What happens when your top-performing rep becomes a struggling front-line manager? In this episode, Dan Freund, Chief Sales Officer at Invoice Cloud and former Oracle sales leader, unpacks the leadership gap plaguing high-growth sales orgs. From rethinking territory design to balancing equity with accountability, Dan shares how he transformed underperforming teams into consistent winners, without clinging to sales superstars or status quo assumptions.

This episode offers a candid look at the hard decisions CROs and sales leaders must make to scale performance without sacrificing culture. You'll hear why conviction matters more than consensus, how to spot reps ready for more than just promotion, and why internal networks can fast-track productivity. If you’re tired of recycling the same top 10% and ready to build a coaching culture where every position matters, this conversation will shift how you lead.

Top Takeaways

1. Don't fear reassigning key accounts.
Even top performers can adapt; keeping all the best accounts with senior reps creates a revolving door for new hires and stalls team growth.

2. Break the “greenfield trap” for new reps.
Reps in undeveloped territories often fail not from lack of talent, but from poor territory design and lack of enablement.

3. Promotion isn’t leadership readiness.
Great reps often struggle as managers unless they’re taught how to coach, hold people accountable, and operate strategically.

4. Coaching must go beyond deal reviews.
Most managers default to pipeline triage; real coaching means developing skills that affect every deal, not just the current quarter.

5. Internal networks matter as much as external ones.
High-performing reps build relationships across legal, finance, and other internal teams early, compressing ramp time and increasing deal velocity.

6. The best leaders make ideas that help the business, not themselves.
Dan’s biggest promotions came from pitching business-first ideas with no personal gain attached; conviction creates opportunity.

7. Equitable territories create stronger teams.
Giving everyone a real shot at success, rather than over-rewarding tenure, builds momentum and reduces attrition.

8. Friendship and accountability can coexist.
Strong relationships within the team don’t weaken performance; they create the trust needed for tough conversations and high standards.

9. Ask: Are you making the news or reporting it?
Reps who lead the sales process proactively outperform those who simply react to buyer-driven next steps.

10. You can build momentum and hit the number.
It’s not either-or; with the right structure, you can build long-term capability while executing in the short term.

When sales targets are missed, most leaders look at the pipeline, process, or personnel. But what if the real issue is a lack of psychological safety? In this episode of Coach to Scale, host Matt Benelli sits down with John Walston, author, entrepreneur, and founder of the Keep On Movement, to explore how vulnerability, empathy, and consistency in leadership can transform sales outcomes. Walston shares how personal adversity reshaped his leadership style, making him a more effective coach and culture builder.

This episode is a must-listen for CROs, VPs of Sales, and frontline managers navigating burnout, underperformance, or high turnover. You’ll walk away with tactical ways to shift from transactional management to human-centered leadership, without sacrificing accountability. Topics include managing anxiety in high-pressure environments, turning 1:1s into developmental moments, and why “get over it” is the fastest way to lose trust and performance. If you lead teams, this conversation will challenge how you measure success and show how culture is a quota strategy.

Takeaways
1. “Just stop it” doesn’t work, especially in sales leadership.
Telling someone to push through stress or anxiety without support not only fails, but it also damages trust and culture.

2. You can’t lead people effectively if you don’t understand what they’re carrying.
Empathy isn’t a soft skill; it’s a leadership multiplier that directly impacts motivation and consistency.

3. Physical movement drives mental clarity and performance.
Exercise helped Walston recover from a personal crisis, and research shows it’s as effective as medication for many mental health issues.

4. Positivity isn’t the same as being happy.
Leaders can model resilience by moving forward with optimism, even while acknowledging discomfort or hardship.

5. Your team won’t grow if your 1:1s are just pipeline inspections.
Coaching conversations should go beyond deal reviews to include skill development and personal connection.

6. Culture is built in the moments between numbers.
Asking your reps about their weekend and remembering what they said builds trust that translates into accountability.

7. Positive self-talk is a skill leaders must model and teach.
Verbalizing functional thoughts (especially out loud) has a 10x psychological effect compared to internal dialogue.

8. Gratitude changes how you lead and how people follow.
Being grateful for struggle, not just outcomes, shifts the mindset and allows leaders to better support their teams.

9. Even one moment of connection can shift someone’s trajectory.
Whether it’s a smile, a T-shirt slogan, or a question at the right time, leaders have the power to influence more than they realize.

10. “Easy is not best,” and your reps need to hear that.
High standards, not hand-holding, are what help people rise. But they must be delivered with belief and support.

Can Sales Managers Be Friends with Their Reps? The Ultimate Sales Leadership Debate

Should leaders be friendly or firm? In this epic live debate from CoachEm’s inaugural Closing Arguments series, two powerhouse sales veterans, Mark Kosoglow (Co-founder & CEO at Operator, former Outreach leader) and Kevin "KG" Gaither (CEO of InsideSalesExpert.com, former ZipRecruiter exec), go head-to-head on one of the most controversial questions in sales leadership:

“Can, should, or would you be friends with your sales reps?”

Moderated by Matt Benelli, host of the Coach to Scale podcast, this unscripted, no-holds-barred session dives into real stories, polarizing philosophies, and battle-tested experiences on the fine line between empathy and authority.

What you'll learn:

When friendship enhances performance, and when it kills accountability

Why sales managers struggle with tough conversations

The hidden career risks of blurred boundaries

How modern leaders navigate connection, trust, and coaching culture

Get actionable takeaways for building high-performing sales teams while balancing trust, professionalism, and results.

This is not your average webinar. It’s honest. It’s engaging. It’s real sales talk for real sales leaders.

Sponsored by CoachEm: The world’s first AI coaching execution platform, built to scale sales success through data, coaching, and culture.

COMMENT below: Can you be friends with your reps? Where do YOU draw the line?

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