Episodes

  • S4 Ep1: Ep. 401: Independent Women: Accepting Help

    S4 Ep1: Ep. 401: Independent Women: Accepting Help
    Aug 7 2024
    Hey y’all! The #RealFriends are back with Season 4! Now, as we’ve been telling you, we were always working behind the scenes and recording over the last 2 years, so, before we get into our recent recordings, let’s throw it back to an episode we recorded back in 2022! Life was LIFING for us, and we really had to lean into asking for help. On this episode we discuss Naomi Raines car chats with our fave, Sarah Jakes Roberts, and the gems they dropped! Then, we get real and raw with each other, referring to Biblical text to hold each other accountable with asking for and accepting help. If you’ve struggled with being too independent and asking for help, this is definitely the episode for you!

    #independentwoman #help #tooindependent #independent #throwback #christianpodcast #millennialentrepreneur #millenialpodcasters #christianpodcasters #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters #blackpodcastnetwork #blackpodcastsmatter #PodsinColor #podcastsincolor #society #culture #societyandculture #destinationkingdom #blackchristianinfluencers

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    DK Website: www.destinationkingdom.org
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    37 mins
  • S3 Ep8: Ep. 308: Trusting God's No

    S3 Ep8: Ep. 308: Trusting God's No
    Apr 27 2022
    It's #RealFriendWednesday! Have you struggled with trusting God when He tells you no or letting go of the idea you had for your future? If so, tune in for the Season 3 Finale because this is for YOU! Join us as we discuss Trusting God's No, how we react when God says no, the favor that is in those no's and soooo much more! 💜
    . . . #trustingGod #trust #NO #christianpodcast #millennialentrepreneur #millenialpodcasters #christianpodcasters #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters #blackpodcastnetwork #blackpodcastsmatter #PodsinColor #podcastsincolor #society #culture #societyandculture #destinationkingdom #blackchristianinfluencers 

    Show Notes
    Why Is This the Season Finale - 1:15 Topic Intro - 2:30 Our Lives Look Different Now - 3:50 How Do We React When God Says No? - 5:00 Joseph’s Favor in the “No” - 5:30 911 & the Bible - 7:00 Where Would We Be If God Had Let Us Do What We Wanted? - 10:00 Grieving Your Dream/Don’t Rush the Process - 12:14 Don’t Force God’s Hand - 16:00 How to Know It’s Not God’s Will - 18:00
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    DK Website: www.destinationkingdom.org
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    27 mins
  • S3 Ep7: Ep. 307: Real Friend Check In

    S3 Ep7: Ep. 307: Real Friend Check In
    Mar 29 2022
    The #RealFriends are back for a check in and let us tell you we got #REAL! In this quick episode, we discuss why we have been on such a long break and we drop some of the things that we did at the start of our podcasting journey, and so much more! Make sure you’re subscribed to our newsletter, YouTube, IG, and Facebook so you are up to date on all things DK! 💜💜

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    #RealFriendCheckIn #Checkin #christianpodcast #millennialentrepreneur #christianpodcasters #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters #blackpodcastnetwork #blackpodcastsmatter #PodsinColor #podcastsincolor #society #culture #societyandculture #destinationkingdom #blackchristianinfluencers #DestinyDecisions #anchoredmedia #tatumtemia #blessedandbossedup #FYVA #AnchoredMediaOpenHouse


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    #DestinyDecisions Series by RedefinedTV

    https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5WSu5tEDyGbcslWWw40JAqrLpEytmKcE 
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    23 mins
  • S3 Ep6: Ep. 306: The Stigma of Black Girl Magic: Sis, Sometimes it's your inner critic

