In this intimate and thought-provoking episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, Ed sits down with powerhouse couple Doug and Heather Boneparth—co-founders of Bonafide Wealth and co-authors of an upcoming book that dives deep into the intersection of love, money, and trauma. But this isn't just a story of professional success—it's a raw, unfiltered look at the real journey behind the scenes: a couple navigating early adulthood in the throes of a recession, redefining roles around ambition and financial contribution, and learning to recalibrate their relationship through the evolving seasons of marriage, parenthood, and business. From grappling with shifting power dynamics and gender roles to reclaiming shared ambition after years of imbalance, Doug and Heather open up about the invisible labor, emotional recalibration, and personal transformation required to keep their relationship strong. Whether you're in a relationship, building a business with your partner, or simply trying to figure out how love and money can coexist—this episode will challenge your perspective, inspire reflection, and remind you that the dance of marriage is messy, beautiful, and always evolving.

Key Takeaways:

• How do couples navigate ambition and financial roles within a relationship while maintaining mutual respect and balance?

• What challenges arise when transitioning from traditional career roles to shared entrepreneurship, and how do partners support each other through these shifts?

• How can couples continuously recalibrate their relationship and financial dynamics to reflect changing life circumstances and maintain equity?

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) - From college sweethearts to financial partners

(05:00) - Defining “collective ambition” in a marriage

(08:00) - Redefining masculinity and partnership in finances

(12:30) - Marriage isn’t a “set it and forget it” model

(14:00) - The invisible labor of love and money

(16:00) - Redefining contribution beyond income

(21:00) - Walking it out: conflict resolution on the move

(23:00) - The emotional toll of leaving corporate life

(33:00) - Letting go of the “conflict-free relationship” myth

(34:30) - Spotting when it’s time to switch roles

(38:00) - Financial recalibration in new life seasons

Key Topics Discussed:

Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Couples and money, Financial planning for millennials, Marriage and financial equity, Love and money podcast, Navigating money and relationships, Douglas and Heather Boneparth

Mentions:

Website: https://www.readthejointaccount.com/

Email: themergebook@gmail.com

More of Healthy Love & Money:

Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/

Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/

Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com

Healthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not...

Ed interviews Justin and Hailey Brown-Woods, the dynamic couple behind the 'Price of Avocado Toast' podcast and financial coaching business. The Brown-Woods share their personal journey from receiving a $600,000 wrongful death settlement to blowing through the money and accruing $220,000 in debt, and how they turned their financial hardships into a mission to help others. They discuss the origins of their podcast name, the impact of their similar humble upbringings, and their transformation through effective communication about money. They also delve into their unique approaches to financial counseling and education, emphasizing the importance of dreaming big, staying present, and de-stigmatizing money conversations. The episode provides valuable insights into how couples can navigate financial struggles, improve their financial health, and build a strong, supportive relationship.

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) - The Origin of 'Price of Avocado Toast'

(04:17) - The Pumpkin Muffin Story

(05:39) - Blowing Through $600,000

(10:15) - Destigmatizing Money Conversations

(14:38) - Healthy Communication Practices

(19:55) - Managing Sensitivity in Relationships

(24:16) - Redefining Masculinity and Vulnerability

(29:07) - Supporting Each Other's Growth

(34:28) - Evolving Financial Coaching Practices

(37:03) - Balancing Dreams and Reality

Key Topics Discussed:

Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples

Mentions:

Website: https://www.priceofavocadotoast.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/priceofavocadotoast

Mentions: Happy Money Happy Life by Jason Vitug

More of Healthy Love & Money:

Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/

Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/

Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com

Healthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.

In this episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, I’m honored to welcome back Derek Hagan, financial psychology expert and founder of Meaningful Money. We explore the deep emotional ties we have to money, the way wealth impacts identity, and the myths we carry about financial success. Derek shares his insights on why many people believe money will solve their problems, how financial decisions are influenced by subconscious beliefs, and why changing our money mindset is often harder than we expect.

Quotes:

Key Moments:

⏳ [1:00] Derek’s realization about brain surgery and how it relates to financial psychology

⏳ [3:45] The myth of the “quick fix” in money therapy and why real change takes time

⏳ [7:30] The power of storytelling and the beliefs we carry about wealth

⏳ [12:00] A real-life client case study on spending, identity, and financial grief

⏳ [18:40] How our financial behaviors are often shaped by childhood experiences

⏳ [25:15] Why wealth doesn’t guarantee happiness and the emotional impact of sudden wealth

⏳ [32:10] The hidden ways we “signal” financial success and why it matters

⏳ [40:20] How financial stress distorts our perception of other people’s money situations

⏳ [47:05] Finding a healthy balance between external validation and intrinsic self-worth

Resources & Links:

🔗 Connect with Derek Hagan:

• Website: Meaning.blog
• LinkedIn: Derek Hagan
• Twitter: @MoneyHealthGuy

📖 Recommended Books & Resources:

• The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel
• Hardwiring Happiness by Rick Hanson
• Strangers in Paradise by James Grubman

💡 Connect with Ed Coambs:

• Website: Healthy Love and Money
• Instagram: @HealthyLoveAndMoney
• LinkedIn: Ed Coambs

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This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and reflects my experiences as a financial therapist and Certified Financial Planner™. It is not a substitute for professional financial, legal, or mental health advice. Every person’s situation is unique, and I encourage seeking personalized...