In this enriching episode, Aurora hosts Marc, who shares his profound insights on neurodivergent leadership. Marc introduces himself by recounting his journey with ADHD, from his early school years to receiving his diagnosis at 16. This pivotal moment spurred him to embrace and understand his unique brain function, leading to his certification as an ADHD life coach. Marc speaks proudly of founding the Men's ADHD Support Group, a 501c3 nonprofit with over 17,000 members, aiming to empower men with ADHD. He emphasizes the importance of leveraging the inherent strengths of neurodivergent individuals rather than conforming to societal norms. Marc's empathetic and mentorship-driven leadership style, rooted in his personal experiences, serves as a testament to the potential and efficacy of neurodivergent leaders. He addresses challenges such as imposter syndrome, the importance of passion in leadership, and strategies for effective communication within his organization. The discussion also touches on the nuances of the ADHD label, stressing a balanced view that acknowledges both strengths and challenges.

Marc Almodovar Jr. is a neurodiversity advocate and the founder of the ADHD Men’s Support Group, a safe space where men with ADHD can connect with others who share common experiences and challenges. Marc’s personal experience with ADHD led him to feel isolated and misunderstood, and he recognized the need for a supportive community. He believes that by fostering a sense of belonging and acceptance within the group, men with ADHD can advocate for neurodiversity awareness and acceptance within society as a whole.

As a mental health advocate, Marc recognizes the stigma surrounding mental illness and strives to create a space where men with ADHD can feel safe and supported regardless of their unique ways of thinking and experiencing the world. He is passionate about raising awareness about neurodiversity and helping people understand the diverse ways in which people experience the world. With a balance of authenticity and positivity, Marc inspires others to embrace their unique strengths and connect with others within the neurodiverse community.

• Marc discusses his experience with ADHD, including his diagnosis at 16 and its impact on his life.

• He shares how understanding his brain led him to personal development and becoming an ADHD life coach.

• Founding the Men's ADHD Support Group, a non-profit organization with over 17,000 members.

• People with ADHD often have strong leadership qualities.

• Leveraging strengths rather than conforming to societal norms.

• The importance of mentorship and leading by example.

• Personal and societal challenges neurodivergent leaders face, such as imposter syndrome and self-criticism.

• The value of self-affirmations and support systems in overcoming these challenges.

• Negative feedback and misconceptions about ADHD, especially related to gender.

• The need for safe spaces for men with ADHD and dispelling myths around the condition.

• Giving constructive feedback while staying authentic.

• Using “kind candor” and focusing on team collaboration to improve feedback delivery.

• Resources available for partners of men with ADHD, including support groups and public content.

• The debate around viewing ADHD as a gift versus a disorder.

• Recognizing both the strengths and challenges of ADHD without labeling it strictly as one or the other.

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This week on the Embracing Intensity podcast, host Aurora discusses the transformative power of music with guest Princess Fortier. Princess shares her personal journey of using singing to alleviate her chronic migraines, which began at the age of 13. Despite initially pursuing neuroscience to find a medical cure, she discovered that singing provided significant relief from her symptoms. Aurora and Princess delve into how music can relax, heal, and foster emotional well-being, particularly for those with neurodivergent traits like ADHD and autism. They also explore the importance of community in musical healing practices and offer practical advice for using music and singing as therapeutic tools. Tips for finding and creating musical communities are discussed, along with the benefits of engaging in sound baths and circle singing.

About Princess:

Princess Fortier is a dynamic musician, speaker, and advocate for mental health and neurodivergence. With a rich background in using music as a therapeutic tool, she has dedicated her career to helping others find healing and self-expression through creative outlets. Princess's work emphasizes the emotional and psychological benefits of music, drawing from her personal experiences and professional expertise to inspire and empower her audience. She is known for her engaging and heartfelt presentations, making complex topics accessible and relatable to diverse audiences.

In this Episode:

• Princess shares how music has helped her understand and process emotions, learn about love, and find healing.
• Aurora introduces the "Embracing Intensity" podcast, aimed at gifted, creative, twice-exceptional individuals.
• Moving to a single monthly episode improved downloads.
• Princess discusses her journey studying neuroscience to find a cure for her migraines.
• Singing during a migraine attack unexpectedly relieved her symptoms.
• Aurora opens up Q&A, asking Princess about factors contributing to music helping with migraines.
• Princess explains the potential of music to relax and align with one's purpose, influencing mental and physical well-being.
• Community involvement in singing and music is encouraged for healing and creativity.
• Practical suggestions for engaging in music, such as joining choirs or attending sound bowl classes.
• Discussion on how specific songs and types of music can be personalized for therapeutic benefit.
• Auroras' philosophy: using her platform to allow others to share their voices.
• Princess's invitation to explore creating and experiencing music for personal therapy.
• Closing remarks emphasize continuing conversation and participating in the Embracing Intensity community.
• Aurora concludes with invitations to join the community for support and access to tools for self-regulation.

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In this solo episode, I delve into my personal journey of overcoming a prolonged burnout to explore the concept of truly restful rest. I discuss the five areas of energy balance—physical, emotional, mental, social, and connection—from my 'Balancing Your Time and Energy' workbook. Through my experience, including the importance of joy-driven activities, social connections, and the INCUP (Interest, Novelty, Challenge, Urgency, and Passion) framework, I provide practical advice on how to replenish energy reserves effectively. Also, discover the value of doing an energy audit to identify draining versus energizing activities. Learn more about my strategies for achieving genuine rest and explore my workbook collection for further guidance.

In this Episode:

• Experiencing burnout and the importance of restful rest.

• Five Areas of Energy Balance: Physical, Emotional, Mental, Social, and Connection.

• Physical Rest: Emphasizes the importance of activities that truly relax the nervous system, like going for walks.

• Mental Rest: Stresses shifting focus to activities driven by joy rather than duty to avoid energy drain.

• Emotional Rest: Highlights the significance of assertive actions over anxiety-driven actions.

• Social Rest: Explains how spending time with comfortable social connections can be energizing.

• Connection: Discusses the importance of feeling connected to oneself, others, and the world.

• Motivation Factors: INCUP - Interest, Novelty, Challenge, Urgency, and Passion - as motivational strategies.

• Urgency: Talks about creating a sense of urgency through public accountability to stay motivated.

• Challenge: Transforming tasks into challenges to stay engaged and motivated.

• Interest: Recommends revisiting previous interests to reignite passion.

• Novelty and Passion: Encourages switching things up to maintain novelty and passion in tasks.

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