In this episode: “If I Try & Fail... Don’t Judge Me!”, we heavily discuss the fear of being judged and how paralyzing that fear can be on the things we achieve in our lives.

Below are some of the main notes of the show. I pray it blesses you as much as it did me! :)

This Episode's Show Notes:

A lot of times, we are so afraid to be judged… that it makes us afraid to live…

afraid to try and fail at anything…

afraid be human…

afraid to show any form of vulnerability because we are so concerned about what people will think, or feel or say… 

But I have news for you…

People will (only) see you how you see yourself. 

So if you see yourself as unworthy or unimportant, that’s how you’ll show up in the world, therefore that’s how people will perceive you because that’s what you’re putting out there.

They’ll only know you by who you show them you are. 

Example… you may have just started listening to my podcast. You may not have ever met or spoken to me until now… so you’ll only know me by who I show you over time that I am. Then overtime, that new perception of me will replace the initial one that you had when you first met or heard me.

That’s how it works. That’s how connections are formed and relationships are developed. Over time. 

Now don’t get me wrong… We all, as human beings, instinctively judge others at first sight to gauge if we are safe or if our fight or flight senses need to kick in…

But understanding that we are all humans navigating our individual journeys… all just trying to do the best we can… we can’t let the “possibility” of what people may think deter us from what we know and feel is best for us.

We can’t be afraid to live our lives because someone is else is afraid to live theirs. 

… And because no human being has the power or potential to be able to say with confidence that they know (for a fact) what another person is thinking, saying, or feeling about them on the inside (unless it’s directly spoken outwardly)…

And what if they are, what’s the worst that will happen??? Really.

You’ll overcome it and move on with your life like you have everything else that you’ve dealt with in your life up until this point. You’ll survive like you always have.  

So… again… The reality is that no one is judging you but yourself.

The way you choose to see yourself is your only limitation.

You’re only limited by your own perceived limitations… meaning what you think you can or can’t do, can or can’t have, can or can’t become.

The moment you step outside of that “limiting” box, and step out on faith… you’ll be surprised by what you are really capable of.

You are more capable than you imagine.

We all have it in us to do things that we haven’t done before. 

But… You’ll only (continue to) reflect back from others the mirror that you perceive yourself to be. 

You’ll only perceive through the eyes of others what you really, genuinely feel about yourself.

So it’s up to you to accept the challenge or not to do the hard work on yourself that will allow you to live your best possible life. The life that you really want for yourself and for your family… the life that God really wants for you. 

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Until next time! 

Xo 😘