    S3 Ep6: Ep. 306: The Stigma of Black Girl Magic: Sis, Sometimes it's your inner critic
    Dec 8 2021
    It's #RealFriendWednesday! Have you ever doubted yourself? Have you ever doubted God? We have both been there and we sure you all have too. It definitely wasn't the most comfortable situation to be in, but we learned and are continuing to learn so many lessons in placing boundaries on ourselves and our thoughts. In this weeks episode, we tackle how to fight your inner critic and trust God's plan for you. 💜
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    #siliencetheinnercritic #weareourownworstcritic #health #christianpodcast #millennialentrepreneur #millenialpodcasters #christianpodcasters #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters #blackpodcastnetwork #blackpodcastsmatter #PodsinColor #podcastsincolor #society #culture #societyandculture #destinationkingdom #blackchristianinfluencers #boundaries #rest #resting #boundariesarehealthy #blackgirlmagic #stigma #changingthenarrative #christianity  

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    28 mins
  • S3 Ep5: Ep. 305: The Stigma of Black Girl Magic: Sis, Sometimes You Ain’t Got It

    S3 Ep5: Ep. 305: The Stigma of Black Girl Magic: Sis, Sometimes You Ain’t Got It
    Nov 10 2021
    It's #RealFriendWednesday and Friends we ain't got it this week. Have you ever had a time where everything seemed to be going wrong, you feel overwhelmed, overworked, or just plain tired? Well that's us this week, so tune in for a mini check in and let us know how ya'll are doing. 💜
    . . .  #checkin #health #christianpodcast #millennialentrepreneur #millenialpodcasters #christianpodcasters #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters #blackpodcastnetwork #blackpodcastsmatter #PodsinColor #podcastsincolor #society #culture #societyandculture #destinationkingdom #blackchristianinfluencers #boundaries #rest #resting #boundariesarehealthy #blackgirlmagic #stigma #changingthenarrative #christianity  
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    DK Website: www.destinationkingdom.org
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    16 mins
  • S3 Ep4: Ep. 304: The Stigma of Black Girl Magic: Sis, Protect your Peace

    S3 Ep4: Ep. 304: The Stigma of Black Girl Magic: Sis, Protect your Peace
    Oct 27 2021
    In this week’s episode Besties join with special guest, Chemyeeka Tumblin MMFT, MSPH, we discuss mental health boundaries, stereotypes, shifting your mindset and more. Chemyeeka is an advocate, educator, and speaker. She has a Master of Science in Public Health from Meharry Medical College, Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy from Trevecca Nazarene University and over 7 years experience in the field of behavioral health.  Chemyeeka's mission is to  continue aiding families in changing the narrative around their mental health. Her hope is that communities' will encourage deeper conversations around the importance of therapy and the understanding that it is not therapy or God but instead both, that aid individuals in walking in their purpose. This episode is full of FIRSTS for DK. Tune in and let us know your thoughts.



    #becoming #growth #relax #christianpodcast #millennialentrepreneur #millenialpodcasters #christianpodcasters #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters #blackpodcastnetwork #blackpodcastsmatter #PodsinColor #podcastsincolor #society #culture #societyandculture #justsayno #destinationkingdom #blackchristianinfluencers #boundaries #rest #protectyourpeace #resting #mentalhealthawareness #boundariesarehealthy #blackgirlmagic #stigma #changingthenarrative #mentalhealth #christianity #faith #grace
     
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    DK Website: www.destinationkingdom.org


    Chemyeeka’s Instagram:
    @positivelymyeek
    https://www.instagram.com/positivelymyeek

    SHOW NOTES:
    0:00 - Welcome
    0:30 - Intro Recorded in ONE TAKE FRIEND!
    1:52 - The Thing About IT
    5:40 - Intro of Chemyeeka Tumblin
    9:00 - How to Establish Boundaries
    15:00 - Struggles with Prioritizing YOUR OWN Mental Health as a Counselor
    16:00 - Empty Your Cup Before You Take on the Weight of Others
    18:00 - You Can’t Support Everyone in Everything
    20:00 - Dee & Kee Get Counseling from Chemyeeka
    25:50 - Feeling Like You’re Losing Your Besties
    42:30 - Sometimes You Need a Nap
    44:40 - What Stereotypes about Mental Health Still Need to be Broken
    53:00 - Learn to Shift Your Mindset
    54:30 - There will ALWAYS be More Tests
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • S3 Ep3: Ep. 303: The Stigma of Black Girl Magic: Sis, We Been Breaking Boundaries Since Genesis

