Episodes

  • 158. Is People Pleasing Ruining Your Life? with Kara Loewentheil

    158. Is People Pleasing Ruining Your Life? with Kara Loewentheil
    May 21 2024
    Tired of the relentless pressure to constantly "better" yourself? In this episode of Financial Feminist, host Tori Dunlap sits down with Master Certified Life Coach Kara Loewentheil to dismantle the toxic narrative of self-hate that's often ingrained in the self-development industry, especially for women. They delve into how societal expectations, particularly for women, fuel a cycle of self-criticism and never-ending striving for external validation. This conversation will challenge you to rethink your approach to personal growth and goals, offering a fresh perspective on how to achieve success without sacrificing self-love. Kara shares her own transformative journey and provides actionable insights on how to rewire your brain for self-acceptance, create your own validation, and break free from the emotional vending machine trap. Tune in to discover how to fuel your personal development with self-compassion, not self-loathing. Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/158-is-people-pleasing-ruining-your-life-with-kara-loewentheil/. Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz. Kara’s website The Feminist Self-Help Society The Unf*ck Your Brain podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    58 mins
  • 157. How to Set Financial Boundaries for Weddings, Family, Friends, and more

    157. How to Set Financial Boundaries for Weddings, Family, Friends, and more
    May 16 2024
    "When it comes to setting financial boundaries, you have to figure out what those boundaries are — and you also need to listen to them." Tori Dunlap Do you ever find yourself saying "yes" to dinners, trips, or events that you can't really afford? Do you feel pressured to invest in your friend's MLM or attend a destination wedding that will break the bank? In this episode, we dive deep into the uncomfortable topic of money and relationships. We provide practical tips and scripts on how to navigate tricky situations, from declining extravagant invitations to breaking up with your financial advisor. We'll even tackle the controversial topic of weddings and the insane expectations they often come with. Tune in to learn how to confidently set financial boundaries, protect your friendships, and take control of your financial well-being. Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/157-how-to-set-financial-boundaries-for-weddings-family-friends-and-more/. Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    26 mins
  • 156. How Capitalism Weaponized Feminism with June Carbone

    156. How Capitalism Weaponized Feminism with June Carbone
    May 14 2024
    Have you ever felt stuck in a workplace catch-22? You work hard, play by the rules, but somehow never get ahead? This episode of Financial Feminist tackles the frustrating reality many women face in the professional world. We're joined by June Carbone — author and Chair of Law, Science, and Technology at the University of Minnesota Law School. Her upcoming book "Fair Shake," written alongside 2 co-authors, explains plain and simple how the American economy is rigged to hold women back. In this insightful discussion, June introduces and explains the “triple-bind” — a concept that describes the limitations and unfair choices women confront in the workplace, and breaks down the three parts of the bind and how they hold women back. Tune into this episode to hear June’s powerful insights on: navigating the “triple bind” in the workplace strategies for career advancement that don't require compromising your integrity the connection between women's economic struggles and societal factors Whether you're just starting your career or looking to break through a glass ceiling, this episode is packed with insights to help you win the game on your own terms. Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/156-how-capitalism-weaponized-feminism-with-june-carbone/. Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz. Get June’s book: Fair Shake Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • 155. Overcoming Cultural and Generational Money Stories with Jannese Torres

    155. Overcoming Cultural and Generational Money Stories with Jannese Torres
    May 7 2024
    Feeling stuck and unsure how to break free financially? This episode is your wake-up call. Join host Tori Dunlap for an inspiring conversation with repeat guest, Jannese Torres, award-winning Latina Money Expert and author of the bestselling book "Financially Lit." Jannese became an accidental entrepreneur after a job loss led her to create a successful Latin food blog, Delish D’Lites. Now, she helps her clients and listeners build successful online businesses that allow them to pursue financial independence and freedom. In this episode, you'll hear Jannese's powerful insights on: Why financial security is the key to unlocking your true potential How to ditch the limiting beliefs holding you back The art of negotiation & why you deserve to be fairly compensated How to reframe your mindset for financial abundance The power you have to change your community through financial literacy Jannese is on a mission to educate marginalized communities on topics like entrepreneurship, investing, and financial independence. She's here to debunk the myth that wealth is reserved for a lucky few and show you exactly how to become "financially lit." Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/155-overcoming-cultural-and-generational-money-stories-with-jannese-torres/. Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz. Jannese’s podcast: Yo Quiero Dinero Jannese’s book: Financially Lit! The Modern Latina’s Guide to Level Up Your Dinero & Become Financially Poderosa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    56 mins
  • 154. Why Do We Hate When Women Have Money?

