In this captivating episode of Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution, Destin Gerek is joined by Shaney Marie, a guide and initiatrix of the feminine mysteries with two decades of experience in neo-tantra, archetypal dance, and erotic embodiment. Together, they explore Shaney's unique journey, from her beginnings as a stripper to becoming a spiritual guide. This conversation delves into the transformative power of erotic embodiment, the significance of integrating darker aspects of sexuality, and the profound lessons learned through embracing one's erotic nature. Destin and Shaney's shared history and experiences provide deep insights into personal and spiritual growth through the lens of sexuality.

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Key Insights:

• The transformative power of erotic embodiment in the journey toward authentic self-discovery.

• Strategies for integrating the darker aspects of sexuality to foster growth and personal empowerment.

• The role of neo-tantra in cultivating deep, meaningful connections and spiritual evolution.

  
  

Notable Quotes:

"Erotic embodiment is the gateway to profound personal and spiritual transformation."

"Integrating the darker aspects of our sexuality allows us to reclaim our full power and authenticity."

Timestamps:

00:02:30 - Introduction to Shaney Marie's journey from stripper to spiritual guide

00:15:45 - The importance of erotic embodiment in personal evolution

00:28:20 - Embracing and integrating the darker aspects of sexuality

00:40:55 - Insights into neo-tantra and its impact on spiritual growth

00:53:10 - Practical advice for cultivating authentic connections through erotic embodiment

01:05:25 - Shaney's strategies for embracing the full spectrum of one's erotic nature

Guest Bio:

Shaney Marie is a guide and initiatrix of the feminine mysteries with two decades of experience in neo-tantra, archetypal dance, and erotic embodiment. She specializes in helping individuals reclaim their erotic power and authenticity through deep spiritual and personal transformation. Shaney's work empowers individuals to integrate all aspects of their sexuality, fostering profound growth and meaningful connections.

Connect with Shaney:

IG: @shaneymarie_enchantress

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In this first solo episode of "Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution," Destin Gerek delves into the pervasive issues of sexual shame and trauma. Drawing from a heartfelt listener email, Destin explores the complexities of sexual abuse, the struggle for sexual self-mastery, and the journey towards embodied sexuality. Destin's candid discussion provides listeners with practical insights on his life’s work: supporting men in overcoming sexual trauma, embracing erotic self-exploration, and developing a healthier, more integrated relationship with their sexuality.

Tune in to discover how to navigate your own path towards sexual empowerment and spiritual growth.

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Key Insights:

• Understanding the pervasive nature of sexual shame and its impact on personal development.
• Practical strategies for overcoming sexual trauma and embracing erotic self-exploration.
• The importance of developing a healthier, more integrated relationship with one's sexuality.

Notable Quotes:

"We can't spend our lives running from our traumas; we need to face them with support and intention."

"Erotic self-exploration is about breaking out of habitual patterns and actively discovering what more is possible with your sexuality."

Timestamps:

00:00:30 - Introduction to the solo episode and upgraded podcast production

00:02:00 - Destin's vision for a more interactive podcast experience

00:03:30 - Reading and responding to a listener's email about sexual trauma

00:06:00 - The impact of early sexual abuse and the journey towards healing

00:10:00 - Exploring the concept of erotic self-exploration and its benefits

00:15:30 - Addressing the cultural baggage of sexual shame and guilt

00:20:00 - The importance of learning to receive and the power of touch

00:24:30 - Strategies for overcoming performance anxiety in the bedroom

00:28:00 - The transformative potential of sexual self-mastery and personal growth

Bio:

Destin is a renowned expert in sexual empowerment, personal growth, and relational dynamics. He is the author of The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves, where he shares his insights and experiences on evolving masculinity and fostering authentic connections. He has helped thousands of men step into deeper embodiment, pleasure and satisfaction.

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In this thought-provoking episode of "Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution," Destin Gerek welcomes Ben Raya, a menswear coach and tantra facilitator, to delve into the complex dynamics of male safety, societal perceptions, and the defensive postures men often adopt when confronted with women's fears and experiences. The discussion explores why many women state they would feel safer encountering a bear in the woods than a man, what this reflects about our society, and how men can engage in meaningful self-reflection and change. This episode challenges listeners to think deeply about gender dynamics, safety, and the role of men in creating a more empathetic and secure world for all.

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Key Insights:

• The societal implications of women's expressed preference for the safety of encountering a bear over a man.

• Reflecting on the defensive reactions of men when facing criticisms related to women's safety and experiences.

• Encouraging a deeper, introspective look at masculinity and how it shapes interactions and perceptions in society.

Notable Quotes:

• "Boys argue about whose fault it is. Men show up to help hurting people."

• "Women don't feel safe around men. Not because all men are bad, but because enough men are bad and they don't know who's who."

• "This is about so much more than whether or not you personally are safe or if bears in general are dangerous. This is about hearing the experience of women."

Timestamps:

00:03:10 - Introduction to Ben Raya and the bear versus man safety debate

00:14:50 - Analyzing societal perceptions and personal reactions to women's fears

00:25:35 - Discussing the role of introspection in addressing and changing harmful narratives

00:37:00 - Exploring practical steps for men to engage in transformative self-awareness

00:48:15 - Insights from Ben on facilitating change and understanding within men

01:02:20 - Wrapping up: How men can actively contribute to creating safer spaces

Guest Bio:

Ben Raya is a mens coach and tantra facilitator known for his thoughtful approach to gender dynamics and safety. His work focuses on helping men understand and shift their perceptions and behaviors, fostering safer and more respectful environments. Ben’s insights offer profound shifts in perspective, challenging men to better themselves and the world around them.

Connect with Ben:

IG: @itsbenraya

Website: https://www.samavetaliving.com/

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