In this episode, I discuss why you never try to sell yourself to new women you hope to date. I also talk about the right way to impress new women in a way that does not make you look desperate (like most guys might do).

This is important because the better she looks and the more you think you have a chance, the more likely you are to sell yourself or try to impress her (the wrong way). Listen now for more on all of this.

Episode Notes:

RR39. Don’t sell yourself. Sell the experience of being around you.

• Don’t be one of those guys who tries to impress someone with facts and details about who you are and what you have.
• Most women don’t care about facts and details about a guy until they start feeling attracted to that guy.
• Most women are ONLY impressed and attracted to a new guy once they start enjoying the experience of being around him.
• When you’re charming, fun, and easy to be around, you’re selling the experience of being around you.
• New people who you like quickly are people who are cool and fun and easy to be around (not the most “impressive” ones or the people who “sold” themselves to you).

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Quote to Remember:

“If you’re saying something about yourself to share information about who you are, that’s great. If you’re about to say something to make yourself sound like a good partner to her or because you think you’ll impress her and she’ll like you, STOP. Just, don’t do that!”

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