We're getting uncomfortably honest today.

In this episode, I continue the conversation I began early in January, to support you with invaluable mindset and perspective shifts, and the knowledge to empower yourself to make the best decisions for your horse, to get the best outcomes with their health and your relationship with them throughout 2026, the year of the Fire Horse.

Invisible Walls

Many dedicated owners are following protocols, investing in care, researching, and trying every recommended solution, yet true wellness still feels just out of reach. That is often not due to a lack of effort, but invisible internal walls that unintentionally block any progress. Those walls are built from habit, fear, and misplaced trust in external systems, rather than relying on direct feedback from the horse. Once you see them, meaningful change begins to happen. You can’t change what you can’t see. But once the patterns become visible, everything can shift.

Wall #1: Prioritizing Being Right Over Being Responsive

Conventional wisdom often overrides individual feedback. Feeding charts, supplement labels, trimming schedules, and doing “what everyone does” can become more important than what your horse is showing you. Textbook health is based on averages and generalizations, whereas your horse’s health is based on its unique metabolism, stress response, digestion, genetics, and environment.

Standardized Models

No research paper applies universally to every horse. Horses living in the same herd, on the same feed, and in the same environment, will still show completely different imbalances and needs. When we force them into standardized models, we risk damaging their health trying to make them fit systems that were never designed for them.

Real progress begins when feedback takes precedence over protocol.

Textbook Health

Textbook health is theoretical and based on statistical significance. It gets repeated as a universal truth. Individual health is dynamic and constantly changing. Your horse doesn’t care about recommended feeding charts or daily minimums. It cares about what its body needs today.

True responsiveness means asking: Is this actually improving observable wellness? If not, it’s not working. no matter how good the reviews are.

Wall #2: Fear Disguised as Control

Over-management often stems from anxiety. Restricting turnout to prevent injury, limiting forage to control weight, isolating horses for safety, and excessive blanketing to prevent cold can create the fragility they were meant to prevent.

Fear-based Management

Horses are designed to move, graze, socially regulate, and adapt to weather. When those natural systems are suppressed, metabolic dysfunction, ulcers, behavioral issues, weakened hooves, and chronic stress can follow. Fear-based management creates systems that require even more management.

Allowing horses live more naturally builds resilience. Micromanagement builds dependence.

Control = Anxiety

Control is often anxiety projected onto the horse’s body. A powerful shift occurs when the question changes from “How do I prevent every possible problem?” to “What does my horse need to become more resilient?”

Wall #3: Trusting Protocols More Than Feedback

Supplements, feeding systems, and management routines are tools, not guarantees. When supplements or medications continue for months without any noticeable improvement, when balanced feeds do not result in better coats or stronger hooves, when calming supplements replace environmental or training changes, it means protocol has replaced feedback.

Supplements

Supplements should function as feedback tools, not permanent fixes. Management should serve the horse’s biology, not the owner’s...

Welcome to our 100th podcast episode!

In the last episode, we discussed permitting yourself to trust your instincts. Today, we continue that discussion, diving even deeper into the topic.

Tuning In

Horses are constantly communicating their needs, but we often stop noticing the subtle ways they demonstrate how they feel physically, emotionally, and instinctually. By slowing down, tuning in, calming down, and asking what they need, we can start seeing them clearly again.

Physical Silence

Early intervention means noticing whispers of pain before they escalate. Horses often show early discomfort through subtle cues, such as stiffness, girth sensitivity, or reluctance to move, but those signals are often dismissed as personality quirks. Ignoring physical signs can ultimately lead to chronic health problems.

Emotional Silence

When horses express anxiety or stress, and it is dismissed or medicated rather than addressed, they stop communicating their emotional needs. Separation anxiety, behavioral stress, and high arousal are not problems to suppress. They’re messages that require consistent attention, gradual training, and emotional support to rebuild trust.

Instinctual Silence

Ignoring the natural biology of a horse (Social needs, movement requirements, and grazing behavior) creates systemic stress, metabolic dysfunction, and delayed healing. With long-term confinement, isolation, or mismanaged diets, horses become quiet, masking their real health and welfare needs.

Human Awareness

Our own anxiety, busyness, or problem-focused mindset can block communication. Horses mirror our nervous state, so pausing, grounding yourself, and observing calmly allows subtle signals to emerge. Daily wellness check-ins, curiosity-driven observation, and tracking patterns will help you identify root causes before problems escalate.

Re-establishing Communication

Shift from “What’s wrong?” to “What does my horse need?” Focus on body, mind, and spirit. Pause, breathe, and observe before taking action. Small, consistent practices, including meditative observation and affirmations, can help you maintain a focused mindset, reinforce trust, and encourage your horse to start communicating once again.

Tracking Patterns

Observe your horse’s energy, movement, social behavior, and emotional responses every day. Look for correlations with diet, herd dynamics, weather, or schedule changes. Noticing patterns allows early intervention, supports holistic well-being, and prevents symptoms from worsening.

Prevention and Wellness

Horses never stop talking. By creating space to listen and responding thoughtfully, you become a true health advocate. Supporting wellness instead of chasing symptoms fosters partnership, helps catch issues early, and leverages your horse’s innate wisdom for better health outcomes.

Links and resources:

Connect with Elisha Edwards on her website.

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We’re talking about permission today.

In last month’s Firehorse Fierce episode, we briefly touched on permission-seeking. Today, I clarify what that really means.

Too often, we turn to another professional opinion, recommendation, or protocol before fully understanding what we are facing. The truth is, you know your horse better than anyone. So, this episode is about allowing yourself to trust what you already see in their eyes, feel in their body, and sense in their energy.

Permission Starts With You

Permission does not come from professionals, protocols, or expert opinions. It comes from you. In an industry full of strong opinions and conflicting advice, it’s easy to believe you need someone else to validate what you already see. But as your horse’s primary caregiver, you are the one who knows their baseline, their patterns, and when something feels off. That lived knowledge truly matters.

Waiting vs. Being Paralyzed

There is a difference between pausing to calm your fear so you can make a clear decision and being paralyzed while waiting for external permission. Most hesitation comes from fear of being wrong, not from lack of care. When your doubt delays your decisions, the horse often pays the cost.

Outside Opinions

Every outside opinion can quietly erode trust in your own observations. Over time, decision-making shifts away from the horse and toward outside voices, even though your horse is communicating clearly through changes in energy, movement, digestion, and behavior. Those early signals are meaningful. Disease seldom shows up loudly; it builds through whispers long before it screams.

Expert Support

Professional support has a place, but professionals are consultants, not permission givers. You remain the decision-maker. True advocacy means staying grounded in what your horse is showing you while using outside expertise to support, not override, that awareness. Flexibility matters far more than rigid adherence to any single philosophy.

When You Trust Yourself

When you give yourself permission to listen and act, everything changes. Communication becomes clearer, stress decreases, and trust deepens. When their whispers are heard, horses don’t need to scream. Your horse is counting on you to trust what you already know.

Links and resources:

Connect with Elisha Edwards on her website.

Healing Horses their Way: Get more information and join the waitlist