    S3 Ep3: Ep. 303: The Stigma of Black Girl Magic: Sis, We Been Breaking Boundaries Since Genesis
    Oct 13 2021
    It’s another #RealFriendWednesday! Get into this week’s episode with special guest, Rev. Dr. Jada M. Harris as we talk spiritual boundaries, accepting God’s will, spiritual rest, and SOOOO much more. Jada is a 2012 Spelman College graduate with a Masters in Medical Science and  Doctorate in Medicine from Morehouse School of Medicine.  She is currently a Family Medicine Doctor at Kennestone Hospital  in Marietta, GA. She has all the credentials and is the epitome of black excellence! This episode is definitely full of gems! We hope you’re ready! . . . .  #becoming #growth #relax #christianpodcast #millennialentrepreneur #millenialpodcasters #christianpodcasters #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters #blackpodcastnetwork #blackpodcastsmatter #PodsinColor #podcastsincolor #society #culture #societyandculture #justsayno #destinationkingdom #blackchristianinfluencers #boundaries #rest #Genesis #resting #spiritual #boundariesarehealthy #blackgirlmagic #stigma #changingthenarrative #spiritualboundaries #christianity #faith #grace 
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    Show Notes: 0:00 - Welcome 1:30 - Introduction of Rev. Dr. Jada M. Harris 4:42 - The Thing About It: Naomi Osaka and Simone Biles prioritizing their mental health and establishing boundaries 7:56 - What do boundaries look like in the spiritual realm?  12:00 - Breaking God’s boundaries changes His original intent/purpose for you 16:45 - Have the right people in your corner that can call you out! 19:30 - How to establish healthy boundaries 24:15 - God will use whoever/whatever to get you back in alignment 28:12 - New levels call for new boundaries 28:45 - The weight of being elevated 29:43 - Destination Kingdom is a ministry?! 31:00 - What does an encounter with the Holy Spirit look like? 37:26 - Being desperate to hear from God 41:40 - Be content with God’s “no” or “not yet” 43:40 - Mary J. Blige and Toni Braxton had us in TEARS!!! (Hurt Girl Secrets) 46:00 - Tell your family to let your Ex go! 47:30 - If “it” makes you anxious, CUT IT OFF! 50:30 - The wrap up, “Hold On Tight and Live” - Rev. Dr. Harris
    Jada's Instagram:
    @jada_monee 
    https://www.instagram.com/jada_monee/
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    56 mins
  • S3 Ep2: Ep. 302: The Stigma of Black Girl Magic: Sis, Get your Rest

    S3 Ep2: Ep. 302: The Stigma of Black Girl Magic: Sis, Get your Rest
    Sep 29 2021
    Hey Real Friends! This week Dee and Kee introduce a new series “The Stigma of Black Girl Magic”, where they discuss the 2021 Olympics, Naomi Osaka, and Simone Biles as they prioritized their mental health. Join the Real Friends as they kick this series off discussing resting, growth, trusting God and more! . . . .  #becoming #growth #relax #christianpodcast #millennialentrepreneur #millenialpodcasters #christianpodcasters #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters #blackpodcastnetwork #blackpodcastsmatter #PodsinColor #podcastsincolor #society #culture #societyandculture #justsayno #destinationkingdom #blackchristianinfluencers #boundaries #rest #godgotme #resting #trust
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    Show Notes: Intro- 0:00 The Thing About It/Series Intro- 01:23 The Power of Resting- 04:05 Celebrate where you are- 06:40 Jesus’ response to the storm- 10:00 God is working in your rest- 17:38 What is your posture?- 22:42 Remind yourself who you are- 29:20 Key Points- 37:23 Prayer- 37:51 Outro- 39:50
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    40 mins