    154. Why Do We Hate When Women Have Money?
    May 2 2024
    “Men are allowed to ask for what they're worth. They're allowed to show up as the fullest version of themselves. They're allowed to take up space. They're allowed to purchase things without the shaming judgmental comments. Men are allowed to pursue wealth in a way that women just aren't.” Tori Dunlap Have you ever felt guilty about wanting more money? Have you ever felt shame around wanting to charge more or get paid more? This episode of Financial Feminist tackles the deep-seated societal narratives that discourage women from pursuing financial security and independence and exposes the double standard that exists around money and wealth. Men are celebrated for their financial success, while women are expected to be selfless and prioritize the needs of others, often at the expense of their own financial well-being. This episode is a must-listen for any woman who wants to challenge the status quo and build a life of financial freedom. Join Tori Dunlap as she dismantles the myths around women and money, and equips you with the tools and confidence to take control of your financial future. Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/154-why-do-we-hate-when-women-have-money/. Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz Mentioned in this episode: Get the Financial Feminist book Join the Financial Feminist Facebook group Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    35 mins
  • 153. Negotiating Your Worth with Jennifer Justice

    153. Negotiating Your Worth with Jennifer Justice
    Apr 30 2024
    Feeling stuck negotiating as a female entrepreneur? Have you ever walked away from a deal or a partnership feeling like you left money on the table? In this episode, we flip the script on negotiation so you can level up your career. Join host Tori Dunlap for an insightful conversation with Jennifer Justice, the mastermind behind The Justice Dept. – a business strategy & business development consultancy and a law firm that works with female entrepreneurs, executives, talent, brands and creatives to build and maximize their revenue and wealth. Prior to The Justice Dept., Jennifer was EVP of Strategic Marketing and Business Development and General Counsel at Roc Nation; she has served as personal entertainment attorney to Jay-Z and Beyonce during her time at Roc Nation. Jennifer's a powerhouse consultant who has helped countless female founders launch, grow, and scale their businesses. From crafting strategic partnerships to demystifying negotiation tactics, Jennifer has the tools and experience to help you become a fearless negotiator. Whether you're a seasoned entrepreneur or just starting out, this episode is packed with actionable tips and strategies you won't want to miss. Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/153-negotiating-your-worth-with-jennifer-justice/. Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz. Jennifer’s website: The Justice Dept. Jennifer’s career course: Be the Boss of Your Career Check out Jennifer’s podcast: Takin’ Care of Lady Business Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • 152. The Cost of Infertility with Ali Prato (Infertile AF)

    152. The Cost of Infertility with Ali Prato (Infertile AF)
    Apr 23 2024
    TW: infertility, pregnancy, loss If you’re joining us today — it's National Infertility Awareness Week. For one in five people, building a family can be a challenging journey. In this episode of Financial Feminist, Tori tackles the deeply personal yet widely experienced topic of infertility, alongside Ali Prato, host of the top-ranked podcast "Infertile AF," co-founder of Fertility Rally and author of the children's book "Work of ART." Ali bravely shares her own experience with secondary infertility, IUIs, IVF, and the emotional, physical, and financial burdens it brought. Together they discuss not only the science and stats, but also the real impact infertility has on relationships, mental health, and (of course) wallets. Join us as Ali sheds light on a topic that deserves open discussion. Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at: https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/152-the-cost-of-infertility-with-ali-prato-infertile-af/ Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz. Check out Ali’s podcast: Infertile AF podcast Get support & join the community: Fertility Rally Get Ali’s book: Work of Art Visit Ali’s website: http://Infertileafgroup.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • 151. Ask Tori: Buying a Car, Balance Transfers, and Choosing the Best Credit Cards

    151. Ask Tori: Buying a Car, Balance Transfers, and Choosing the Best Credit Cards
    Apr 18 2024
    We’re back with another “Ask Tori” Financial Feminist episode! Today Tori’s answering voicemail questions from the Financial Feminist community — including questions about leasing or buying a car, balance transfers, and choosing the best credit cards. From navigating through the emotional trauma of spending versus saving, to breaking the cycle of constantly transferring debt, Tori addresses it all with her signature blend of financial wisdom and candid advice — tune in! Want Tori to answer YOUR question? Submit your questions to Tori via voicemail Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/151-ask-tori-buying-a-car-balance-transfers-and-choosing-the-best-credit-cards/. Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz Mentioned in this episode: Recommended credit cards Run For Something Episodes on negotiating: Negotiate with confidence Negotiate like a woman Episodes on emotional spending & financial trauma: Building Your Money Game Plan Identity-Based Personal Finance Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    34 mins