Manage the conflict between wanting a relationship while having fear of becoming too attached, or attached to the wrong person!

At the end of the episode I give you 4 things you may want to consider when determining if the person you’re dating is worth the investment.

04:27 What does it mean to become “Attached”?

06:00 Your Attitude About Attachment

09:00 Fear of Becoming Dependent / Losing Yourself

09:41 Interdependency

10:57 Willing and Open

13:46 Comment: “Vulnerability and Attachment is seen as weakness”

18:21 “I will stay single forever”

21:10 When Attachment really IS Weak

22:08 Good and Bad Managers

24:00 Do it Anyway and Do it Responsibly

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Let's Review! Attachment is a Major Key for Better Relationships

Your Attachment Style helps you understand how you relate to others, what your triggers and blindspots are (and why), and gives you a map to what you Need to feel safe and happy.

Everyone has either an Insecure style or a Secure style.

Insecure Attachers struggle with maintaining healthy relationships due to excessive anxiety and/or avoidance.

The goal is to Shift to Secure attachment where you can have solid, lasting relationships.

First and foremost, your relationship with yourself will improve as you get a better grasp on your emotions and thoughts. Then, you’re able to engage with others in new, healthier ways.

Pioneers of Attachment Theory: Mary Ainsworth and John Bowlby

Volume 1 of Bowlby’s Attachment Trilogy: https://www.amazon.com/Attachment-Loss-Vol-John-Bowlby/dp/0712674713

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I see a clear rise in the number of women who say they are abstaining from physical intimacy. This can make dating difficult. I understand this personally!

It makes it even MORE difficult when you’re not really being honest with yourself and/or others about WHY you’re abstaining.

Here are some things to consider if you are dating while abstaining, and hopefully it is also helps men understand what questions to ask, where women are coming from in general, and how to navigate the conversation better

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