Matt Bair and Ryan Hedrick delve into why summer parties can be particularly challenging for those recovering from substance abuse. These gatherings often feature a lot of alcohol and sometimes drugs, which can trigger memories of past substance use for your loved one. They discuss the pressure that addicts might feel to either drink to fit in or risk feeling left out if they don’t. It’s a delicate balance.

Matt and Ryan highlight four key points:

Check Your Guest List: Be mindful of who you invite to create a supportive environment.

Communication is Key: Openly discuss plans and concerns with your loved one.

Be Supportive: Offer encouragement and understanding throughout the event.

Respect Boundaries: Invite your loved one, but respect their decision if they choose not to attend. If your loved one needs a meeting or seems out of place during the party, understand that they might feel overwhelmed. Knowing these factors can help create a more comfortable and inclusive atmosphere.

Timestamps

4:12 - 6:55 | Check Your Guest List

• As the caregiver, you have some influence over how things go.
• Remember, you don't need to walk on eggshells around our feelings and recovery.
• Our recovery is ultimately our responsibility.

6:56 - 9:50 | Communication is Key

• Communication is crucial.
• Have an open and honest conversation with your loved one.
• Ask them what they need from you to feel safe and supported.

9:53 - 13:09 | Be Supportive

• If your loved one needs a meeting or seems out of place at parties, understand that they might feel overwhelmed.
• We know it's a lot to ask, but you play a crucial role in creating a supportive environment.

13:08 - 15:59 | It’s Up to Us to Change

• Caregivers may expect immediate results, but recovery takes time.
• It’s up to the addict to change their life.
• Be patient; recovery takes time and is full of ups and downs.

Resources

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• • Al-Anon: Al-Anon.org
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• Suicide Prevention Hotline: (800) 273-8255 (24/7)

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