Did you know that horniness is one of hundreds of reasons folks feel motivated to have sex? It’s not even the most common. Understanding your own desire and creating what sex and relationship therapist Cyndi Darnell calls your erotic template can help you cultivate an erotically charged sex life, whether you’re single or partnered. 

Learn about common libido myths, the difference between responsive and spontaneous desire, the role somatics can play in desire challenges and more.

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Writer, performer and producer, Judy Calabrese took a chance on being a switch and ended up gaining far more pleasure than she’d anticipated. Certified sex educator and sex worker, Elle Stanger, learned something new about her body during an impromptu experience in a gay bar bathroom. 

Topics you’ll hear about:

Dominatrix work and BDSM, as a newbie

Erotic spanking 

Squirting, aka “she-jaculation” or “female ejaculation”

Sex work, including an important myth set straight

Check out Judy and Elle’s stories in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2: 69 Sexy Stories: https://bit.ly/3bgQG9k - edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel

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In this Girl Boner quickie, August explores skin-gasms then shares five smart and spicy ways to pleasure your biggest organ.

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Pleasure, connection, mindblowing sex! Frank Wiegers grew up during World War II, in a sexually repressive environment. Today, the former fighter pilot and Vietnam War veteran embraces “magical sex,” and teaches others how to invite and make the most of the same.

In addition to Frank’s personal journey, you’ll learn:

What “magical sex” is, including 4 stages

Activities that can deepen pleasure and connection

How (and why) to apply sex magick after sex

A ritual Frank and Judith practice to keep the spark alive

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A few things you’ll learn about:

• How submission and powerfulness aren’t mutually exclusive!
• The pitfalls and pleasures of hers-and-hers squirting
• What it was like for Liz to pass as straight
• Ways sexual self-discovery and embodiment can enhance your life

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Did you know the first fairy tales were written by women as feminist critiques? Fairy tales of all kinds can influence what we believe and experience around sex and relationships. Take it from August, a power dynamics expert/former dominatrix and a giantess dominatrix with over 20 years of experience. 

 A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:

• The original fairy tales, which were written as feminist critiques of patriarchy 
• The storyline of the first fairy tale, by Baroness Marie Catherine d’Aulnoy
• How “Sleeping Beauty” parallels power struggles many women face today, with thoughts from Kashia Urbaniak
• How a Mother Goose story brought out kinky curiosity in Goddess Severa early on
• How Goddess Severa went from broke in NYC to a thriving dominatrix career, how her first session went down and what she loves about her work

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If you’ve struggled to ask for what you want sexually or aren’t even sure what to aim for, you are far from alone. Kait Scalisi, MPH, founder of Passion by Kait, grew up in a household where no conversation topics were taboo, but conflict was. She now helps others find freedom in pleasure.

A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:

• Positive versus negative messages about sex and conflict Kait absorbed growing up
• Kait’s advice for figuring out what you actually want in bed
• Kait’s thoughts on listeners’ desires and how to bring them up
• A sex communication tip Kait feels is super impactful and underexplored 
• Why slipping out during sex happens and what to do about it

Learn more from Kait and her team and get awesome related resources at passionbykait.com!

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Have you ever wondered if you orgasm “weird?” August hears about that a lot. The truth is, there are many ways of experiencing orgasm and all of those Os are valid.

A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:

• First orgasm stories of Lynn Anderton, Dr. Lanae St. John and Jayne Renault, all of which took them by surprise
• 7 types of “female orgasms,” including sleep-gasms, back-gasms, cervical orgasm and more
• What we tend to get wrong when talking about “clitoral” and “vaginal” orgasms
• 3 types of orgasm penis owners may experience
• Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who wonders if using a vibrator consistently can make it difficult to climax without one

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