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Does the Narcissist Believe Their Own Harmful Words? The Motivations Behind Narcissistic Behavior
- Jan 17 2023
- Length: 13 mins
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- Theresa
- 02-04-23
It doesn’t matter if the Narc believes his words or not
I have struggled with, and questioned for so long, whether my ex actually believes the ridiculous, false narrative & lies he accuses me of in his ongoing smear campaign. I know now that it doesn’t matter if he has convinced himself of the lies & truly believes them, or he just says what he says merely to be cruel and intentionally hurtful to me. Both are wrong, both are unhealthy and abusive, and both are “him” problems. I can not control his thoughts or his words. I am incapable of ever proving his lies incorrect in his mind, nor is it my responsibility to do so. I know now that I don’t have to prove anything to him to make him stop being “abusive”. It IS my responsibility to accept that this is who he is, and I must protect myself from his ongoing verbal & emotional abuse. Nor is his mental health my responsibility, but mine is. I can not convince him to get help, I can not help him, and no amount of love, loyalty, permissiveness, or forgiveness from me will change him. I must move on and leave the toxicity behind, for me.
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