• the garment theory: how to find a partner who is compatible with you
    May 1 2024

    I REALLY hate failing because whenever I do, I blame myself for it all.

    In the current dating culture, I don't see myself as part of it; people impulsively get into relationships, and they only seem to be present shallowly. I crave a lifetime type of partner with whom I can connect deeply,


    but how can you make a good choice with a high ROI when the market is filled with shallow souls and cheaters?


    My brain gets really creative when I have a problem to solve: One day, I had a new idea about a quote from the Quran that I never fully understood before.

    In today's episode, I'm sharing something called 'the garment theory' with you. It'll help you pick the right partner if you're not into switching partners all the time, especially if, like me, you find it hard to open up.

    This theory is all about finding someone you really click with. You're hearing it here first, so please give this episode some love. Thanks!

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    59 mins
  • passion hunt boosters: the journey of finding your life's purpose
    Sep 14 2023

    In this episode, we embark on a deep exploration of finding your life's purpose and all about what you're passionate about. Host Mariam Alguessme shares personal experiences, struggles, and breakthroughs in her own quest to uncover what truly ignites her soul.

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    44 mins
  • how to feel ALIVE again after being stuck in a slump for a long time
    Jan 11 2022
    In this episode I'm going to be sharing my personal tips that helped me get out of a severe slump that lasted more than 5 months. I'm going to be sharing 10 easy things to do to recharge, an unexpected but amazing advantage to slumps and how to turn that into a slump exit plan with the help of goals and systems. podcast handle on Instagram: @cantyoujustpickone host's handles everywhere: @mariamalguessme Medium: Mariam Alguessme intro song: Alley Cat by Purrple Cat ily guys and thanks for listening <3
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    1 hr and 1 min
  • POV: you're 18 and never dated anyone or had your first kiss. How is it to be like this?
    Aug 17 2021
    Hi I'm 18 years old and I have never been in a romantic relationship. Why my love life is like this? How important love can be? Mistakes that I did in the past and how I'm trying to improve myself and set goals and expectations in order to evolve, learn and grow.
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    59 mins
  • maturing is realizing...*10 things I've learned from becoming more mature*
    Aug 10 2021
    I recently turned 18 and for the past 2 years I've been trying to shape my mind in order to have a smooth transition from teenage hood to adulthood. I started looking at the world and things differently and I started reflecting on how I used to perceive certain things. Growing up is a learning journey that we all are having at this moment of speech. Everyone is maturing as long as they still breathe and here are some things I realized when I grew up.
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • An introduction to this podcast: what can you expect and get to know the host
    Aug 3 2021
    Hi everyone hopefully you're doing amazing. In today's episode which is the first episode of can't you just pick one Mariam (host) talks about the main themes of this podcast, what you can expect from it and a little get to know Mariam session.
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    1 hr and 1 min
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