Dear Son,

By: Derek Johns
  • Summary

  • This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

    Derek Johns
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Episodes
  • With My Bear Arms: A TSA Nightmare
    Jul 9 2024

    In this episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' hosts J Black and D Johns engage in a meaningful conversation about responsibility, preparedness, and the unexpected lessons life throws at us. They discuss a personal experience involving an unintentional firearm incident at an airport, the implications, and the importance of being judgmental and aware of one's surroundings. The hosts also delve into the evolution of friendship loyalty, gun safety, and how these topics are crucial conversations to have with their children. The episode concludes with an exciting announcement about the 'Dear Son, Network' obtaining its trademark, signifying a major milestone in their journey.


    00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Beliefs

    00:00:40 Airport Incident Unfolds

    00:01:46 Welcome to the Dear Son Show

    00:02:16 Weekly Catch-Up

    00:03:14 Travel Experiences and Reflections

    00:04:37 The Airport Incident Revisited

    00:09:17 Legal Consequences and Reflections

    00:16:11 Gun Culture and Personal Experiences

    00:19:57 Judgment and Grace

    00:21:59 Facing the Consequences

    00:22:47 The Complexity of Loyalty

    00:24:32 Father-Son Conversations

    00:26:22 Real-Life Examples and Lessons

    00:31:20 Gun Safety and Family Dynamics

    00:39:02 Trademarking Success

    00:46:06 Final Thoughts and Gratitude


    Key Takeaways:


    1. **Gun Safety and Legal Consequences**: The speakers discuss the importance of gun safety, especially when traveling, sharing a personal story about accidentally carrying a loaded weapon in an airport. They highlight legal consequences, such as fines and losing TSA pre-check status, and reflect on the oversight and responsibility necessary to avoid such situations.


    2. **Judgment and Understanding**: There's an emphasis on not being judgmental and understanding the context of others' actions. They point out how quick judgments can be misleading, sharing anecdotes about people making assumptions without knowing comprehensive details, thus advocating for empathy and broader awareness.


    3. **Influences and Life Lessons**: The conversation ties back to the influence of one's social circle on decision-making and the importance of teaching children about responsibility and the repercussions of their actions. They touch on personal growth and learning from mistakes, as well as the impact of one's environment in shaping behavior and choices.


    #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #LifeLessons #FamilyTalk #StayInTheFight #PodcastLife #Parenting #RealConversations #LifeJourney #FatherhoodJourney #Motivation #PersonalGrowth



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    The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com



    Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:


    Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcompany.co


    Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com



    Let’s connect socially:




    https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast



    https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast




    The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community


    1. Reveal trauma.


    2. Heal from trauma.


    3. Help others through telling stories of it all.




    “Better Man. Better Father.”



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    47 mins
  • Navigating Life's Challenges: The Fight Within | Ep 94
    Jun 4 2024
    In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D. Johns and Jey Blac delve into meaningful conversations about life, fatherhood, and the challenges they face. They discuss personal struggles, including health issues, aging parents, and the evolving dynamics of family leadership. The episode touches on themes of resilience, the importance of understanding one's 'why,' and the impact of personal battles on family and business. They also reflect on the balance between external motivations and internal well-being, emphasizing the significance of staying true to one's core values. Alongside personal anecdotes, they explore how pride, loyalty, and the need for self-accountability shape their journeys. The hosts conclude with aspirations for the show's growth and the importance of maintaining its integrity and message.00:00:00 Introduction to the Dead Son Show00:00:19 Hosts Introduction and Initial Banter00:00:47 Life Challenges and Family Situations00:03:23 Conversations with Dad00:05:23 The Fight of Life00:08:50 Business Ventures and Loyalty00:11:18 Impact on Family and Parenting Challenges00:15:36 Balancing Family and Business00:22:33 Reflecting on the Evolution of Our Message00:23:45 The Importance of Internal Motivation00:25:44 Balancing Determination and Well-being00:27:01 Learning from Life's Storms00:27:46 Confronting Passivity and Reclaiming Drive00:30:07 Standing Firm in Business Decisions00:32:56 The Struggle with Pride and Asking for Help00:36:24 The Value of Genuine Conversations00:40:41 Future Plans and Personal Growth00:42:42 Closing Thoughts and GratitudeHere are three key takeaways from this episode:1. **Family Dynamics and Communication**: The conversation delves into how current life struggles, such as personal and health issues, affect family dynamics. It highlights the importance of open communication within the family, especially with children, to help them understand changes and challenges.2. **Personal Growth and Reflection**: Both hosts discuss the need for personal reflection and growth. They emphasize the necessity of being still and introspective to understand life's bigger picture. This includes revisiting and standing firm on certain principles and decisions to avoid compromising their personal and family values.3. **Business and Life Balance**: The hosts touch on balancing business ventures with personal life. They share insights on how to stay true to their original motivations (their "why") and avoid getting sidetracked by external pressures. This balance is essential for maintaining their integrity and ensuring that their business goals align with their personal values and family well-being. #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #LifeLessons #FamilyTalk #StayInTheFight #PodcastLife #Parenting #RealConversations #LifeJourney #FatherhoodJourney #Motivation #PersonalGrowthFollow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblacAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.comSupport the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcompany.coLove Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.comLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcastThe Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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    44 mins
  • This Is Why Your 2024 Resolutions Aren't Working | Ep 93
    Jan 20 2024

    In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac have candid conversations about fostering better family life and personal growth on the cusp of the New Year. They discuss the importance of lightening the load at home, being more active in family roles, the art of delegating responsibilities, and managing frustrations. They also delve into the significance of setting resolutions, staying true to them, treating goals as daily commitments, and having a healthier, more intentional lifestyle. Importantly, they highlight the cruciality of self-care, checking in on family and friends, and treating group efforts seriously. Moreover, they express their determination to make significant changes in their personal and professional life in the upcoming year.


    00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdote

    00:01:35 Welcome to the DSR Show

    00:02:00 New Year Reflections and Resolutions

    00:02:20 The Problem with Resolutions

    00:03:09 Setting Goals and Focus for the New Year

    00:03:50 The Importance of Education and Follow Through

    00:05:31 Restoration and Learning to Ask for Help

    00:07:26 Diversification in Life and Business

    00:08:57 Lightening the Family Load

    00:19:07 The Importance of Time Allocation and Family Time

    00:21:37 The Struggle with Rest and Guilt

    00:22:23 The Dangers of Hustle Culture

    00:23:10 The Importance of Self-Care

    00:24:27 The Challenge of Overextension

    00:25:02 The Art of Saying No

    00:27:22 The Importance of Asking for Help

    00:27:26 The Consequences of Ignoring Health

    00:32:07 The Journey to Better Health

    00:36:11 The Importance of Treating Your Network Right

    00:38:50 The Power of Engaging with Your Circle


    follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac


    Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:


    1.  subscribe to the channel, 

    2. turn on the notifications,

    3. like this video, 

    4. leave a comment, and

    5. share this content with someone who needs it.



    The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com



    Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: 


    Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcompany.co


    Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishajstudios.com



    Let’s connect socially: 




    https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  



    https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast




    The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community


    1. Reveal trauma 


    2. Heal from trauma


    3. Help through telling stories of it all




    “Better Man. Better Father.”



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content

    Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

    Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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    42 mins

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