Here's a glimpse into what a relationship looks like between an Enneagram Type One Reformer and a Type Eight Challenger. We'll talk about what these types have in common, what specifically attracts each type to each other, what conflict looks like between them, and then conclude with some *potentially* helpful advice based on the enneagram theories discussed throughout the episode. DISCLAIMER: This is a general overview that cannot cover the complexity of each subtype & variation (e.g. a social 8w7 with a self-pres 1w9 could be very different than some of these general descriptions), nor can I cover how the varying degrees of each specific couple's mental/emotional health would impact so many of these patterns. So with that disclaimer out of the way, please feel free to share how these patterns do or don't play out in your personal life, all while keeping any combative disagreements to a minimum :) Thank you, and enjoy! 0:00 Shared Traits 3:11 One's Attraction to Eight 5:58 Eight's Attraction to One 9:13 Conflict 11:57 Advice 14:30 Rating 👨‍🔧 Type One Complete Guide ▶ https://youtu.be/vGfrzzvWebE 🩵 Type One Relationships Overview ▶ https://youtu.be/4_0ZIAExezY 💪 Type Eight Complete Guide ▶ https://youtu.be/MU48u52wtMc 💙 Type Eight Relationships Overview ▶ https://youtu.be/lGSMuy5PMH8 Become a YGAT Channel Member to get access to exclusive perks and watch new videos weeks before anyone else 🎉 ▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13ZwjIfPn8tvD7S7yyolRA/join Find Your Enneagram Type: Book a Typing Session ☎️ ► https://www.youvegotatype.com/contact #enneagram #relationships #enneagram8 #enneagram2 #selfawareness #relationshipadvice #selfhelp #spiritualgrowth #personalitytypes #personality #enneagramtypes #love #dating #marriage #relationshipgoals #relationshipsuccess #enneagram1w2 #enneagram1w9 #enneagram8w9 #enneagram8w7 #challenger #strength #intensity #introvert #extrovert #relationships #love #intimacy #marriage #boundaries #brenebrown #achievement #identity #reformer #leadership #codepent #boundaries -Written by Colton Simmons, but with all due credit to the Don Riso & Russ Hudson of the Enneagram Institute for their many books that informed the majority of the content contained in this video, as well as Richard Rohr, Helen Palmer, Claudio Naranjo, Oscar Ichazo, and the many other major enneagram pioneers!