

In this episode we talk about:

• 02:06 Early Experiences as a Dancer
• 03:34 Bonding Experiences through Travel
• 04:04 Exploring Power Dynamics and Relationships Working On a Cruise Ship
• 05:55 Open Communication and Supportive Parenting
• 09:16 The Role of Parents in Sex Education
• 13:24 The Power of Self-Disclosure in Therapy
• 21:32 Disarming Clients and Normalizing Experiences
• 23:00 Spoiler… Therapists Hav Biases!
• 26:23 Harm Reduction!!
• 31:23 Lack of Sex Education in Therapy Programs
• 39:39 Defining Boundaries and Scope of Practice
• 41:33 You Gotta Like Your Therapist!
• 44:15 Sex and Politics - They’re unfortunately intertwined!
• 45:37 Religion's Impact on Sexuality
• 47:59 The Cruelty of Sex Education
• 51:36 The Importance of Embracing Childhood Curiosity
• 59:40 Find Your Community and Get Support

You can find Dr. Alix on Instagram at @dralixagar and her website https://dralixagar.com/

Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

LOS ANGELES: Join me on Wednesday May 15th for a Couples Intimacy Workshop at Zula Den where we'll be exploring arousal, gaining practical sexy communication tools and embaring on a journey of sensory exploration designed to ignite passion and deepen connection. Learn more at: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy

Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok

K, love you, byeeeeee

Miss Spent Youth is a Los Angeles based burlesque performer, producer, teacher and pin up princess originally from North Carolina where the girls were afraid to swim on their periods!

In this episode we talk about burlesque, empowerment, creativity, body positivity, power dynamics, body confidence, sexuality, burlesque, sex education, circumcision, shame, open-mindedness, acceptance and SO much more!

You can find Miss Spent Youth on Instagram at @ms.spentyouth and her website, https://www.losangelesburlesque.com/

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Los Angeles! If you’re a femme looking to build confidence, heal your relationship to your body and tap into your sensuality, join me THIS Sunday April 28th for an Immersive Sensual Empowerment & Pole Dance workshop in Downtown LA. Details & registration:

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/immersive-sensual-empowerment-pole-dance-workshop-beginner-friendly-registration-875746440177?aff=ebdsoporgprofile

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Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok

K, love you, byeeeeee

Amanda G. Savage is a comedian, host and creator of the show G. Savage Talks originally from the great soft pretzel state of Pennsylvania where she did an anti-abstinence only presentation and we Stan.

Also, happy 420 ya'll! This episode was unofficially sponsored by Bloom, their vapes are so tasty and smooth. If you're into it, I highly (!!) recommend this brand.

In this episode we talk about:

• The great G Savage
• Yelling at men on stage
• Boobs! Imagine having a different pair every day?!
• Respecting pussy gets you EVERYWHERE
• Decision fatigue in dating
• Growing up wanting to pee standing up (relatable)
• Prioritizing pleasure
• Society’s perception of sexual expression
• Refractory periods… what are they?

You can find Amanda on Instagram at @amandagsavage on TikTok at @gsavagetalks and her website www.AmandaGSavage.com

LA you can see Amanda live on April 25th at Holy Water in WeHo for the G Savage Talks premier! Get tickets here!

Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

4/28 Immersive Sensual Empowerment & Pole Dance Workshop Registration: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/immersive-sensual-empowerment-pole-dance-workshop-beginner-friendly-registration-875746440177?aff=ebdsoporgprofile

Check out other upcoming Sensuality workshops at www.ariellezadok.com/workshops

Join the mailing list for weekly Sex(y) Education sent straight to your inbox! www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com

Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok

If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie (or a Daddy, whatever).

K, love you, byeeeeee

ShelBee is an aerial performer, instructor and sex worker originally from Taiwan and grew up in an Asian community in SoCal where she was taught using a tampon means you’re losing your virginity!

In this episode we talk about:

• 03:19 ShelBee got me a gift!!
• 05:13 Cultivating Eroticism
• 08:58 The Impact of Positive Examples of Single Women
• 18:20 Asian Cultural Beliefs about Tampons
• 23:04 Older Siblings Are Our Saviors!
• 25:31 First Sexual Experiences
• 26:28 Understanding How to Please Women
• 29:18 Creating Mutually Beneficial Relationships
• 32:26 The Erasure of Female Anatomy In Medical History
• 35:11 Exploring and Discovering Sexual Preferences
• 39:22 The Impact of Shame and Internalized Shame
• 40:46 Coming Out and Overcoming Trauma
• 41:34 The Journey to Self-Acceptance
• 45:09 Entering the Sex Work Industry
• 47:05 Understanding Having a Sugar Daddy / Being A Sugar Baby
• 49:54 Dispelling Misconceptions about Sex Work
• 52:37 Unity and Support within the Sex Work Community

You can find ShelBee on Instagram at @shelbeestrong and if you’re lucky, teaching or performing at a venue in Los Angeles!

Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com

If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.

Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok

K, love you, byeeeeee