Episode 228 - A Man That Treated Me Like A Man When I Was Just A Kid - Lessons Learned from Lloyd
In this heartfelt episode of Dad Space, the host shares a deeply personal story about an unlikely role model from his youth: a man named Lloyd who profoundly shaped his journey into adulthood.
Growing up in a small northern Canadian town, the transition from childhood to teenage years was a confusing and challenging time—caught between wanting independence and still being tethered to the limitations of youth. At that vulnerable crossroads, Lloyd stepped into the host’s life as a steady, unexpected guide.
Lloyd was far from glamorous. He worked shift work in a plant, owned a large farm with dairy cows and hayfields, and carried the weight of a tough, lonely existence after a separation from his family. Yet, despite his own struggles, he opened his world to a teenage boy, teaching him life lessons that went far beyond simple farming skills or hunting knowledge.
Through vivid stories, the host paints a picture of a man who sparked joy and adventure—a vintage John Deere snowmobile that became a beast to ride, daring jumps over hay bales and even a neighbor's house, and hands-on lessons in hunting and farm work. Lloyd’s rugged lifestyle, humility, and generosity created a safe, nurturing environment where the host learned responsibility, courage, and respect.
One of the most striking memories is Lloyd’s willingness to let a 14-year-old drive his beat-up farm truck right past the local police station—a quiet act of trust and empowerment that left a lasting impression. Lloyd’s confidence in the host mirrored the confidence he was helping build within himself.
The episode also reflects on the deeper emotional resonance of this relationship: Lloyd’s loneliness and longing for connection, and how this shared need brought two very different men together to support and uplift one another. It’s a reminder that mentoring and friendship go both ways—that sometimes the person who seems to have the least also has the most to give.
Ultimately, this episode is a call to action for dads and men everywhere: in a world where many kids may lack positive male role models outside their families, the opportunity to step into those roles is invaluable. Whether young or old, men have the power to profoundly influence lives through presence, trust, and simple acts of kindness.
As Movember shines a spotlight on men’s health and community support, the host encourages listeners to consider who in their circle might need a guiding hand—and how we can all give back in meaningful ways. The story of Lloyd exemplifies the impact one man’s belief in another can have across a lifetime.
Key takeaway: Life-changing mentorship can come from unexpected places. Being present, trusting, and investing in young lives—beyond your own family—builds stronger communities and teaches lessons that last a lifetime.
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18 mins