• Brian Janes - came out after 26 years of marriage, now finding his place in his new community

  • Aug 28 2024
  • Duración: 32 m
  • Podcast

Brian Janes - came out after 26 years of marriage, now finding his place in his new community

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    Brian Janes, a successful real estate broker, came out as gay at age 49 after 26 years of marriage. He loved being married and had a strong connection with his wife, but deep down, he had a sexual desire that didn't match up with her. After years of therapy and self-help, his wife eventually told him she wanted a divorce. Brian knew he was gay from a young age but didn't know how to embrace it. He suppressed his true self and lived in fear of being found out. After his divorce, he made the decision to come out and started a podcast for men coming out later in life.

    Keywords: comingout, marriage, divorce, self-discovery, suppression, fear, loneliness, podcast, outlate, gay, alwaysgay

    Takeaways

    Suppressing your true self can lead to frustration and strain in relationships.
    Coming out later in life can be a difficult and lonely process.
    Embracing your true self can lead to personal growth and a more fulfilling life.
    Sharing your story and being vulnerable can help others going through similar experiences.

    Titles

    The Journey of Coming Out Later in Life
    Embracing Your True Self and Finding Personal Growth

    Sound Bites
    "Don't Let Your Wonder Turn Into Closure"
    "Here I Am, a Proud Gay Man"
    "You're Not Alone, We're All Out Here"

    Chapters (audio)

    00:00 Introduction: Brian James' Journey
    01:15 The Love and Connection of Marriage
    03:11 The Strain and Separation in Divorce
    04:09 Suppressing Identity and Fear of Coming Out
    08:27 Embracing Authenticity and Self-Discovery
    14:13 Coming Out to Ex-Wife and Children
    18:12 Starting the Podcast: Coming Inside Out
    23:09 Loneliness and Struggles After Coming Out
    28:14 Advice for Married Men Struggling with Acceptance
    30:31 Conclusion: Forgiving and Loving Yourself


    Chapters (video)

    00:00 Introduction and Background
    03:04 Suppressing True Self in a Marriage
    07:50 The Decision to Come Out
    10:43 The Power of Wonder and Curiosity
    13:36 Coming Out to Ex-Wife and Children
    17:23 Exploring the New World
    19:17 Regrets and Self-Kindness
    21:2 0Loneliness and Self-Discovery
    24:19 Starting the Podcast
    27:37 Advice for Married Men Struggling with Acceptance
    29:54 Summary and Closing

    Song Lyric Reflection: Ben Platt's "Older."
    • Older lyrics: https://www.google.com/search?q=ben+platt+older+lyrics&oq=ben+platt+older+lyrics&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIKCAEQABiABBiiBDIKCAIQABiABBiiBNIBCDQ2NzdqMGo3qAIIsAIB&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
    • Older on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_sADbvPmzE
    Podcast website and resources: https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com

    YouTube Edition: https://youtu.be/n3Iuqhu2K5M

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvsthP9yClKI4o5LxbuQnOg Certified

    Professional Life Coach, David Cotton: https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com

    Contact me: mailto:david@davidcottoncoaching.com
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