In this enlightening episode, we sit down with James Harden, a 25-year-old real estate agent, to explore the profound insights he's gained on the path to success. James shares the invaluable lesson of learning to trust oneself and one's abilities, emphasizing its pivotal role in achieving one's goals. We delve into the wellspring of motivation, uncovering how it can be drawn from both positive and negative life experiences. Additionally, James offers sage advice on self-management and discipline as essential tools for personal and professional growth. Join us for an engaging conversation filled with wisdom and inspiration, as we unlock the secrets to success with James Harden. This podcast is a treasure trove of insights you won't want to miss!

My Podcast Set-Up:

- Camera: Iphone 12 mini set to 4k & 60fps

- Zoom PodTrak P4 Podcast Recorder - MAONO XLR Podcast Microphone

- OneOdio Wired Over Ear Headphones - Mic Stands

- Mic Windscreen

Guest Info:

Insta: https://instagram.com/_uncutjames?igshid=MWZjMTM2ODFkZg==

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncutjames_?_t=8fosrXIPwmU&_r=1

HS Info:

https://www.youtube.com/@HumanizingSuccess

https://www.tiktok.com/@humanizingsuccesss?_t=8ceOrtXXKMU&_r=1

https://www.instagram.com/humanizingsuccess/?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D

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01:35 Intro

02:57 Grinding the Real Estate Game

04:22 When you picture success, what comes to mind?

04:54 Learning to trust yourself

07:17 Winging it!

07:57 Understanding the struggles that come along with becoming a real estate agent

09:17 Delayed Consequences

11:12 Where can you draw motivation from?

12:17 Fear-based decisions

13:17 What promises that you made to yourself, are you having trouble following through on?

13:59 Being hyper-focused can have its downsides as well

14:52 Growing up in a “build it yourself” household

15:27 Feeling guilty doing things you enjoy, is that right?

16:55 Negative self-talk

17:32 Having conversations with yourself

18:42 The importance of being honest with yourself

21:00 How to determine if you are making enough effort towards your goals

22:00 How to evaluate and compare ourselves to the people we want to be like

24:00 Can you pinpoint moments in your childhood that created the person you are today?

26:05 What role do failures play in your life?

27:15 Accessing unnecessary painful outcomes

28:15 Terrible drivers + stories

32:07 How do your surroundings affect you?

33:07 The Sub-To Community by Pace Morby

33:42 Did you do it all yourself?

35:47 Having a mentor

37:57 Is succeeding worth the risk of putting yourself in debt?

42:27 What are you most proud of in your life so far?

43:57 Building trust with yourself

47:57 Getting different perspectives

48:17 Word Association